ahh a question to everyone!, workplace dating???? Options

[shadycrew31]

ok so me and this girl have been hanging out at work all week... and i really like her shes such an awesome girl. just amazing.. shes smart, really nice, shes funny and just yea.. oh yea and shes really hot way past super hot. but the dilema is we work together.,,, and i dont know if i should tell her that i like her. i dont wanna mess up the workplace or our friendship. today i bought her chicken nuggets and i put gas in her car. i think that was a sign enough that i liked her. but she really liked it and told me how sweet it was. i dunno guys im stuck.!? last in work realtionship i had, ended with her cheating on me with 9 guys. please help me..

[amysmojo]

Ive only dated someone I worked w/ once b4. It was kinda fun now & then cause we had to pretend like nothin was going on haha. Anyway it didnt get serious or anything & he actually ended up dating & marrying another co-worker haha...

I think office dating can be good, but you gotta be sure it doesnt put ur job @ risk........You said the last girl was dating 9 other guys???? theres only 7 days in a frikin week! How the hell did she ever pull that off lol

This post has been edited by amysmojo: Dec 2, 2004 - 2:42 AM

[macavely]

don't do it.. don't mix work and play.. to many girls out there to mess up your paycheck over..

[CheesyLobster]

Don't just tell her "I like you." Invite her out to dinner or something, talk with her, etc. Don't just spend money on her, or she might use you. If you do end up going out, don't let people at work know.

BTW, what is your job?

[shadycrew31]

hmm... well thak you for your reply's i did not get to tell her. i seem to be drunk right now. so bare with me. i feel as though i ruined my chances. shes the girl of my dreams.i just got to tell her.. my point is that she seems to be changing the subject everytime i talk about realationships.. were as before she didnt. she was coool with it. so what can i say to make her want e. i think i may ****ed up gettin so faded. but 3 4 shot screwdrivers may do that. botttom line is what can i do to let this girl know that i want her?

edited for drunkeness! sorry bout that

This post has been edited by shadycrew31: Dec 2, 2004 - 3:45 PM

[macavely]

hmm... well thak you for your reply's i dd ot get to trll her. i seem to e drunk right now. so bare with e. i feel as though i ruined my chances. shes the girl of my dreams.i jujst got to tell er.. y point is that she seems to be changing the subject everytime i tasll about realatiodhips.. were as before she didnt. se was coool with it. so what can i say to make her want e. i think i may ****ed up gettin so drizzzled. but 3 4 shot screwdrivers may do theat (4) oth the. botttom line is what can i do to ake this girl know that i want her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
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just tell her you want to twister her out... you'll be suprised how well that works some time... but while you say stand 4 feet away cause when it doesn't work.. you don't want to get bitch slapped.. at work..lol

[Supersprynt]

Depends on how close u work with her. If by chance you guys dont wokr out and things are weird, are you going to dread going to work everyday? I'd advise not putting gas in her car thats like giving her money and she'll hang around you for the wrong reasons.

Are you guys going out seperate from work? If not just ask her out on a date. If she says no then oh well you arent going anywhere with her.

[madmods]

I dated this girl at work, and i told her not to tell anybody becuz they gossip alot, but she opened up her mouth. its funny 5 years later people are stay asking me if i dated her. I always denied it. its like nobodys business. If your happy and shes hot bro, i say go for it!

[shadycrew31]

supersprint and mad mods i thank you for the comments. im just gonna say hey wanna go out tommrow night. so yea i cant seem to remmeber anything about last night at all. all i have is my edited drunk post. finlanda gets you goin man. the only thing i hate about vodka is the after taste in the morning.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well id go for it if i were you. its completely different i feel when u work in an office but u work at blockbuster right? so theres no harm in it

[shadycrew31]

true but i dont know ...i think i said something stupid last night and pissed her off. i wanna go see a movie with her but we work at blockuster so that might be dumb. i lost all my game when i moved to la. i think its what happens when you live on your own you lose your game.

[Digndoug]

i wanna go see a movie with her but we work at blockuster so that might be dumb.
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HAHA no thats the best, I asked a girl out to geta cup of coffe somtime, an she works at a coffe place. lol

[Gilbert_619]

damm and i thought three was a crowd 9 is a gang bang

workplace is tough if your going for it make sure you going to be with her for a while...i dint think you just want to hook up then look at her all week

[forkee]

i date disney chicks all the time. its a great place to meet 'em

[DamDirtyApes]

im dating a cashier i work with

[creis]

Go for it, but take it slow, so if you realize it and for real, they you can end it befor it gets to far to hurt your job.

[SlowCelica94]

I've done the work thing. Here's some great advice a friend gave me

If it works, don't f*ck with it. If it f*cks, don't work with it.

[shadycrew31]

hahaha thats funny. i still dunno how to bring it up and let her know how i feel. so im just gonan sya hey i like you just like that randomly.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

hang out with her outside of work first before saying that

just be like hey what you doing tonight and when says nothing you reply with well why dont we go hit up a movie or something


its easy like that

[chucho]

Dont do it, trust me been there done that. Stay away from it

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Chucho - he works at blockbuster

[shadycrew31]

well we have been hanging out all week long. i dunno i think i went into the friend catogory... once you get filtered there your stuck as a friend forever.

[Uppitycracker]

I think it should go without saying when 2 people like each other, if you like her then Im sure she knows and vise versa, dont do anything silly like telling her, then she'll move on to the next guy because your no challenge and really really take it slow, like Mac said, you don't wanna mess up your job over some fling. If anything have a little fun and leave it at that, no stirings attached.

And as for being stuck as a friend, thats not true at all, just spend time with her and ****, but spend time with other girls to, thats the test, you'll know if shes jealous or not when you talk about them, girls take you for granted when you are available, so try not to seem available. That doesnt work after a week though, maybe a few months.

Its easy to understand this stuff, but doing it is another story watch the movie "Tao of Steve" it basically confirms everything Ive been formulating in my head about girls since I was 13.

This post has been edited by Uppitycracker: Dec 4, 2004 - 6:55 AM

[Akimbo]

Just do it..don't let good things pass you by. If it ends up not being good, at least you tried. Trust me...

[Ricky]

Go for it and hit it. If it does not work.. well at least you tried....

This post has been edited by Ricky: Dec 4, 2004 - 12:44 PM

[Blakout16]

well, im dating a person now that i served at my work. arrr. oh nice sig nat. thats so you lol. neways yeah, do it, but if it ends, end it on goood terms.

[RedSunCelica]

did you ask her yet?

[creis]

I'm kinda lucky and kinda not at my work, in the sence that no girl had ever or probilby will ever be working with me so i dont have to deal with work relationships, (I wish girls where computer savey, and did not think its just a geek thing ) but, it sux that I dont get to meet girls at work, its just anouther lost chance.

This post has been edited by creis: Dec 5, 2004 - 10:22 PM

[shadycrew31]

ahh my friends. heres the update. she turned out to be a bitch... so yea thats that. oh well i keep it strictly work!!! i dont wanna hang out with her no more though. thanks for the help ya'll.

[jayi12-15psi]

yeah, but it's only blockbuster, and from personal experience, I say go for it. A couple of years ago I started working with this girl, and about a month after we met we started dating, we agreed to not talk about it to anyone at work, and I kept the secret all this time. A couple of months ago I quit my job, and I got married. when I envited some of my really close friends to the wedding, they were absolutely shocked first off that I was getting married, secondly, that I was marrying her. So, if you guys can keep it a secret, it can turn into a great thing.