im in a situation Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

So i met a guy over the weekend - he lives 3 hours away. So i went down today to see him and we hung out and hit up the mall. He asked if he could borrow some cash for 3 pairs of jeans and i would get paid back when we got to his house cuz his mom would swing by with the money. I at first said no i really cant i lost my job and i have to pay my room mate 500 dollars tonight then he was like well ull get paid back tonight

so i finally was like fine but i need the cash tonight so we get the jeans (total 115.45 dollars) we get to his house and his mom said she needs to get ready then i got a bit impatient cuz i was supposed to be at a toyota meet at 6:30 pm and it was already 6pm and he said well why dont you go up north and ill bring u the cash tonight cuz im gonna go up there and see a friend anyways tonight. So i was like no i can wait then he had a hissy fit about how i dont ever trust him and i was like ha ive only known u 4 days i dont know u well enough to trust you or not to trust you.

So i finally was like fine

So i call him and say hey sorry for not trusting you its just im broke right now and i need the money

he then calls me back 2 hours later saying he cant get a hold of his mom. and said he would bring the jeans to me tomorrow and i could take them back - i didnt argue with that then he was like well i did order u a 3sgte today so why are you bitching and i was like WELL WHEN I SEE THE 3sgte ILL BELIEVE IT!

so he says he has to get off the phone cuz his mom is calling so i was like ok

so i get online an hour later and i was like so what your mom say and he said she said she would bring the money to me tomorrow and that its f'd up that you dont trust me

and i said did u tell her that i was supposed to have the cash tonight and that im now negative in my bank account? so basically it came down to i need to learn to trust and i shouldnt be complaining cuz he ordered me a 3sgte

i really doubt the 3sgte is on its way here.

but so do i call the mom tomorrow evening if i dont hear from him and ask what the deal is? i dont wanna be crazy stalker girl but i honestly thought i would get the money. its not like he said hey can i get this money and ill pay you back in a week. it was i would get the money within 2 hours.

Natalie


This week sucks - 1. Room mate 2. Ticket 3. Lost my job 4. ****ty Guy

[Yota]

dude sounds like he's playing you...

[jojobombiest]

If his mom doesn't bring you the money tomorrow, then you have the right to get mad at him for not getting it to you because he promised tomorrow. Thats what I think.

[Yota]

here, lemme send you $5 to cover the loss. lol

[Kwanza26]

I think you should break something of his...

I'm too proud to borrow money... Gotta earn my way...

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ha i could break his evo he supposedly has that i havent seen
maybe the supra i havent seen
the older rx7 in good condition i HAVE seen

hmmm...whos coming with me to break into the house?

[saleeka]

girl, you got PLAYED... dont EVER buy your man things until its a holiday/birthday, DUH!!! please the only presents they get is getting to h*t it.... shame shame

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I WASNT BUYING - i was letting him borrow the cash for 2 hours :-( so yes i got played but i was not buying well i guess i did buy

i need to stop being nice

i give my money away like it aint nothing

[macavely]

ok first thing.. don't trust this guy.. and guy that will ask a girl he just meet a few days earler for money is not a man.. and i really don't think you will ever see that money back from him... call hes mom and tell her what happened.. if that doesn't work... get the guys from 6gc to who ride on his ass

[saleeka]

ohh and another thing- why is he so interested in clothes? MMMHMMM please believe somthing is wrong when someone with your chest is in the backround! (no offence im just observing the cruel truth)... yuck i just want to slap him right now for you... 'why dont you trust me?..." PLEASE I DONT KNOW YOU! Way to TRY to pretend your a winner...

This post has been edited by saleeka: Dec 1, 2004 - 2:17 AM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

are you saying hes gay? i believe he is not ;-) hahahahaha!

[saleeka]

ha no but a real man with priorities in the pocket and not the pants arent to be trusted...

[Blakout16]

are you sure ur not on MTV boiling points? whatever u do, dont explode.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i wish i was on YOU GOT A FRIEND and i get 15,000 at the end\
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but i guess i would have lost by now sinc ei told u all

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 1, 2004 - 2:36 AM

[creis]

he is no good, unless he is like 14, why did him mom get involved, time to grow up i say. i doubt the 3s is on its way or ever will be (would be tight though) dont trust him, 4 days and barrowing money, he = broke, try and get your money back, and dich him.

I'm lost saleeka, Inow guys with there priorities in there pants are the ones to be trusted, I'm glad I like girls, and dont have to deal with all our BS.

[orvillescelica]

sorry Natalie, i have to agree with these guys. So he supposably bought you a 3sgte after knowing you for four days? He has an Evo and a Supra but no credit card? He tries to hold over you the fact that he got you a 3s and says "why dont you trust me" after 4 days and is not simpathetic to your financial situation. This is not a good guy. Hes a broke, lying moocher.

Sorry if you really like this guy, but thats how we all see it.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ha i only like him cuz girls like ass holes

[acenova]

Damn Natalie, you got played, seriously!!! You're right to be untrusting and any guy that flips out about you not trusting him, that should be all the reason in the world not to trust him. Especially a guy that has to get his money from his mom!!! And then he you actually believe he's got an EVO and a f**king supra?! Seriously, first off, a guy shouldn't be asking a random girl for money in the first place. I wouldn't even ask my girlfriend for money!!! Geez, I mean come on, everything this guy said, did, and everything about this guy SCREAMS untrustworthy.

[Yota]

Natalie..open your eyes... Girls don't like guys like this. Get your money and run. And be careful while getting the money. Nothing says there isn't a chance of you getting really hurt here (physically). He's already pissed off that you dont trust him, how do you know he won't over react or something and hit you the next time you see him...
Please be careful, this isn't a good situation for you to be in.

[boosted_K2]

you trusted some guy you met 4 days prior with 114 dollars....?

[Sh0gunkid8721]

whoaaa...a girl liking the a**hole rather than goin for the nice guy? theres a shock.

p.s. This isnt directed at you Natalie, cuz i think ur a cool girl; but girls definately deserve that sometimes.

This post has been edited by Sh0gunkid8721: Dec 1, 2004 - 3:58 AM

[saleeka]

people always like what they cant have...

This post has been edited by saleeka: Dec 1, 2004 - 4:52 PM

[zachattack15]

Does he have a job? He should have 115 dollars somewhere he could pay you back with.

[shid]

You got played girl

[C3L1CA]

How can he have an Evo and a Supra and not have $114? He also has to get his mommy to pay you back. Why did you trust this guy at all

[BlackCelicaGT94]

so i called the shop he supposedly ordered the motor from

there was a call and interest was shown but it has not been paid for

funny how he told me this guy owes him a motor! hmmm!!

so i told the guy to cancel trying to find one or anything cuz i dont think cory would come thru and hes like well ill call him

haha so great now im gonna get a call from cory saying YOU DONT TRUST ME blahb lah blah

i just want my 120 then ditch his ass!

[chucho]

I need some money for this phone i saw

[Consynx]

the kids a bish, from the sounds of it he lives at home, talks a lot, likes to shop, and expects the impossible...

It was worth a shot to get a good 3S, but please...most deals are too good to be true.

[Consynx]

on another note...why don't you come my way
i got some stuff you can buy me when you find work...

[Jonathan]

LOL !

[BlackCelicaGT94]

HE JUST THREATENED TO STEAL MY CAR!

oh its on...he said he can get my address from the shop - im calling them tomorrow telling htem to not give out my address - if they do im sueing.

im going to file a report tomorrow just so that its noted also


i called him saying im tired of the lies - u said ud have my money two hours after i lent it to ya, then it turned into around midnight hta tnight u would bring it up, then it was ud bring it today then u said that ur friend gave it to u tonight but if u paid me then u wouldnt have money to pay your street racing fines and would be deported back to austrailia and i said thats fine, then ur saying ull probably bring it tomorrow - i need it now!

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 2, 2004 - 12:47 AM

[ghostdog]

wow is this bizzaro world or what? you lent some guy you've known for 4 days 114 dollars and believed him when he told you he's got all these expensive cars etc. I'm sorry but if you get screwed could it possibly be your own fault?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i didnt believe the cars first of all - i sat there from the get go being like oh ill believe it when i see it - am i trusting with money? yes! but i did not trust the cars

[shid]

i didnt believe the cars first of all - i sat there from the get go being like oh ill believe it when i see it - am i trusting with money? yes! but i did not trust the cars
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That makes no sense.

[shadycrew31]

hmm another reason why god invented me.... ok so you stalk the guy find out everything about him. then you must screw his life up. find his girlfreind and tell her youve been letting him screw you for the past 6 months so she flips. next tell his parents that your a concerned shrink from work/school that you found heroine in his blood system. next call in his work and tell them that. he is stealing money from them... hahah and now his life sucks. he has nothing thanks to me and you. or you could just think im a crazy ass.

[CheesyLobster]

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You shouldn't have given him money in the first place. It was inappropriate of him to ask you for that much money if you only knew him 4 days. As for the other stuff, it looks like you've got yourself into quite a situation. Good luck getting out of it.

Loose this guy asap.

This post has been edited by CheesyLobster: Dec 2, 2004 - 2:52 AM

[Benevolence]

hmm another reason why god invented me.... ok so you stalk the guy find out everything about him. then you must screw his life up. find his girlfreind and tell her youve been letting him screw you for the past 6 months so she flips. next tell his parents that your a concerned shrink from work/school that you found heroine in his blood system. next call in his work and tell them that. he is stealing money from them... hahah and now his life sucks. he has nothing thanks to me and you. or you could just think im a crazy ass.
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I say do the opposite and just learn from your mistake(s). Ask him one more time for him to repay you, if he cops out again just count it as a loss and don't bother with this loser anymore, sorry this happened to you but if you atleast learned something from this it wasn't all in vain.

[madmods]

Alright, Im booking a flight to washington. Anybody messes with you they are going to mess with me! Im driving his evo back though! the Az desert is full of lifes problems

[amysmojo]

Alright, Im booking a flight to washington. Anybody messes with you they are going to mess with me!   Im driving his evo back though! the Az desert is full of lifes problems
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Lets all go kick this dudes ass! Who else wants to go????

[dabbill]

You got played, use it as a learning lesson and move on. Its your fault for loaning some one, you dont know, money. Life sucks. People suck more. Move on.

[1900WattCelica]

This guy reminds me of a "friend" I used to have...who could get most girls that couldnt see through his good looks and charm, all that was beneath was a habitual liar who would con his dad out of money and only out to get his jimmy wet. By the way he was 18..what a loser.

This guy is a loser

The moral of the story boys and girls is dont ever lend money out to someone until you know them. You dont know him after 4 days. Until then....its not your problem.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

He threatened to steal my car - ITS ON LIKE DONKEY KONG - LONG AND STRONG!!!!

and if my address gets out by this shop i will sue them :-D hehe or so i like to think id have the bawls to do so

[Digndoug]

****, Steal his car.. or at least his wheels, then sell them, they should be worth more then $115

[Supersprynt]

Only you Natalie could pull something like this off.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ill take that as a compliment ERIK :-)

[madmods]

I'll need the wheels to drive back to AZ But you can have them afterwards!

[Consynx]

who is this fool, and how did you even meet him

[BlackCelicaGT94]

thru cars - damn the guys i meet thru cars - u guys are always a$$e$

[chucho]

not all of us are a$$e$ but maybe they are in the northwest

[LatinKraze]

Someone needs to move outta state.

I would take his addy and distribute it on the forum so that all of us can subscribe him to a crizzap load of mail in stuff. I think it would be fun.

[amysmojo]

the scary thing is that this guy lives about 15 miles from me...ahh!

[LatinKraze]

If you have his email addy, ask him for your money back...include the amount, the date you let him borrow the money, the date he agreed to pay you back. If he responds to the email admitting to the information you wrote to him and he still does not pay you back then use the email to sue him for it, even if it is a $100+. If that is not an option use your cell phone to record the convo between you guys. As mentioned above, make sure you specify the amount, the date you loaned him the money and have him say when he's gonna pay you back......or forget about the whole thing and accept the loss.

This post has been edited by LatinKraze: Dec 4, 2004 - 6:20 PM