my depressing woman story, making it brief so i dont bore people Options

[celicarocker]

i was dating this girl for awhile in a serious relationship. i loved her she loved me (said she did at least). so alls well. we get into a fight a week ago, cuz she wanted to be friends with this guy joe, who she had been seeing before we dated. i said it would upset me, a fight pursued. it ended with her saying she didnt want to be friends with him if it upset me. she wanted to be alone the next day, so i was like 'aight.

next evening i call her, she sends me a text message saying we should break up. finally get her on the phone, she says she doesnt want a serious relationship, and blah blah blah. so the day after that, she admits she was at joes house and spent the night in his bed. they didnt do anything, but still upset me. so she says she doesnt know what to do.

in a day she realizes she does want to be with me. comes over telling me how much she loves me and wants to be with me and is happy with me and how im her other half and how i complete her, all this blah blah blah. so were fine for 4 days, all the time her telling me stuff like that. last night we get into an argument while drunk, she goes outside to her car. i go get her keys so she cant leave, she stays outside. go back outside to check on her later shes gone.

talk to her today she was at joes house. shes already kissing him and holding his hand and stuff (she admits to it) and ready to date him. saying how he is her "dream guy". this is less than 24 hours after she says how much she loves me. less than a day after breaking up with me, she already has another boyfriend.

i loved her, and couldnt even begin to look at another girl. and she does this to me. the weird thing is, when we got together she told me "dont tell me you love me then break up with me saying you were wrong and you dont" which is the same thing she did to me. girls are wack.

kthxbye

[LatinKraze]

Sorry to hear bro. When I get into relationships I give it my all, but in the back of my mind I remind myself that she could still screw me over. That way I don't get my hopes too high up. Go find yourself a good woman...if you're not ready then keep yourself busy. The more time you have to think to yourself, the more it hurts.

[Digndoug]

yeah dude women are wack.. That kinda sounds like the same thing with me.. an my ex.. she got nuts.. an it just hurt to see her chaneg liek that.

but think about it, be glad it happend now and not later.. do your won thing an move on.

Also when girls get drunk, thats when there real emosions and wants come out, they cant help it.

This post has been edited by Digndoug: Mar 5, 2005 - 6:25 PM

[rjbibeau]

women just just love the douchbags i guess. same thing happened to me i was dumped for a douche

[celicagurl152003]

Hey! We're not all self absorbed little twits...i could use another word but im gonna be nice. Aparently she wasn't wrapped to tight to begin with if she did this to you. She had a good thing going for her and then she flipped...I'd say that was stupid. I don't know what kind of girls you guys find but i would never do that. Anyhow your better then her so don't let her drag u down. Show that you can have a life wth out her, and truthfully if she were to come back to you after this guy and tell you she made a mistake and yor the one....i would be like "hey...you had your chance and you ran of on me." But that's just my opinion...but really not all girls are like that. Some of us actually care and are looking for good guys, and don't wanna play these stupid little head games. Anyhow, sorry to hear about the heart break hope you find some one better.

Latz
~Christina~

[saleeka]

from what all my girlfirends tell me, the biggest no no (and this is SO true with me too) is no not be all up in their grill 24-7... nothing kills romance faster than dominering behavior outside the bedroom... nobody likes to be suffocated mabey not the case with you but if you seroiusly give grils/guys their FARE share of space it pays the divedinds...

[celicarocker]

im tryin my best to keep myself busy, the more time your busy the less time to think about it and be upset. and i love the girl so would love her to come back to me, but at the same time i dont. this is her second time making a mistake if she decides thats what it is, and a really big on at that. i dont want to have her come back to me all sorry, then I have to choose to pass on the girl i love or not.

[Digndoug]

Love or not, forget bout her.. most women wont change like that.

[Akimbo]

Don't worry dude. She'll realize what she's done when it's too late and she'll be upset. Then you get to make 'the Decision.' Do you take her back or not? I wouldn't suggest it.

Anyway, my girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago, she's happy as a lark now and I'm glad for her. I just had to lose my best friend in the process. But I don't care about him anymore, and I don't even think of her. I'm starting to date others, and I'm really happy. You'll get through it, just think that there's tons of people that have had similar experiences and have come out on top.

[macavely]

Kid this is a simple one.. she's already sleeping with the... F'ed him already ..... females are all crazy and selfish .... i know its hard for u right now cause u think u are inlove with her.. but trust me ur not... as hard as this might seam .. just tell her its over... and end all contact with her.... take all her stuff of hers that u have put it in a garbage bag... and handed to her and say nothing... if she asked about ur stuff tell her keep it and say nothing else..... this girl is playing u like bad... and ur over their taking it with no lube... man up and get ride of that hoe..... don't need her lots o better women out there then her....

[Akimbo]

mac has spoken

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[jgreening]

i know its hard for u right now cause u think u are inlove with her.. but trust me ur not...  as hard as this might seam .. just tell her its over... and end all contact with her.... take all her stuff of hers that u have put it in a garbage bag... and handed to her and say nothing... if she asked about ur stuff tell her keep it and say nothing else.....   this girl is playing u like bad... and ur over their taking it with no lube...  man up and get ride of that hoe..... don't need her lots o better women out there then her....
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Wisdom.

This post has been edited by jgreening: Mar 6, 2005 - 2:04 PM

[95gtschick]

we're not all like that.. i promise. i've been with my guy for well over 3 years, we're still going strong, i wouldn't ever dream of leaving him and i know he feels the same. so i promise you, there ARE some very decent girls out there, just wait, don't go searching, cause if you are looking, you'll usually end up with someone just like her. wait til she comes along, and by fluke.. you'll totally fall in love! be happy buddy, we're alllllllllll here for ya

[macavely]

we're not all like that.. i promise. i've been with my guy for well over 3 years, we're still going strong, i wouldn't ever dream of leaving him and i know he feels the same.  so i promise you, there ARE some very decent girls out there, just wait, don't go searching, cause if you are looking, you'll usually end up with someone just like her.  wait til she comes along, and by fluke.. you'll totally fall in love! be happy buddy, we're alllllllllll here for ya
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only reason ur not like that... is cause.. let me shut up..... ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY

[celicagurl152003]

We are not! Don't say that unless you have a reason for every one of us.

[macavely]

We are not! Don't say that unless you have a reason for every one of us.
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oh but i do ... women are just natrual carzy ... ture there are diffrenet levels of crazy .... i don't need to tell u all the carzy stuff u done.. but u know u have done them.... now think about all the women u know aren't they crazy in one way or another... ???/

[celicagurl152003]

Maybe we get crazey like fun crazy when we go out, but you can't say we're crazy when you guys do the same exact thing that we do. When you do it we don't run around saying all you guys are nutz!

[Akimbo]

we're not all like that.. i promise. i've been with my guy for well over 3 years, we're still going strong, i wouldn't ever dream of leaving him and i know he feels the same.  so i promise you, there ARE some very decent girls out there, just wait, don't go searching, cause if you are looking, you'll usually end up with someone just like her.  wait til she comes along, and by fluke.. you'll totally fall in love! be happy buddy, we're alllllllllll here for ya
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only reason ur not like that... is cause.. let me shut up..... ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY
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Ohhh mac i desperately want to finish for you...

[macavely]

Maybe we get crazey like fun crazy when we go out, but you can't say we're crazy when you guys do the same exact thing that we do. When you do it we don't run around saying all you guys are nutz!
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nope not fun crazy.... and yes guys do the same thing... thats the diffrence between a guy and a man .... a real man trest a women right ... but ever few women know how to handle that....


"It only take one bad bitch to trun a good man into a dogg " ....

[Blakout16]

we once had a thread on why women are crazy.

[funnyboy117]

we once had a thread on why women are crazy.
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Started by mac himself.

Anway, girls are f'in insane. Every girl I've been with has at one point said some **** and then flipped it the next day. It's not even a big deal anymore cuz I know when it's coming, but I don't understand it at all. Just gotta learn to be kinda reserved with 'em, cuz they will lie, there's no getting around it.

[macavely]

so so true.... i'm going to have to write up a why women are crazy and how to deal with them.... help some of the younger members of this site.. so they don't go throw what myself and many of the other men on this site have...

[SlowCelica94]

Forget her. Time for revenge. I recommand putting her panties on ebay, banging her sister and/or close friends. Post any incriminating pics on 6gc and then send to parents. You could also burn her house down, that'd be funny. Prehaps kidnapping her mother would show her whats up.

Lets start generating some ideas people

[celicagurl152003]

My god.....you all are woman haters. ......yall need to find some good ones maybe that would change your mind.....or not. Anyhow go about thinking what you are but not all girls are like that.

[ReMyRaMi]

Hey man this is RemyRami! Dont Trip Dogg! Females Like that arent worth getting all pissed of over the Latin Lover advises you to hook up with a fine ass honey and make shure she is hotter than your ex, make shure that ur ex sees that fine chick that your with and she will be burning with jealosy! Trust me ive pulled that one off like 3 time's and its worked allwayz! but keep your head up youve got yourself a celica! you stay with that girl that will allwayz be there for you, unless that engine starts messing up on You! lol Hit me up and tell me what you think later

[celicarocker]

Forget her. Time for revenge. I recommand putting her panties on ebay, banging her sister and/or close friends. Post any incriminating pics on 6gc and then send to parents. You could also burn her house down, that'd be funny. Prehaps kidnapping her mother would show her whats up.

Lets start generating some ideas people
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ahahha.... i have a pair of panties i could sell on ebay... didnt that get banned though? her sister is cute but has a boyfriend, and all her close friends are virgins... dont have any incriminating pics, and i wont burn down her house....

i really wish i knew where the guy lived or what his phone number was or something, cuz the night she stormed out of my place and had him come get her, i know she was over there kissing him while she was drunk.... which was prolly less than an hour after she... yeah... figure it out.... hahaha... id love to tell him that

im slowly starting to get over it though


edit: mac is the relationship doctor

This post has been edited by celicarocker: Mar 7, 2005 - 5:13 PM

[Akimbo]

mac = hitch

[gt_driFFter]

ATTENTION

All of this advice was great and all (especially mac's) but this video will tell you EXACTLY what you need to know. BTW, I think you'll appreciate this one mac

REMEDY

-Josh

[Akimbo]

omfg that was great....

[celicarocker]

ahaha.... "now i know exactly what i have to do.... im going to **** your mom"

"go home and tell your mom shes about to get ****ed"


ahaha hilarious...

[carb0n_f1b3r]

heh,heh, allllllllrrrrrrrriiiiiigggghhhttt....

[Akimbo]

ok quaigmire

[celica47]

yeah i have to agree with mac about "all it takes is one bitch to turn a guy into a mad dog." Dont get me wrong i love females but when a woman puts a sour taste in a guys mouth its hard for them to ever trust again.

[nitemare]

been cheated on twice..first time, her co-worker was driving her home from work "just to be nice.". I didnt mind cause it saved me the extra trip.. But...looked out the window to our apartment and saw her head attached to his..She walked in, and i said what the hell was that. She said : I just dropped my purse...Next day, all her crap was on the front lawn..I kicked her out immediately.
Next serious relationship was with a girl who had a 3 year old baby with someone else. Baby never met his dad ever. We dated for 4 years..Then all of the sudden the dad came into the picture for the first time..Then all of the sudden her next door neighbors saw my girlfriend and the babys dad hugging together in the public pool.
Relationship ended shortly after. She got back with babys dad..Then she called me back asking for forgiveness-i said NO..

This relationship on in now--im engaged..Never believed I would get marrried. This woman (no kids)--never will I date a girl with a kid-is perfect...The difference between her and all the others I dated is between night and day.

So, I guess you have to play the field awhile and weed out the bad ones. I believe the majority of women out there have issues, are liers, and cheaters..But there are a few that are good. So..have patience and keep on looking if one of those girls do u bad...Unfortanetly, is seems liek the bad ones are the norms these days..

[macavely]

that video is classic ... lol ... but that guy reminds me of someone.. lol.... hope all u young bucks learn a thing or 2 from it... always keep a cool head... and revenge is the sweets joy next to getting pussy ..lol ..


on a side note.. lord i hope that guy got paid really well for that...

[Akimbo]

mac, he reminds me of someone off of like VH1's I Love the 80's, 90's, or whatever. But I can't think of his name.

[macavely]

that video is classic ... lol ... but that guy reminds me of someone.. lol....  hope all u young bucks learn a thing or 2 from it... always keep a cool head... and revenge is the sweets joy next to getting pussy ..lol ..


on a side note.. lord i hope that guy got paid really well for that...
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yea... whats that guys name.... someone check vh1 i'm to lazy to do it myself..