What To Do?, About this girl I met... Options

[Coomer]

Last weekend I went up to the Seattle area for my friend Sandra's boyfriend's cousin's 21st birthday party. It was kinda boring for a little bit because I'm really shy and I only knew my friend and her boyfriend. This girl at the party introduced herself to me and we ended up talking for a while at the restaurant, and we talked for a while more when we made it back to the house where everyone was staying. Most everyone was drinking except us, and eventually around 3AM she told me she was tired and told me to come upstairs and I could be her bed buddy. So we went upstairs, laid in bed(fully clothed), talked for a while, then eventually we fell asleep with her in my arms. We didn't kiss or anything, but I think we kinda clicked with each other.

The next morning she woke up and hopped in the shower because she had to go to work, and before I was able to talk to her again Sandra and I left to go back to Yakima...so I don't have her phone number or anything.

But, it turned out that she is one of Sandra's boyfriend's cousins. She's 21, into cars, she's funny, nice, really pretty, skinny, blonde, etc. And she is only living in Seattle temporarily...she used to live in Yakima, moved up there a few weeks ago, but is moving back to Yakima soon(within a couple months.)

I really like her, and I want to hang out with her some more and see if things could work out between us. I'm thinking about seeing if Sandra's boyfriend can convince her to come to Yakima to hang out, or maybe see if somehow I could go to Seattle with Sandra's boyfriend or something to hang out with her. It sucks not having her number. What do you guys think I should do?

[importceli]

aint gonna hit it =D

[Akimbo]

Talk to Sandra's boyfriend.

[WannabeGT4]

Is your friend Sandra close with her boyfriends cousin? If so have her talk to her and try and get her to get you her number. Otherwise you could have your friends boyfriend get you her number. Or make up an excuse to go back like you left your *insert valuable object* there.

This post has been edited by WannabeGT4: Nov 23, 2004 - 8:10 PM

[fastgt]

dude try to get her number, if you two had fun together maybe you two can have a whole lot fun in the future...and hopefully she can convince you to keep the yelliceli

[macavely]

should have asked her her number that nite... but its still all good... just give you number to your friends BF and tell them to give it to her.. if she calls you back.. then its all good.. talk to her and see what happenes... if she never calls you. just remeber 7 to 1 .. what does that mean you ask.. for ever one guy in the world there are seven women...

[Mynzeyes]

and mac's already got his 7...

[Gilbert_619]

if you find yourself thinking about this girl more then you should be then yes....do everything possible to get her..get a number would be a start..

just make sure its worth waiting for...

remember dont settle for the one you can live with
settle for the one you cant live without

get some pimp juice and get back:)

[Andason]

m00t for mac's idea

[Digndoug]

Man women suck.. they just get into your mind.. thats similar to my problem, theres a girl a school i see maybe once a week an talk to her for like 15-30 min each time, but can never get myself to ask her out.. im shy only to women i like.

[Andason]

Man women suck.. they just get into your mind.. thats similar to my problem, theres a girl a school i see maybe once a week an talk to her for like 15-30 min each time, but can never get myself to ask her out.. im shy only to women i like.
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ditto. well at least until i have a 12 pack gone

This post has been edited by Andason: Nov 23, 2004 - 9:42 PM

[coustoe]

sing her a love song

[Andason]

some boyz ii men is always a hit with the ladies. or d'angelo

[shid]

Go for itt

[Jdog1385]

Go for itt

you'll regret it if you don't.

[orvillescelica]

ask Sandras bf to ask his cousin if it would be alright for him to give you her number. Make sure you tell him to ask her if it will be alright, and not just get it from him without her permission. This is for two reasons, 1) you dont want to call her out of hte blue without her expecting it and have to explain how you go thte number. 2) its much more old fashion and gentlemenly if you properly ask for her permission.

i dont think giving Sandras bf your number and giving it to her is a great idea. Because it puts the control in her hands and in my expereince girls are reluctant to make the first move.

[dstrbcelica]

dooooooooo ittttttttttttttttttt coomer.

-dstrb

[spunky393]

He already mentioned that this girl introduced HER SELF to him at the party. So, maybe mac's idea is good enough. She already made the first move

[Blakout16]

i say u should. wewt.

[chucho]

y you talking to us, you should be talking to her friend that you know.

[FallenHero]

y you talking to us, you should be talking to her friend that you know.
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Werd...

[orvillescelica]

He already mentioned that this girl introduced HER SELF to him at the party. So, maybe mac's idea is good enough. She already made the first move

ah yes, she did... very good point!

So that means you have two very good options in front of you Coomer!

This post has been edited by orvillescelica: Nov 24, 2004 - 2:12 AM

[Coomer]

Thanks for all the advice guys...I think I'll get Ronnie to ask her if it's ok if I call her...hopefully she'll be cool with that.

[The__J__Factor]

yay for coomer!!!!!

Hopefully its all sweet man

[Sev408]

Last weekend I went up to the Seattle area for my friend Sandra's boyfriend's cousin's 21st birthday party.

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what is this Spaceballs the Movie.


and to be serious well u clicked so get her number and give her a call

[macavely]

we should put our money together and sned coomer at 20 pack...
play on olaya and don't leave you house with out a pack of the boom profalactives....

[amysmojo]

  we should put our money together and sned coomer at 20 pack...
play on olaya and don't leave you house with out a pack of the boom profalactives....

haha, hey Natalie, lets buy him like a year supply. We'll have "6gc" put on them

[Digndoug]

haha, hey Natalie, lets buy him like a year supply. We'll have "6gc" put on them


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Oh, that is just so sadd..... lmao

[Coomer]

w00t! I've been talking to this girl since last Friday on the phone, and last night she drove to Yakima and we hung out for a while. We didn't do much really, just got coffee and talked and drove the canyon roads and went to a friends house, but it was a lot of fun and I think we both like each other.

And I'm going to go up to her place this weekend to hang out for a while since I need to get car parts from the junkyards up in Seattle anyway.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

hmmm now i know why you didnt pick up ur phone! bastard!!!

coomer come down to portland with me - ill drive - CELICA MEET ON SUNDAY!!

[madmods]

Coomer,
I usually don't answer these love post, but I am going to help you out. Do some research on Evil Knievel. I know he was before our time, but read on how he met his wife, and this will solve your ????s Trust me Coomer, I know women very good. After you have her.....you got to treat them good and bad. If your good all the time they will leave you, but add a little bad boy.....they aint going no where. Its just a matter of balancing it right.

[Digndoug]

If your good all the time they will leave you, but add a little bad boy.....they aint going no where. Its just a matter of balancing it right.
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HaHa, Thats were I screwed up.. Stupid women, to hard to understand..

[madmods]

Treat them bad, but not too bad. Then sneak a gift under the pillow, then two days later, treat them bad again. Thats the secret formula. I hope I don't get in trouble for revealing this on a public website. I should of pm'd it. Forgive me my bros out there that are saying, "man shut the &%%$# up!"

[Coomer]

LOL, that's never made sense to me, but it seems so true.

I don't see how I'm supposed to be mean to a girl though...that's just not me; Never has been and never will be. But it seems as if you don't, girls just take advantage of you.

How do you specifically treat a girl bad?

[spunky393]

play the, "i'm acting like somethign is wrong, but nothing is really wrong" game with her, untill she starts pouting and finally give's up. Have a short convo that night, but nothign drastic, just a "yeah, that was fun, thanks, see ya next time deal." Then next time you see her, lay it on her, show her who you are, sweet coomer.....

[madmods]

Alright Coomer....Heres the Bible......Women 101 by madmods:

Ok Coomer,
I’m going to preach. Unfortunately I shouldn’t be giving out guy secrets because I know Amy, Jen, Sabrina, and Natalie (if I left any females out sorry) read these post, and we don’t want them to learn our secrets.
All right, treating a girl bad has nothing to do with physical abuse or anything like that. If your man is hitting you ladies, then you need to drop that loser. It’s all about psychology and the universal rule. Always be a challenge. It works both ways. Ever have a hot girl after you, and she’s hooked, and calls every couple of hours and does everything for you, and invades your space all the time? It gets old after a while right? Well she’s no longer a challenge to you, so you start looking for someone else. As cold as that sounds, it’s so true. It works both ways.

Have you ever been set up on a blind date, and the person wasn’t all that? You kind of get an altitude. You don’t show it, but the other person can read that you’re disappointed in your face. That’s the secret. Think about, if your blind date was a knockout, you would be bending over backwards for her. That’s being the nice guy. They will run all over you if there scandalous (money, favors, etc). Now get this same girl and treat her like you’re not interested, and she’s on you like grease on porkchops. You have to let her know you’re not too interested in her by your lack of actions. Kiss her butt, and your just another guy that wants her. Act like, oh well theres other girls out there…..that works!

You must be a challenge to them, and most important remain a challenge to them. If your home alone all
weekend, don’t call them and let them know that! The worse thing you can do is call a women all the time when you’re getting to know her. Stay busy, if your not busy, let her assume your busy. Don’t call her and say your thinking of her all the time. I’m not saying don’t show her any positive emotions, because there is a time for that, but at first hold your ground. Once you are no longer a challenge you’re a goner. That’s the most important thing to remember here Coomer. Be a challenge

Ever been at work and theirs 2 girls, ones a knockout and the other one is so and so. Ever notice how it’s easier to strike and hold a conversation with the one that’s so and so? Why? That’s how you got to treat the one you want. The guy that’s not paying her attention is the guy she wants. Don’t make yourself available to her all the time. Example: “Coomer, what are you doing this weekend?” she asks. You reply, nothing just chilling. Might work on my car…..Proper answer is going out with a friend on Friday (don’t say guy or girl, keep her guessing) and Saturday got invited to some cool party. Even if your staying home! Its not a lie, but just your strategy to get the girl you want.

Once your dating her, don’t kiss her butt all the time. If she ask you if she looks fat in that outfit, and she does, say so. Don’t always be nice. Compliment her on her hair and at the same time say, your going to wear that??? Its weird but sometimes when you’re a dick thats when they want you. It’s a universal rule, It just works out that way. So in a nutshell don’t overdo it, you got to be nice too, but too nice and you will lose out. Be a gentlemen and a dick. Sorry to all you guys for giving our secrets out, just trying to help out a brother.