I decided, I'm tired of women Options

[chucho]

I guess I need to just be a jackass 'cause thats what they like. I'm tired of them. I'll keep my couple cool girl friends and say screw the rest 'cause they're not worth my time. I already have a few of them on the DNA list on my phone and now i'm adding people to my block list on AIM. Its funny how they always say "Girls want to date you 'cause you know how to treat girls" then they treat me like sh*t and just figure I'll always be there when they need me. Guess what next time you or any of your friends call me for help I'm gonna answer laugh and hang up. See even when i'm mad i'm nice. I need to become an a##

[Yota]

i feel you chucho...i just lost my girlfriend of 3 years tonight...and i think it was to some guy that tried to use her for sex a year ago...now coincidently, he visited her at college over this past weekend and today i got dumped.

[Sh0gunkid8721]

good guys only make for good friends.

[ghostdog]

time to pop in 'the chronic' and crank track 16 as loud as it'll go

[Yota]

xxplosive sounds like a better song right now...

[Akimbo]

What's track 16?

Edit: Nevermind.

This post has been edited by Akimbo: Jan 24, 2005 - 12:22 AM

[rjbibeau]

ya i dunno what girls see in jackasses also knows as douches

[Coomer]

I'm also confused why girls like guys who treat them like crap. The girl I like now doesn't like me and I dunno why but it's a big headache.

[Sh0gunkid8721]

ya i dunno what girls see in jackasses also knows as douches
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jackasses come out as confident, brash and cocky. thats what girls love

[Ale_lock]

Bleh to them all.

[hellsyphon]

Bleh to them all.
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I completely agree with ya... I think that we will never know because we're too simple minded I guess

[Yota]

asshole guys don't do any justice for them women they attract...just ask my newly ex-girlfriend. She has no idea what she's getting herself into.

[OSIRIS]

I'm also confused why girls like guys who treat them like crap. The girl I like now doesn't like me and I dunno why but it's a big headache.
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lol and , Coomer. thats exactly what happened to me. sigh it sucks

This post has been edited by OSIRIS: Jan 24, 2005 - 2:32 AM

[Benevolence]

I'm tired of girls too, just so many games and bs involved I can't take it anymore.
*(not all girls just all the girls I meet)

[Anub1s]

I think its as much guys going for the wrong girls as it is girls going for the wrong guys. I have had a couple of interests this last year fall through the crack because I am evidently not a good guy to be interested in or some ****....explains why I am the dateless loser of the century. Ah well, just think of it this way, someday someone will make you happy, you just have to be patient.

[orvillescelica]

Although i agree with you 100%, i actully did this and swore off girls. For two years i didnt even think about asking a girl out, thought about trying to persue girls, or why girls like jerks. Just phased them out of my life for two years.

Let me tell you from expereince, it was just a waste of time. Junior and Senior year of college, pretty much a waste. Swearing off girls was not the way to go.

You just need to learn that some guys are a$$es, and you are not. That being a nice guy wont get you anywhere, but its who you are and you cant change just because it doesnt get what you want. Because if you really are simply a nice guy, youll realize that you dont do these things for any form of personal gain, but you do them simply because it is right.

A man does what he must, despite personal consequence and in spite of personal desires... this is the basis of all morality.

[Digndoug]

Yeah I understand. Im not an asshole, but i figured i would try the hard-ass/badass guy and see what women i could atract. So then i get all sorts of women, but once i start acting nomral again (nice guy gentlemen ****) the seem to get scared away. but its sad, Il ignore them and just be a dick and they keep coming back and ****.. women are ****ed upp

[25thcelica]

amen man that is how I lost my girl of 3 years to a asshole who ended up beating her.(I had to kick his ass for it off course)

[chucho]

Scars by Papa Roach is pretty good song
Cold by Crossfade
So Far Away too

[Yota]

25th-

Are you serious dude? I think that might be what I'm in line for... I really think I just lost her to this dude who tried a year ago to force her to have sex with him... Now, this past weekend I found out he was visiting her for the weekend at her dorm (and I know how big her dorm room is. hence, I know where he slept if it wasn't on the floor).

Carrie (ex) and I used to get in big arguments over this kid. Because I was trying to protect her. I felt like she was blindly walking into a horrible situation. She would yell at me to stop protecting her and that its her life and so on.

She and I have gone round and round the past 3 years. We were the off and on type relationship, but we truly felt love in each other. Now last night, she was like "I don't love you anymore"

I'm so lost right now. I mean I totally got knocked on my ass with this and I don't know how to get up. I feel sick, I am not hungry at all, etc.

What should I do?

[latinomasfino]

25th-

Are you serious dude?  I think that might be what I'm in line for...  I really think I just lost her to this dude who tried a year ago to force her to have sex with him...   Now, this past weekend I found out he was visiting her for the weekend at her dorm (and I know how big her dorm room is. hence, I know where he slept if it wasn't on the floor). 

Carrie (ex)  and I used to get in big arguments over this kid.  Because I was trying to protect her.  I felt like she was blindly walking into a horrible situation. She would yell at me to stop protecting her and that its her life and so on. 

She and I have gone round and round the past 3 years.  We were the off and on type relationship, but we truly felt love in each other.   Now last night, she was like "I don't love you anymore"

I'm so lost right now.  I mean I totally got knocked on my ass with this and I don't know how to get up.  I feel sick, I am not hungry at all, etc.

What should I do?
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dawg same **** happen to me man my gf of year and a half cheated on me with this a hole but u know whut man i was sad for couple months but then i realized i had to take care of mysefl make my self look good uknow watch out for # 1 screw gilrs its alll about me...hit the gym started dressing better..suddenly i was gettin better girsls than my ex.....so i would reccomend that u reaasses ur self and see wut u can improve on then take steps to improve and get ur REVENGE man and its tastess OOOOHHH OHHHH sooo sweet...(PS after my change my ex came up to me and tried to get back wiht me and u know wut i told her " umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH

This post has been edited by latinomasfino: Jan 24, 2005 - 11:25 AM

[Jen]

Wow, all the girls you guys have met seem to be complete bitchfaces. Although I wasn't the *best* girlfriend in my past relationship, I can tell you that you will not get ANYWHERE being an asshole to a girl. Up until now, I've the worst experiences with guys. They all treated me like poo.. always getting mad at me for petty things.. being a bit controlling (I admit I was like that too at times). It seriously only pushes girls away (at least the smart ones). I really don't know why some girls go for assholes. They're just setting theirself up for heartbreak and hurt. Short tempers are horrible too. Sigh.

I'm really glad I met John..

[Jen]

" umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH
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That's really low and ignorant.. whether she deserved it or not..

Guys like you turn girls into lesbians.

[dstrbcelica]

wow..someone got

-dstrb

[latinomasfino]

" umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH
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That's really low and ignorant.. whether she deserved it or not..

Guys like you turn girls into lesbians.
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well i think she did deserve that cuase she f'ed up she broke my heart split it in 2 and fed the peices to some dog...and did it make me feel better YES it did Y because she actualy thought she could come back to me after wut she did so no SHE GOT OWNED not me

[Jen]

People make mistakes. You can't dwell on things forever, and be bitter about it.. and THEN make asshole/ignorant comments to her. Wow@that. You could have simply told her you didn't want her back, and not a d-ck about it.

[thedevilmaycrie]

I'm also confused why girls like guys who treat them like crap. The girl I like now doesn't like me and I dunno why but it's a big headache.
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Does everyone want to know the secret to why women want only guys that treat them like crap???

its actually simple... all girls and most will admit it when you ask them want a guy thats as a$$hole because they want to change them... they want someone to change for them, or they want to be able to sit back and say "I changed them".. its kinda like a guy sitting back after rebuilding an engine and heres it run for the first time .... you think to yourself "i made that"... its the same concept... however i will not say all females are like that... i gotta girl that i treat like a queen and i am treated awsome in return...

-DMC

[4wheelWOnder]

she has a point................

[Jen]

Does everyone want to know the secret to why women want only guys that treat them like crap???

its actually simple...  all girls and most will admit it when you ask them want a guy thats as a$$hole because they want to change them...  they want someone to change for them, or they want to be able to sit back and say "I changed them".. its kinda like a guy sitting back after rebuilding an engine and heres it run for the first time .... you think to yourself "i made that"... its the same concept... however i will not say all females are like that... i gotta girl that i treat like a queen and i am treated awsome in return...

-DMC
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Not really. I don't even mess with the assholes.

[thedevilmaycrie]

like i said jen im not putting all females in this catagory but most are...

-DMC

[Jen]

Not ones I know. If girls are really like that, they're f-cking idiots. I'm ashamed of my gender in that case.

Haha.

[4wheelWOnder]

she has a point.............

[latinomasfino]

People make mistakes. You can't dwell on things forever, and be bitter about it.. and THEN make asshole/ignorant comments to her. Wow@that. You could have simply told her you didn't want her back, and not a d-ck about it.
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well ok maybe i could have but check this out so even b4 i changed like her friends are my friends and whe we broke up like she would say how bad of a bf i was how i treatd her bad and that i had dumped her for no reason..so when i told them the truth that she had banged some other guy she lied to them and said that she had been drugged OMGGG now can u relaly tell me that she didnt deserve it

[Jen]

PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES. Seriously. You just proved to her that you really ARE an asshole (no, I'm not calling you one <3) like she told her friends. There are a lot better ways to handle such a situation. Your way was ridiculus, immature, ignorant, and cold-hearted. Of course what she did was horrible, but "revenge" is immature and pointless. You can't stay bitter over something forever, seriously.

^ WHY SOME GIRLS ARE BITCHES.

[brianforster]

girls want what they cant have, thus they desire the guy whos going to ignore them and treat hem like ****

there are some girls that arent like that, also, when your the nice guy and you finally get a girl it ends up being a better relationship then the ashole guys get, so its worth it in the end

[4wheelWOnder]

can i say he has a point too......

[Jen]

Some girls are stupid. Guys are just going after the wrong girls. Obviously the ones with the looks but not the smarts.

Rarely you find a girl with both. Then you're lucky.

[4wheelWOnder]

i look at it like this..........."GIRLS", yes, are stupid. why cause they are young, they sometimes dont know what they want.

[Jen]

Good point.

[Akimbo]

Scars by Papa Roach is pretty good song
Cold by Crossfade
So Far Away too
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I have all those! And a lloooootttt more breakup songs. Cols is a good one, so is So Far Away, and Broken by Seether. Scars is alright.

There's a lot of good points in this thread. You just gotta remember that there are a lot of different types of girls in the world. So...everyone's points are applicable, just depends on the lady.

[latinomasfino]

PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES. Seriously. You just proved to her that you really ARE an asshole (no, I'm not calling you one <3) like she told her friends. There are a lot better ways to handle such a situation. Your way was ridiculus, immature, ignorant, and cold-hearted. Of course what she did was horrible, but "revenge" is immature and pointless. You can't stay bitter over something forever, seriously.

^ WHY SOME GIRLS ARE BITCHES.
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hehe its ok i know wut u mean though u know i respect ur opionio cause i i know im not an asshole..im one of the nicest guys out there heheh...but yea its just that after her i have changed meaning i dont take crap from no one so i proved my point to her....the thing is this was almost 1.5 years ago and i have completely forgot about it u know ive grown up but u know wut she hastn...i went to dinenr for my friends bd and she was there too with her new bf and like i was fine u know didint care but like she kept like makin me look bad the whole entire time like saying wow angel that wastn funny or like if i would make a joke about the food she would be like ohhh well angel not all of us are on a diet..OMg i was a freakin joke wtf seriously some girls need to grow up

[25thcelica]

Yota-

sorry man my computer has been dead for the last couple of days. but to get to the point man just keep an eye one her. call her up to see how she is donig. don't do it every day or else the guy might get mad(trust me). just be friends but as soon as something goes down man be on top of it. she might hate you for a bit but man it is ok you did the right thing don't ever think that you are wrong cause dude no woman should ever be hit or forced to do anything. Man I am one of the nicest guys around but girls around here like bad boys and I have seen how those couples turn out. be safe and man be cool let her see the errors and she will be ok

[BlackCelicaGT94]

im in the same boat - but with guys obviously! im done with yall! no hooking up, no relationships no NOTHING! im gonna be selfish for the next few months and focus on ME!!! some of you will say i do that anyways but im not giving u men a penny! im not gonna come help you out when u need a ride! NOPE!!!

[thedevilmaycrie]

my favorite break up song was Unreal by Soil...

-DMC

[Digndoug]

LATINO, sounds like u and me are in the exact same boat. Same **** happend to me. Then I started working out and all, then she wanted back, i was like nope. No-one fuccks with me and my feelings and gets away with it, its just wrong. So as of now, im only wpried bout myself.

[latinomasfino]

LATINO, sounds like u and me are in the exact same boat. Same **** happend to me. Then I started working out and all, then she wanted back, i was like nope. No-one fuccks with me and my feelings and gets away with it, its just wrong. So as of now, im only wpried bout myself.
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OHHH SHYT yea man GOOOD JOB dingndoug see u understand its called a man's pride and not just that but i dont think anyone should have to feel that pain...man BEUTIFUL job man i congradulate u man cause with me it was like like "OH now u want me back after i look better and dress better and now that guy who banged u left for LA and didnt even give a shyt about u well guess wut i dont either so bye" heheh i should have said that to her *

This post has been edited by latinomasfino: Jan 24, 2005 - 3:05 PM

[25thcelica]

FINO AND DOUG I would do the same you can't play with people like they are toys

[SinisterWhisper]

Well I find it funny to listen to the guys at school. The assholes tend to date the better looking chicks and one by one I watch them ball when their boyfriend cheats on them. Me? I have poor taste in girls as I try to get the ones witht he best personality and so far it has gotten me nowhere.

Ohh well I found out I am probably moving so no reasont o date now heh *to Jen* that pic you saw of me is now out of date I shaved the spikes off sunday.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

u showed a pic to jen - thats disrespectful to john

[Yota]

FINO and DOUG-

I also plan on getting a membership to the gym tomorrow...im hoping it relieves alot of stress.

I think I need to sweat out all of the problems ive had lately. You know how you feel when you've gotten a good workout? I hope it feels like that now that I'm single (and not wanting to be)

[coustoe]

Its True I'm the biggest Asshole and girls love it!

I love taking people for granted.

[Digndoug]

FINO and DOUG-

I also plan on getting a membership to the gym tomorrow...im hoping it relieves alot of stress.

I think I need to sweat out all of the problems ive had lately.  You know how you feel when you've gotten a good workout?  I hope it feels like that now that I'm single (and not wanting to be)
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yeah working out is the best thing for stress, besides smoking,but smoking is no good. Yeah when me an my girl split, i would get up-set and pissed, then i would go pump weights or run until i hurt or didnt care anymore. I lost a lot of weight and look a hella better. I honestly am glad it happend for the long run.

[Yota]

hopefully ill get the same results as you and fino, because i seriously could run or lift weights until i flopped over.

Its so hard right now because I really didn't expect it to happen. I feel so lonely right now. I got knocked flat on my ass and don't know how to get back up. Anyone else ever feel like that?

[SinisterWhisper]

Yeah nat I did it was a scan of my license not like I was half naked now was it?

[latinomasfino]

hopefully ill get the same results as you and fino, because i seriously could run or lift weights until i flopped over. 

Its so hard right now because I really didn't expect it to happen.  I feel so lonely right now. I got knocked flat on my ass and don't know how to get back up. Anyone else ever feel like that?
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yea man dawg i felt lonley for some time like more than half a year man but u know wut just likd digndoug i am glad wut happen happen cause i look 5000times better and i am better off trust me man give urself some time u know go work out hook up ur car ull the see the attention in the summer when u cruising down the street in ur sexy car and buff muscle shirt LOL alwasy puts a smile on my face heheh

[chucho]

I'm not aggravated anymore, guess i opened a can of worms though. But working out is one of the best ways to keep ur mind away from women

[Jen]

u showed a pic to jen - thats disrespectful to john
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Dear god Natalie, grow up. Are you that childish?

[Coomer]

u showed a pic to jen - thats disrespectful to john
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Dear god Natalie, grow up. Are you that childish?
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Yeah, seriously...let's keep the drama off the boards.

Back on topic...

[creis]

Its not that girls want the a$$ hole guys, its that they want to be seen with the cool guy and some how this culture places a$$es at the top and nice guys at the foot. its all one big popularity contest and all (most) girls are willing to get treated like dirt or worse to get one step above the next girl. its sad but what can you do, we put so much emphesis on what other people think of us, that we are willing to give up a real loving relationship for looks.

I basicly gave up "trying" in high school, its not worth the rejection time and time again because I'm not "cool" I figure that either I'll get back on the waggon sometime when I feel like its no longer a popularity contest (like never) or our paths will cross and she will see me for who I ame, and want that.

[NYCelica]

1.) I am always an Asshole.

2.) Always Bro's before Hoe's

3.) Dont let any Girls put down me, **** them bitches.

4.) I love my Celica more then any hot Girls.

[SinisterWhisper]

What I love more then girls who go for a$$holes it younger girls who go for older guys even if they are not popular/good looking/ etc. I won't do it in highschoolb ut the irony of it is I could date a hot freshman no problem when I can't even get a decent junior.

[Anub1s]

Whats up with calling girls "bitches" that is not right, women are not "bitches" they can be "bitchy" but show some respect guys. Remember this is a public board and I for one don't appreciate derogatory words like that to describe all women.

[Kamakiri]

I guess alot of us are in the same boat as you. Sucky stuff. Atleast the lonely part... cuz I defintly don't want to be spending my life with someone that treats me like ****. It's damn hard finding somebody worth the effort that'll go for nice guys.... I know I'm looking for a girl that'll treat me right. I guess we just need more girls like Jen in our areas. Anyway.... I just signed up at the local YMCA... time to get my mind off this crap.

[The__J__Factor]

I met a real nice girl about a year ago, and about 3months ago she hooked up with this real asshole of a guy...anyway he just left her the next day and didnt return calls/treated her like crap, she was devasted.

then the other week we were becoming real close, and ended up spending new years eve together ..........then next day shes like i cant have a relationship coz im not over this other guy, and im like WTF.

So im getting screwed coz of some guy that treated her like crap for a day, but anyway i think she might be coming round lol otherwise ivebeen putting to much effort in chasing her

so yeh that my bad story for yous lol

Its things like this that always pt me off making moves on girls i like, coz i know no matter wut im gonna get screwed over some how

[Yota]

so tonight, my ex flat out tells me that on saturday night, she took a guy back to her dorm.. You can imagine what happened.

As devastated as I am...I told her never to call me again. I am chaning my phone number tomorrow and I've already blocked her from my buddy list and stuff..

It sucks, but I gotta be strong because she made me feel so little about myself...

3 years blew up in one night...now she'll never talk to me again.

[Coomer]

so tonight, my ex flat out tells me that on saturday night, she took a guy back to her dorm.. You can imagine what happened.

As devastated as I am...I told her never to call me again.  I am chaning my phone number tomorrow and I've already blocked her from my buddy list and stuff..

It sucks, but I gotta be strong because she made me feel so little about myself...

3 years blew up in one night...now she'll never talk to me again.
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That sucks man.

Just go out with your true friends and have some fun. Or go work on the Celi, or go excercise, or do something to get your mind off of her.

[Yota]

im trying...ya know its weird because my mood swings are horrible.

Today, I woke up sick, I went to school and was fine, on my way home was sad and crying, worked on my celi and was fine, came home and bawled, talked to her and got informed of everything and completely melted down, then got really pissed off and told her to never talk to me again, then was happy for a bit, and now im sad again.


i hate this

[95gtschick]

i feel you chucho...i just lost my girlfriend of 3 years tonight...and i think it was to some guy that tried to use her for sex a year ago...now coincidently, he visited her at college over this past weekend and today i got dumped.
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ugh that is harsh, i've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years now.. i would never even dream of cheating on him... let alone dumping him

[Akimbo]

This thread rocks.

[carb0n_f1b3r]

Got y'all all beat, this is about 4 years ago, but who else sports the Tigger boxers??
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its because of the whole ^^^^ thing... lose the tiggers <--> more respect... j/k chucho

[latinomasfino]

im trying...ya know its weird because my mood swings are horrible.

Today, I woke up sick, I went to school and was fine, on my way home was sad and crying, worked on my celi and was fine, came home and bawled, talked to her and got informed of everything and completely melted down, then got really pissed off and told her to never talk to me again, then was happy for a bit, and now im sad again.


i hate this
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yea man well thast gonna happen and its gonna stay like that for a while i cant lie to u cause i was tehre man took me over hafl a year to really get over wut happen...not just that but i was lost as in my identity she basically screwed that up too..was ok at school then came hom just like u man all depressed cried couple tiems...starting going to some gheto ass parties and drinkin to try to get my mind off ..not my style man starting dressing "gangsta" i just didnt know who i was man but after a while i finally find myslef u know and its all good now ARMANI but dont worry man just be patence work on ur car WORK OUT and watch hopefully by summer time u will be PIMP man see girls have to understand guys have feelings too we are just as vulnerable as they are soemtimes even more...depending how much self esteem we have and also wut nice guys we are u know...giving a gilr your heart and soul and then having her destroy it as it was nothing hurts..like coomer said your frieinds alwasy gonna be there for u man so chill with them

[95gtschick]

i love this.. hearing what guys actually think about us.. kinda crazy, but yet cool

[Digndoug]

haha, I was searching around and ran acros this while i was looking at the 99 most desirable women or somthing.. seems to follow this topic to the umm top.

sensitive assholee.

[macavely]

OK i'm going to let all u muthersuckes.. that want to get into a relationship with a female that u like and shes not feeline... want to be ur women.... just email me and i'll let u know how to pull that girl...

[SinisterWhisper]

I think I will pass on your offer. The irony for me is I come across as an a$$ at first. heh this is probably because I tend to be listening to my music or being wrapped up in my own stuff. however the people who take the time to get to know me say I am one of the most relaxed laid back people they have ever met.

Back on topic has anyone on the site had some luck with women because so far we seem to just be bashing relationships.

[FallenHero]

I guess I need to just be a jackass 'cause thats what they like.  I'm tired of them.  I'll keep my couple cool girl friends and say screw the rest 'cause they're not worth my time.  I already have a few of them on the DNA list on my phone and now i'm adding people to my block list on AIM.  Its funny how they always say "Girls want to date you 'cause you know how to treat girls" then they treat me like sh*t and just figure I'll always be there when they need me.  Guess what next time you or any of your friends call me for help I'm gonna answer laugh and hang up.  See even when i'm mad i'm nice.  I need to become an a##
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Amen brother.

[amysmojo]

I'm also confused why girls like guys who treat them like crap. The girl I like now doesn't like me and I dunno why but it's a big headache.
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not all girls like just jerks some of us like BOTH wooo

[creis]

that sensitive bastard artical has some good points, but it still comes down to this:

"People dont know what they want"

and.

"You dont know what you have untill you've lost it"

[Akimbo]

"You dont know what you have untill you've lost it"
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Truest quote you will ever hear.

[amysmojo]

"You dont know what you have untill you've lost it"
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ya like when you have your keys one second & then the next second you dont know where the hell they went! am i RIGHT? i knew it.....

[desertwolf300]

I don't think I've ever been in love with a girl before, I've liked/dated them, but that's it. I've never been real hurt for very long after I stop talking to them like you guys, but that's okay cuz it shows you care. Hang in there, it'll take time but you'll be alright.

--Bill

[Kamakiri]

I don't think I've ever been in love with a girl before, I've liked/dated them, but that's it.  I've never been real hurt for very long after I stop talking to them like you guys, but that's okay cuz it shows you care.  Hang in there, it'll take time but you'll be alright.

--Bill
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Ouch.... that sucks man. "Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." I guess we're better off that you even if we are broken hearted .

[Volks]

Yep I have had this problem to, I went out with a girl I met on one of the celica cruises we had, we like each other straight away and we really hit it off. All was great, we were in love, went out together all the time, I treated her like a princess. Then one afternoon she seemed to get moody at me, after that it was never the same again. We were close on New years eve though (a week after the mood swing) then when I saw her online again she had had a falling out with one of her frineds over me and that was it. she, all of the sudden wanted to be friends. I couldnt do that after what we had been through and so I said no,I havent spoken to her since. I found that if I just went and worked on the celi, that cheered me up. I still miss her but I am happier now, I just say to myself, the girl I loved, went away after that first day she seemed to turn on me.

Volks