PRIVATE, not sad no more. :D Options

[XS4lv1Truch0x]

damn.

well i deleted my lil poem coz i dun need everyone in my business.

i put it here 4 those that would help me not 4 an example.

well thax 4 da interest.

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[XS4lv1Truch0x]

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[celicurr]

holy moly, super dee duper

lol

[CelicaBuddy]

sad

what exactly happened if you dont mind me asking

[XS4lv1Truch0x]

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[bloodMoney]

Yet another now kindred soul,
added to this mass of loneliness.

This poor introverted heart,
on the verge of self-destruction.

All of this sadness,
caused by the cold-hearted.

Amplified by those hearts in pain,
the sea of loneliness spreads on...

-C.D.A.

Trust me you are not alone. I'd like to tell you that it is never as bad as the first time, that is gets easier after that, but it doesn't. Each time you take the chance to get attached, it will hurt, just as badly. All you can do is prepare and enjoy the fleeting time that you have with one another.

[XS4lv1Truch0x]

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[bloodrain]

she hasnt dumped me yet...

so there is still a chance...

ok here we go.

1) If shes making you feel THAT bad, leave HER.
2) Dont hold on like a lost puppy
3) Enjoy your single life
4) Shes probably leaving you because you tryed to be Mr. Right when girls dont want someone who does exactly what they say, when they say it. And I will bet my life on it if she said 'lets hang out' your first words would be 'ok want me to pick u up?' Refer to answer 5.
5) You have to make dating and relationships a GAME, because thats all it is. If she says "lets hang out tuesday" you say "I cant im busy that day how about friday"
6) Girls want what they cant have, plain and simple
7) As far as making the right move... if you act like a wuss, your gonna get treated like a wuss, and to make things clear being a wuss = bad
8) For your next relationship/gf, when you get her number, DO NOT call her for atleast 5 DAYS. So if you get it on a saturday call her one a thursday. But if the 5 day rule falls on a friday, saturday or sunday(IE. you get the number monday you call on saturday, right? NO only call and make plans for non-normal date days (normal date days are friday saturday)
9) Make dates for non-normal dating days, if you can show her a good time on a tuesday night, your as good as gold.
10) DO NOT make the fist date very impressive, trust me on this.
11) DO NOT call her for atleast 5 days AFTER your first date. Again, trust me on this. The object is to make her call you or wonder what your doing, where you are, ect.
10) DO NOT try and show off money, its ok to pay for dinner, but after the 3rd date ITS OK to start joking/asking her to pay sometimes.
11) Refer to answer 9, showing off money shows that your not man enough to impress her on your own. While this tactic may work for some people, it wont create a good balance for a relationship, and it WILL create a nice hole in your wallet ;-p

p.s.
I'll rant more later, if you wanna talk or need advice hit me up on AIM, sn is bl00dr4in. I love solving problems like this, and trust me, these are proven facts and they WORK. If you want some pointers on getting women I'll write that later too

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[bloodMoney]

then try to enjoy every minute you have... Until she quits. then don't look back.

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[gt_driFFter]

she hasnt dumped me yet...

so there is still a chance...

ok here we go.

1) If shes making you feel THAT bad, leave HER.
2) Dont hold on like a lost puppy
3) Enjoy your single life
4) Shes probably leaving you because you tryed to be Mr. Right when girls dont want someone who does exactly what they say, when they say it. And I will bet my life on it if she said 'lets hang out' your first words would be 'ok want me to pick u up?' Refer to answer 5.
5) You have to make dating and relationships a GAME, because thats all it is. If she says "lets hang out tuesday" you say "I cant im busy that day how about friday"
6) Girls want what they cant have, plain and simple
7) As far as making the right move... if you act like a wuss, your gonna get treated like a wuss, and to make things clear being a wuss = bad
8) For your next relationship/gf, when you get her number, DO NOT call her for atleast 5 DAYS. So if you get it on a saturday call her one a thursday. But if the 5 day rule falls on a friday, saturday or sunday(IE. you get the number monday you call on saturday, right? NO only call and make plans for non-normal date days (normal date days are friday saturday)
9) Make dates for non-normal dating days, if you can show her a good time on a tuesday night, your as good as gold.
10) DO NOT make the fist date very impressive, trust me on this.
11) DO NOT call her for atleast 5 days AFTER your first date. Again, trust me on this. The object is to make her call you or wonder what your doing, where you are, ect.
10) DO NOT try and show off money, its ok to pay for dinner, but after the 3rd date ITS OK to start joking/asking her to pay sometimes.
11) Refer to answer 9, showing off money shows that your not man enough to impress her on your own. While this tactic may work for some people, it wont create a good balance for a relationship, and it WILL create a nice hole in your wallet ;-p

p.s.
I'll rant more later, if you wanna talk or need advice hit me up on AIM, sn is bl00dr4in. I love solving problems like this, and trust me, these are proven facts and they WORK. If you want some pointers on getting women I'll write that later too

Listen to this guy, he's got the idea.

[Mynzeyes]

i called my current gf 2 days later, and we've been together strong for 9+ months. she was waiting for me to call the very next day. it all depends on what the girl wants man. i do anything for my gf, and she's greatful. but at the same time, i'm not whipped, and she doesn't wish i were.

i.e. if she wants something, i'll buy it randomly w/o her expecting it. but if she wants to hang out, i'm not always jumping up and down, and running to hang out. and i'll make her come over, etc.

those are valid points, i agree, but it really is from situation to situation. everything in the world is relative.

but if this girl is making you that depressed...move on. you do have to make it work, i believe that, but you don't have to try this hard.

-John-

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[CelicaBuddy]

I'd listen to bloodrain... What he said is very helpful

I'm sorry ya feel this way. It alwasy sucks to end relationships or be hung over wondering whats going to happen next.

Dont blame yourself tho, just because she says your too "shy" doesnt mean anything. You should never havta change yourself just because it doesnt live up to someone else's standards. Being yourself is the most important thing I think in a relationship because you get a feel of what kind of person you are and what kind of person you are looking for...

Whatever happens, happens. But keep in mind she's just your first gf. I assume your still getting a feel for what you want in a relationship so dont take this too hard. There will be other girls down the road, so dont worry about it too much.

Hope all will be okay

[XS4lv1Truch0x]

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[bloodrain]

nono she didnt make me feel like that... i made myself feel like that... today is a new day, so new emotions come my way...

and well yeah... its not her fault.

well explain the whole situation and we can help better.

and keep this in your mind, ITS YOUR FIRST GIRLFRIEND, if you think your going to live happly ever after you must be smoking some crazy sh!t, lol. It happens to the best of us, you think your on solid ground until the rug comes out from under neither you. But ya, explain what happend between you guys and I'll let you know what to do. Oh and BTW, if your making yourself depressed she knows it, and can sense it. These girls can do that, i dunno how, its like a 6th sense.

[Jen]

wow, that's deep.

[IdiotStick]

Goddamn blood rain, thats some good tips right there.

Maybe you should give him some public tips on how to meet girls so that he wont feel so bad about leaving this one?



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[bloodrain]

Goddamn blood rain, thats some good tips right there.

Maybe you should give him some public tips on how to meet girls so that he wont feel so bad about leaving this one?

I was seriously thinking of starting my own "How to get the oppotsite sex" thread. I took psychology for a few years and I actually did ALOT of studying and research on how girls think. There really not that hard to figure out, and im not the most attractive guy in the world but there are quite a few simple 'techniques' that I found to work almost all the time. Anywho, XS4lv1Truch0x, like i said, if you tell me what happend I can offer a solution, and whether you listen to my advice or not its always an option for ya. And if anyone else has any questions feel free to ask me! Im the 6gc psychatrist! lol

[97lestyousay]

I dated a psych major for 4 years and I must say what bloodrain said is all
true. F-ed up imo, but true. It is a sad day for us as a society when we
have to use such tactics to have a relationship. Don't be open or honest
or she will drop you like a hot biscuit. Play on her insecuritys, she will be
playing on yours. Give up on ms. right go for ms. right now, you will
save yourself a lot of time and energy.

[IdiotStick]

Goddamn blood rain, thats some good tips right there.

Maybe you should give him some public tips on how to meet girls so that he wont feel so bad about leaving this one?

I was seriously thinking of starting my own "How to get the oppotsite sex" thread. I took psychology for a few years and I actually did ALOT of studying and research on how girls think. There really not that hard to figure out, and im not the most attractive guy in the world but there are quite a few simple 'techniques' that I found to work almost all the time. Anywho, XS4lv1Truch0x, like i said, if you tell me what happend I can offer a solution, and whether you listen to my advice or not its always an option for ya. And if anyone else has any questions feel free to ask me! Im the 6gc psychatrist! lol

Okok, could you please post some techniques for when initially meeting someone, wether it be in public, or say at a bar/whatever. I've always had a hard time getting that initial "hi, my name is..." Always have the crazy drunk friend to go start the convo.

[bloodrain]

Meeting girls is alot easier than you think. The first thing you have to do is get rid of your nervousness. Now you might say "But bloodrain, being nervous is a natural reaction" and im going to tell you "wrong." Being nervous is a sign of insecruity and girls pick up on that like like a $100 bill at the strip club. The easiest way (I found) to get over your nervousness is simple, go out and meet girls! Now im not saying pick the hottest girl you can find and try to get her number, what I did was just go to a mall and try to start a conversation with EVERY girl you can. While I was doing my report in highschool I literally tryed to talk to about 300 girls in one day. Was I trying to get there number? Most of them the answer is no. Did I get every number I tryed? Haha hell has a better chance of it freezing over. Did I learn anything? Yes... I trained myself not to be nervous when approaching a girl. Are you nervous when you drive to work when you first sit down in your drivers seat and turn the key? Of course not (unless you live down here in Miami then you better be scared, lol) anywho, when you started driving you were most of the time nervous, you didnt know what was going to happen, how things were going to react, and how things would end up. If your nervous from talking to a girl, there are ALOT worse things to be scared of. For instance driving, you could get killed. With a girl, whats the worst she can do, say no thanks? The first thing you need to do is get over the 'fear' of approaching a girl, when your walking thru the mall and see a beautiful girl, you sub-consciencly make 11 assumptions about her. The first few arent important, but the 5 and 6th thought is usaully "she already has a boyfriend" or "shes probably too good to talk to me (or something along those lines)." Now if you think your the first person to think "man, shes so good looking" your dead wrong, but if you can get the courage to talk to her, your already ahead of the 90% of the guys who were too shy to say anything. Now what I seriously want you to do is this, go to a crowded place and talk to girls. Like I said I literally had to do it 327 times (to be exact) before I felt comfortable walking up to any girl and starting a conversation. And for everyone who is reading this hoping to find the 'magical pickup line' is going to be very depressed, because unfortunatly there is no such thing. The 'pick up' lines that I found work best are actually pretty simple. First you have to base it off the area your in. And for my sake we will imagin we are in a mall. You see a girl walking by HERSELF (approaching a group of girls is VERY difficult, especially if you are trying to pick one girl) anywho, you notice the girl is walking in your general direction and when shes close enough all you say is "Excuse me miss, I just find that those *insert item here* looks amazing on you," or "excuse me miss, I just love a woman with good posture" Now all you do is smile and walk away. Now what this did was pretty simple, it f*cks with there head. We will use the line with posture for reference. The first thing they think when a guy approachs them is "hes gonna ask me for my number" so what you did with that icebreaker (since its not really a pick up line) is 1) you made her ASSUME you complimented her, when in all reality you did nothing of the sort or you just noted something she had on 2) you threw her a curve ball by NOT asking her name and number. Now this will either do 2 things for you, 1) she will ignore you/say thank you or 2) smile back. Now if she does #1 leave and continue to the next girl, but if she smiles with a good genuine smile that is key for the pick up line "My name is SoAndSo" then go from there. Now, something to remember, MAKE STRONG EYE CONTACT, if she looks at you on the initial look, DO NOT look away from her until she looks away first. Strong eye contact shows your strong and not afraid, if she looks at you and looks LEFT, she has a 95% chance of being interested in you, if she looks to her right its only at about a 15%. Anywho, if you want more situations feel free to ask, I could go on forever with this stuff.


p.s.
When you insert a part, stay FAR FAR away from her ass, boobs, or other sexual parts. Small things like earrings, her eyes, rings, eye liner, and make-up (lip stick, ect.) will work the best.

"Excuse me miss, I just had to tell you that you have extremly beautiful eyes."


oh and idiot stick, by having a drunk friend go talk to the girl, he has approximatly 84% higher chances than you for getting her name and number, lol. Simply because in her mind she says "he's too scared to come talk to me"

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[Steevo]

My wife loves that I am secure in crowds and with peeps I don't know. Every other puss, err guy that she ever dated was nervous and wanted to get down to the hot and heavy. I took her out shopping, made her try on lingerie, dinner, friends, movies.


She actually was umm, swinging for the same team before I met her as she was so tired of the bull****.


And now I have a son

[neKronos]

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

I found this to be a good read awhile back, somewhat biased and comedic, but it does make a lot of very valid points on the whole lets be friends thing.

Bottom line females are irrational creatures of illogical complexity that create confusion.

[Steevo]

There was a guy that came into the shop where my wife April works and had a cosmetologost wax his chest and back. Then he asked her out on a date after whining and crying as it hurt so bad.



I know this lady. She waxes herself south of the border.

[bloodrain]

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

I found this to be a good read awhile back, somewhat biased and comedic, but it does make a lot of very valid points on the whole lets be friends thing.

Bottom line females are irrational creatures of illogical complexity that create confusion.

As far as the friends thing goes I completly agree, as far as everything else, i completly disagree.

There was a guy that came into the shop where my wife April works and had a cosmetologost wax his chest and back. Then he asked her out on a date after whining and crying as it hurt so bad.



I know this lady. She waxes herself south of the border.

and what does this have to do with anything?...

[IdiotStick]

I think I am going to give that mall thing a shot this weekend. Im in Toronto for another week, so why not right? I wont meet any of these people again.

Also, thank you very much for the suggestions, Blood.

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[bloodrain]

I think I am going to give that mall thing a shot this weekend. Im in Toronto for another week, so why not right? I wont meet any of these people again.

Also, thank you very much for the suggestions, Blood.

anytime anytime, and ya since ur in another place, its the perfect opportunity, you will NEVER see any of those people again. And like I said, just talk to every girl, doesnt matter if shes extremly ugly, or the hottest girl you've ever seen, the object is to overcome your nervousness and find a good way to approach a girl.

[neKronos]

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

I found this to be a good read awhile back, somewhat biased and comedic, but it does make a lot of very valid points on the whole lets be friends thing.

Bottom line females are irrational creatures of illogical complexity that create confusion.

As far as the friends thing goes I completly agree, as far as everything else, i completly disagree.

That is why I said the on the friends thing (ive totally been a victim of the friends ladder), a lot of whats written comes off to me as bitter satire, which I found to be entertaining yet not true due to its ridiculous nature as well as personal experience.

There was a guy that came into the shop where my wife April works and had a cosmetologost wax his chest and back. Then he asked her out on a date after whining and crying as it hurt so bad.



I know this lady. She waxes herself south of the border.

and what does this have to do with anything?...

That he acted like a wuss? and then had the audacity to ask the girl who just waxed him out?

[bloodrain]

actually waxing hurts a hell of alot, my g/f did it 2 part of my leg while i was falling asleep. Anywho, I will bet even after getting his chest waxed and complaining about it, the girl found him somewhat attractive and thought about giving her number, if she didnt.

[neKronos]

Id have to say that the amount of hurt is all dependant on your pain tolerance, and how well you can deal with it.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

8) For your next relationship/gf, when you get her number, DO NOT call her for atleast 5 DAYS. So if you get it on a saturday call her one a thursday. But if the 5 day rule falls on a friday, saturday or sunday(IE. you get the number monday you call on saturday, right? NO only call and make plans for non-normal date days (normal date days are friday saturday)

^ ok tom lykis



I agree with teh following rules set forth by tom -- this is a bit OT but thinking of TOM LYKIS made me get these rules

NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!

Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.

Don't ask a women what she wants to do.

Never tell a women how much money you make.

Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.

Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.

Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.

NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on. (i agree with this if both sides arent really looking for a relationship)

No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!

Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.

NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.

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[neKronos]

NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!

I wouldnt be entirely sure about her stance on abortion, unless she religious and depending on what age she had the child. Also she may have been in love with a guy, then he ran.
But if shes any kind of decent mother the kid will no doubt no matter what come before you.

Don't ask a women what she wants to do.

Its true, they do like the assertive take charge attitude.

Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.

Stick to a budget or else you'll spend all the money on the girl, and how will you mod your celi then?
As for the alcohol can't that be considered rape in some places?

NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

That is if you are just trying to get laid, but if shes leaves her group or what not, why not make a move just for practice, or if you enjoy a challenge.

Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.
NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.

Theres something about being unavailable that is intriguing to the female mind. Its a good thing if you arent in a relationship with them yet, but being unavailable in a relationship not so good.

Never tell a women how much money you make.

This may weed out some of the golddiggers however if you are making moneys more often than not it will make you seem like a pompus arrogant prick and depending on how old you are itll seem like you are living off of mommy and daddy money.
You've got money to live your life the way you want to and you are happy with that nuff said.

Theres over 6.5 billion people in the world with a gender to gender ratio close to 101 males to every 100 females.
So its like bloodrain said, go up and talk to girls you never know what might happen unless you try and itll stop the what if questions because you actually did something.

Confidence (feeling and visually portrayed), eye contact, coming off as warm and inviting yet mysterious. Seem to work pretty well, also sometimes not trying or making it seem as you dont want get anything from them such as a date or ass may work better than trying, even if it is what you really want.

All this take is making me wanna sign up for some pysch classes. :\

[Rayme]

I've been reading alot about women during my single period, It finally paied off. I think the bottom point is the same as most explained up in the thread. Don't act or be like all the other guys that approached girls!

I recently dated(and eventually became her BF) a girl that most would consider hot. Some stuff I did on dates? I gave her no compliments whatsoever(think about it, most guys will say cute stuff to her on the first date), I didn't pay for the dinner or movies, I tryed to picked on her in funny ways.

After, she told me she loved me because I was different(well that not the only reason hopefully! LOL), and I wasn't the way she thought I was at first. I hope it makes sense to you guys BE DIFFERENT, UNUSUAL, but not wierd!

[bloodrain]

I've been reading alot about women during my single period, It finally paied off. I think the bottom point is the same as most explained up in the thread. Don't act or be like all the other guys that approached girls!

I recently dated(and eventually became her BF) a girl that most would consider hot. Some stuff I did on dates? I gave her no compliments whatsoever(think about it, most guys will say cute stuff to her on the first date), I didn't pay for the dinner or movies, I tryed to picked on her in funny ways.

After, she told me she loved me because I was different(well that not the only reason hopefully! LOL), and I wasn't the way she thought I was at first. I hope it makes sense to you guys BE DIFFERENT, UNUSUAL, but not wierd!

ha thats great, sounds like the book is paying off EXCEPT you made one mistake. From that alone I can tell you feel lucky to be with her, when she should be lucky to be with YOU. Keep that in mind, your goin in the right direction, you just need to have the right mind set now.

[JoKeRkId613]

man, that's some good stuff bloodrain. we need to go chick hunting one day. lol.

[Predator]

i vote for STICKY

[Akimbo]

good tips blood. i want to go to a mall and try this.

one other thing, the "beautiful eyes" line is hella cliche

[bloodrain]

good tips blood. i want to go to a mall and try this.

one other thing, the "beautiful eyes" line is hella cliche

ya, on my 'adventures' I found that to be most effective. And check it out, even if they say "I have contacts on" think about it, its a PERFECT opportunity to start a conversation, shes not shutting you out shes answering into your questions. Oh, I didnt ask her a question? In reality you did, thats why psychology is awsome. And the mall trick is awsome, i've told probably about 6 people about it, they all did it and SWEAR by it now, lol. Anywho as always, feel free to ask questions guys, in the thread of thru a PM

[mzztoyota]

Guys that approach me with a swagger and look over-confident, like there is no way in hell that I will say no, that make me worry they will key my car if I don't give them my number...they don't have a chance in hell...

I've had guys approach me with a nice smile, not an eager I-wanna-screw-you smile, but a genuine "Hey, seeing you just now has made my day just a little bit better," kind of smile. They come up, ask how my day has been, if I go to school here/live here, they compliment me somehow by saying they've seen me around and I seem cool, or that they heard I was into cars, or whatever...they say their name, mention their major or their job, and ask if I'm going out any night soon and if so, where?

I usually tell them when and where I'll be, but I'll regrettably admit that I have a boyfriend so as not to create trouble...

the ones who say something like, "Well, that's not a problem" or "That doesn't bother me," I immediately dislike and get away from...

but the ones who say, "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sure he's a great guy/He's really lucky...maybe if things don't work out we'll bump into eachother again..."

those guys I always am left thinking about...wondering what they would have been like if I were single, and if anything does go wrong, they're always on the list for people to chat it up with later at the clubs, lol...

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

There is no list, and no general about these types of situations. Each is unique. I am close to getting my masters in Geriatric Psychology from WVU at this point, and I have dealt with enough of this to know. Don't take advice from people who have not had training.

[bloodrain]

There is no list, and no general about these types of situations. Each is unique. I am close to getting my masters in Geriatric Psychology from WVU at this point, and I have dealt with enough of this to know. Don't take advice from people who have not had training.

haha, I hope you dont mean me. I've been researching and take classes since 9th grade. (4 years in HS and 2 in college) I also research and study human behaviors as a hobby. I find it fun to see how predictable people are. Granted I dont have a masters in psychology, im far from a amateur. ;-) you also dont need "training" to give advice from life experiences. Im not telling them how to live there life or telling them to do anything that will get them hurt or introuble, what I post has no more effect on them than them going out and reading a magazine for dating.

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 29, 2006 - 6:58 PM

[JoKeRkId613]

oh! someone got OWNED!!!

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

There is no list, and no general about these types of situations. Each is unique. I am close to getting my masters in Geriatric Psychology from WVU at this point, and I have dealt with enough of this to know. Don't take advice from people who have not had training.

haha, I hope you dont mean me. I've been researching and take classes since 9th grade. (4 years in HS and 2 in college) I also research and study human behaviors as a hobby. I find it fun to see how predictable people are. Granted I dont have a masters in psychology, im far from a amateur. ;-) you also dont need "training" to give advice from life experiences. Im not telling them how to live there life or telling them to do anything that will get them hurt or introuble, what I post has no more effect on them than them going out and reading a magazine for dating.

Just be careful. When people think you know, they will listen. That's a big responsibility to be right.

[bloodrain]

There is no list, and no general about these types of situations. Each is unique. I am close to getting my masters in Geriatric Psychology from WVU at this point, and I have dealt with enough of this to know. Don't take advice from people who have not had training.

haha, I hope you dont mean me. I've been researching and take classes since 9th grade. (4 years in HS and 2 in college) I also research and study human behaviors as a hobby. I find it fun to see how predictable people are. Granted I dont have a masters in psychology, im far from a amateur. ;-) you also dont need "training" to give advice from life experiences. Im not telling them how to live there life or telling them to do anything that will get them hurt or introuble, what I post has no more effect on them than them going out and reading a magazine for dating.

Just be careful. When people think you know, they will listen. That's a big responsibility to be right.

ya i know, thats why whenever I give advice I always tell them to take it with a grain of salt. All I do is share past experiences with them, b/c you and I know history always repeats itself. So, just to make everything clear guys when I give advice, use your best judgement and do what you think you should do. Dont rely on me to think im your savior :-p