I want you to be my girl?, what does that mean Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

So ive been seeing this guy since the 1st of December and I was at his house on x-mas day just chillin and watching tv and he was silent so I was like umm what are you thinking and he was like “I was thinking that I want you to be my girl” and I paused like they do on the MTV show NEXT when they have to decide if they wanna go on a second date or take the money then I said ok and pecked him. But now im like umm whats the definition of girl and its not like he was like WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND? He just said that he was thinking that he wanted me to be his girl. So whats this mean in boy terms? I don’t wanna ask him cuz then ill look dumb but im not about to go change my myspace to IN A RELATIONSHIP if it doesn’t mean were in an exclusive one on one relationship.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

First, Nat… chillax! ;-)
Why not just ask him? That is the beauty of men, they aren’t very complex. If you ask them they will give you a straight answer, unless the TV is on then you get nothing. lol! Yeah, I would just ask him, what did you mean by that, you want me to be your girlfriend? If he says yes, then you know ;-).

[Supersprynt]

Uh...its not that complicated. Thing bout you women is that you make EVERYTHING compllicated. He wants you to be his girl, its clear as day. He wants you to be his girlfriend, he wants you to see only him.

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

haha NEXT! i love that show! :-D

anyways fine ill just let it be and not ask...but his myspace status better change within two weeks to IN A RELATIONSHIP! :-P

[ILuvMyCelica95]

idk why you don't just ask.

and yes women do make things complicated. we read into everything like its a sign when men are straight foward, and we know that but we still think there is some hidden meaning behind things you do, but I ask... unless i already know the answer and its not what i want to hear, then i keep it to myself. oh the drama of myspace

[amysmojo]

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

I dont watch MTV

Im sure he meant be his girlfriend. BUT at the same time lets think back to the movie OLD SCHOOL. When Will Ferrell says "your my boy blue, your my boy!" Does that mean he wanted Blue to be his boyfriend?

Natalie...he wants you to be his boy blue. End of story

JOKING I know im a dork.

This post has been edited by amysmojo: Dec 27, 2005 - 3:23 PM

[95gtschick]

lol i'm sorry but you're basing the future of your relationship on his relationship status on myspace???


yikes....

[Supersprynt]

Yeah lets refer back to a movie where they tie a rope around someones hooha and it rips him off a high wall where he lands on a open manhole cover with a concrete block dangles. Yeah lets refer to that one.

...dork.

[celicaGT96]

he may have meant that he wanted you to be his gf, but with the way alot of guys are, he probly isnt real serious about the gf thing he just wants you to think about what he said, just like your doing now.
why, you ask....well just a way to show you hes interested.
Its hard to say unless you judge his expression when he sid it, but i know of many guys who say stuff like that to girls just messing with them, trying to make them nervous or something........
but who knows.........

[Supersprynt]

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

he may have meant that he wanted you to be his gf, but with the way alot of guys are, he probly isnt real serious about the gf thing he just wants you to think about what he said, just like your doing now.
why, you ask....well just a way to show you hes interested.
Its hard to say unless you judge his expression when he sid it, but i know of many guys who say stuff like that to girls just messing with them, trying to make them nervous or something........
but who knows.........

YOU WOULD KNOW IF YOU ASK HIM!

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

you can turn your brain off? We already know what you are thinking. We just want you to say it, or lie to make us happy, but then we'll ask you if you lied, and if you lie then we get mad at you so you should lie again. This is why i stay outta relationships, or because im unattrative, maye both? haha

[BlackCelicaGT94]

haha yeah i have a habit of asking what someones thinking if its quiet! but usually the answer is some dirty answer! haha! i figure though he wouldnt have said "that i want u to be my girl" if he didnt want me to even have that thought in my head cuz that could be trouble if a guy said that! eh i dont know! whatev..ill give it 2 weeks and re-evaluate!

Thanks guys!


UR MY GIRL AMY UR MY GIRL

[Celicav]

Sounds like he wants to see you exclusively. Kind of interesting that he says this on XMas day, like it is some kind of XMas present for you to be his girl. In your evaluation of the relationship so far, do you think he is a genuine guy, and he was being honest? Have you had fun with him and enjoyed his conversation and company? If so, it may be real. If you have been seeing him almost a month, he probably knows what kind of direction he wants this thing to go. You are young, take a chance...

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah we have an awesome time together...we joke around alot and see eachother 1-2 times a week. he sees me on all his days off because our work schedules are completely opposite. I work 8am-5pm and he works 10pm-7am. but yeah we have a blast.

ya i was curious about the timing of it being on x-mas day. hmmmm... present works for me! :-D

[bloodrain]

... he was like “I was thinking that I want you to be my girl” ...

what he REALLY meant to say was "I was thinking, I want to be a girl..."
lol just messin with you, ya but its pretty obvious he digs you so...

[jgreening]

That is the beauty of men, they aren’t very complex.

Gee thanks! In all seriousness, you are right that women are generally more indecisive, emotional, and coy about what they say and do when it comes to relationships.

I always despised the girls that kept a boyfriend but they were prepared to dump them if something better came along. Why didn't they just move on? Its almost like they can't bear the thought of being alone. I had a buddy that had a girlfriend like that. I have an interesting story about how I helped show him she was no good but I will save that for another time.

[amysmojo]

Yeah lets refer back to a movie where they tie a rope around someones hooha and it rips him off a high wall where he lands on a open manhole cover with a concrete block dangles. Yeah lets refer to that one.

...dork.

are u missing my point? i didnt quote the manhole part!! lol

[lagos]

i want the 5min that it took to read this thread back !

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well u wouldnt have to ask for ur whole 5 mins back if u would have thought it was lame from the first sentence..then ud only need to ask for about 5 seconds back so really its ur own fault! sorry but im not awarding those 5 mins back



This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 27, 2005 - 5:21 PM

[Celicav]

Natalie, I hope this guy knows that you are a Celi nut, b/c a chick that is into cars is HAWT!! My wife drives a new Mustang that she loves, and that is totally cool.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah he knows im a celica nut! we met at a toyota meet. he has a honda s2000 though.

[97lestyousay]

i want the 5min that it took to read this thread back !

Its longer now and I read slow, I want 8 min.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

like i said thats ur own fault randy! so complain elsewhere!

[97lestyousay]

like i said thats ur own fault randy! so complain elsewhere!

OK I was a little interested or I wouldn't have kept reading. For a guy to even say that
is un heard of yes he wants you to be his girlfriend. or does he...

[Tech9ine]

...but his myspace status better change within two weeks to IN A RELATIONSHIP! :-P

thats ****ed up.

[creis]

ok I actualy read this all the way though, not something I do very often and that means alot since I gata leave for work in 4 and a half hours and I worked 13 hours today. and probably 13 more tomarrow and the next 2 days

From a guy who takes realationshipt seriously the frist think im gana say is

because im unattrative

Tina, you are attractive.

seccondly I would not just ask him, thats the best thing to do at the time but since that time is long past so is your chace. the best thing to do is go with your feelings if you want to be his gf then ask him to be your bf simple, easy. chances are it took a good deal of currage to say that line, as direct as it was. [guy language] being his girl is the like like a 3/4 way point to being his g/f, not fully a "girlfriend" but a g/f none the less.

further more the x-mas day thing is probably more of a qoincedance then anything else, although I'm sure it corssed his mind.

about us not being complicated, its true where not genealy complicated however, girls make us complicated, ya'll make us think about things harder thus we send odd signals wile were buisly decifering/guessing signals given to us and worring about what happens if we decifer/guess wrong.

[guy language] "your my boy blue" wile the deff of that is an acceptice or friendship between to male's, its pretty gay.

lastly, I would not base anything of his myspace status, chanes are he will not be changing that untill its a very surton thing, if at all, maily because, who gives a $hit

[macavely]

In every part of the world .. he is saying to you ...

"I want you to be my girlfriend.. do you want me as your boyfriend ? "

like most men he was just to lazy to put all his thought into words so he just cut it down ... if you can't figure that ou spank yourself .... and stop judge your relationship on myspace before you lose a good guy ...


and tina STOP IT ..

[Dr_Tweak]

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

BAUAHAHAAA!!! I love it! It's sooo true!

Heheheh I just it to my wife.


*edit* it's five minutes later and I'm STILL laughing at this...

This post has been edited by Dr_Tweak: Dec 28, 2005 - 4:08 AM

[Mike]

he obviously wants you to be the mother of his children
btw sounds like he wants to have many, many kids

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Chris & Mac


sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry

I <3 yous

[Supersprynt]

he obviously wants you to be the mother of his children
btw sounds like he wants to have many, many kids

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^ thank god cuz my mom wants me to have a kid right now..i better get on the ball with him then! haha j/k!

thanks guys! we can let it go now..

[JoKeRkId613]

haha NEXT! i love that show! :-D

anyways fine ill just let it be and not ask...but his myspace status better change within two weeks to IN A RELATIONSHIP! :-P

myspace is going to end the world.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

hehe agreed :-D

[BlackCelicaGT94]

sigh...guess he didnt mean anything by it!

oh well....


we were joking on the phone and i was like u play games and hes like how so i was like well remember when we were laying down and i asked u what u were thinking and u said that u wanted me to be ur girl and i just didnt know what you meant and then he was like oh...then he changed the subject! thats not a good sign!

sigh...my day just sucks today..started off badly with prank calls from some myspace psycho, then woke up pissed that i had to work, then got b*tched at at work, then he changed the subject...

[ILuvMyCelica95]

eh don't worry about it Nat, your very pretty and there are plenty of fish in the sea

and woman stop giving your # out!

[amysmojo]

eh don't worry about it Nat, your very pretty and there are plenty of fish in the sea

and woman stop giving your # out!

hey theres a singles site called plentyoffish.com, not that I know anything about it or anything ...Lol

Natalie now is a good time to switch to Sprint, that way not everyone will have ur number to prank call & you will save so much money

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i just dont get boys! he calls me 1-2 times a day and we hang out on all his days off...

hmmm...whatev! screw them all!

[ILuvMyCelica95]

eh they don't get us either, it all a bunch of confusion

gawd, im being a post whore today wtf

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Dec 28, 2005 - 12:23 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^ yay uve come to the dark side :-D

hmm maybe i should just move on and what not! i dont wanna invest emotions cuz im afraid to be hurt...im really really afraid of getting hurt! i dont even call him cuz the last guy i saw said that i liked him too much. so now im afraid to even call this guy ever for fear that he will think i like him alot

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 28, 2005 - 12:25 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

that reminds me of a gift my best friend got me, DARTH TADER! bwhahaha

mr potatoe head with a darth vader mask

oh and THE CUTEST THING its a lil deer made by Build_a_bear. and it comes with the stuffing in the box, and you stuff him, and then he came with a lil sled and a red thing for his nose, so cute

i guess this should go in that what did you get thread? whatever im putting it HERE!

[lagos]

now here is the real question.... does he already have one or more "baby-moma's" ? lol, cause it sounds like you maybe NEXT!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^ hmm i thought u wanted ur 5 mins back? obviously ur intrigued by this topic or u wouldnt keep reading lagos!

[ILuvMyCelica95]

now here is the real question.... does he already have one or more "baby-moma's" ? lol, cause it sounds like you maybe NEXT!

hahahahaah Art said baby-momas hahahah

[soulshadow]

Uh...its not that complicated. Thing bout you women is that you make EVERYTHING compllicated. He wants you to be his girl, its clear as day. He wants you to be his girlfriend, he wants you to see only him.

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

I agree, too many people watch too many T.V and become idiots.

Sadly, I haven't watched any T.V broadcast for more than 10 mins in the last 3 years.......
I just saw a commerical the other day and I was wondering how stupid it was to show a new toy with kids playing with it.

[amysmojo]

that reminds me of a gift my best friend got me, DARTH TADER! bwhahaha

mr potatoe head with a darth vader mask

oh and THE CUTEST THING its a lil deer made by Build_a_bear. and it comes with the stuffing in the box, and you stuff him, and then he came with a lil sled and a red thing for his nose, so cute

i guess this should go in that what did you get thread? whatever im putting it HERE!

My friend got me a sampler pack of diff vodka for Christmas... I drank it all on christmas eve (all 4 of the 50ml bottles LOL)

Have you seen the Spud Troopers??? You need to get one of those too






I dont watch any of those MTV shows! Then again I dont have any of those channels so I dont watch much tv. Probably better that way!!!!! (and thats probably why I watch so many movies & quote them like theres no tomorrow)

[ILuvMyCelica95]

^^^^^^
ahahahaha YES thats what i have!

and no i have not seen spud troopers!

[creis]

i asked u what u were thinking and u said that u wanted me to be ur girl and i just didnt know what you meant and then he was like oh..

wow.... that brain washed me

[/brain reboot]

yeah that darth thing is pretty funny, I wonder why he is looking up.

anyway, It sounds more like you maid him nurvous about it, rather then him just not wanting.

[chucho]

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

2nd that

[lagos]

^ hmm i thought u wanted ur 5 mins back? obviously ur intrigued by this topic or u wouldnt keep reading lagos!

sorry ..its like a car accidet. its horrible yet i cant stop looking...lol

[celicaST]

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

damn i hate that question! it is so annoying. ive run out of things to makeup so now i just give her a retarded look on my face when she asks. she knows i hate that question lol. but seriously, my mind is blank.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

see this is where you guys screw up, we know you aren't thinking of anything, or if you are it's not something we care about or wanna hear. Make something up!! Gawd, don't you men watch girly movies. If I ask you what your thinking LIE and say something really corny like "how much i love you" or " how pretty you are" don't say nothing, we dont wanna hear nothing!!!! aaaaah! That or when we ask destract us with something, "hey Tina is that i diamond?" " oh oh oh something shiny? ooooo! aaaaaah!"

[Supersprynt]

Ok, so women are asking us to lie...and then get mad at us when we do it when we're nto asked. Do you realize this is a lose-lose situation. This is why there are gay men.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

lol yes, that is why we are confusing. Its not a lose-lose if you don't get caught, and it's not a bad lie if you really thing the girl is pretty or you love them. It's just not what you were thinking, but if you say it then you're thinking it when you say it so it's not really a lie? Or we could just learn to accept that men don't think the way we want them to.

BUT idk if i'd want a guy to be like that all the time.

BUT I also don't ask what are you thinking, unless you're sitting there all silent and such.

And thats ok if the TV is on, I mean like if two people are just sitting around not saying anything.

BUT sometimes you don't have to say anything, it's nice just to BE with someone.

uhh... yeah.

Edit: I just contradicted my self, because I hate liars. Wow… I am confusing.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Dec 29, 2005 - 11:01 AM

[Supersprynt]

shhhhhhhh

[ILuvMyCelica95]

sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry

i'm just gunna go sit in the corner now.

Guys are just stupid anyway, because they don't know the difference between pink and coral, when there CLEARLY is a difference.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Dec 29, 2005 - 11:03 AM

[creis]

^ wait I know that one, pink is that girly color that all guys hate but yet looks good on girls, and Coral is that bi**h on real world. (I dont watch real world its just I saw an add for it.)

that comment girls say "what are you thinking" its nothing more than a sign that says hay I'm still here and would like to talk with you or want to break this uncomfortable silance. as a guy all you have to do is say a few things every once in a wile or comment on something you saw on tv every so offten just to keep the status quoe of the situation (and in many cases it is just nice to hang out with someone watching tv, not having to do anything really,) making something up after being asked the above mentioned questions is not lieing, now if you were thinking about how much you want to "get with" your g/f's sister but saying that your thinking about how much you you love your g/f is a lie and would be a problem if you get cought. making something up to fill the blank space in our (guys) head is not lieing its just... well whatever it is its something other then lieing.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Chris you need to move to NY!!!!

and Yes Coral is the bitch on real world, but coral is also a color, which is in the pink family, sometimes mistaken for pink but is not really pink, more of a salmon-ish pink-ish red-ish color, and it looks good with a tan. That is coral. I need a woman to back me up on this damnit I'm surrounded by color blind men!!!!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i back ya up on coral and pink differences!


PINK



CORAL


This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 29, 2005 - 11:50 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

i need to stop posting today

[creis]

ok so its a texture? looks like light pink or light skin (bage,) anyway I'm not color blind and I dont argue that there diff colors, in fact as a guy I gata say I dont really care.

yeah I have been back east several times, (boston mainly) the city thing is pretty cool, gata love walking down the street jumping on the subway and being in town minuts later. (always cool places to go downtown) we dont have that in seattle, sept the monorail (I'm not even gana get started ranting about that bs project plan.) its a 15-50 min drive down town from where I'm at.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^ no texture..just showing the colors -- that was just taken off google images


note - hes driving 40 mins to come have lunch with me from 12-1...yay!

[creis]

(I think that is a good example for the topic)

edit to fix pic.

This post has been edited by creis: Dec 29, 2005 - 4:50 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Yes Chris that is a pretty good example of coral! see you boys learn something new everyday!


here :



taadaaaaa coral!

[amysmojo]

Mayeb we need to put coral on a car for the boys to better understand lol

[creis]

The only reason I understand is because people call my car green, so to me its like:

turqoice is to green as,
coral is to pink.