Goodbye everyone., going on vacation. Options

[Mynzeyes]

i'll be back eventually, but i'm taking a break from everything. i've got to get my life straight.

at this point in my life, i'm at an all-time low. i have no belief in myself. i have very little in other people, and i've felt more pain in the last few days and weeks than i have in a long long time. even with what happened with my X. i'm convinced that no one would care if i packed all my things, and drove off with out telling everyone, but that's the point i'm in right now. people tell me they would, but i'm convinced that they just pity me, and want me to feel better. i don't understand a lot of things that are going on right now, and i'm going to figure them out, even if it's the last thing i do.

i need help, and i know that. so, i'm going to find a way to get it. i need to get school straight. and my home life. and my social life. if you think i'm a pansy or whatever because i'm leaving to get everything in order, that's your own opinion, and i respect it. i just need as little distractions as possible, and i need to get everything how i want it to be. i'm 23, and i work at a damn restaurant as a host...something's not right. i'm better than that. so i'm going to get it.

don't worry about me coming back, because i will be back, might be a week, might be a month, might be a year. there are just other things that have become a lot more important.

i've already talked to coomer about it, and as of tomorrow i will be a "normal member". upon my return, i may return to my position, but that will be determined at that time.

sorry to let anyone down, and g'luck to everyone w/ their projects.

i'll be on AIM still, maybe not as much, but whatever...

-John-

and btw, there's no convincing me to stay, but i might pop in every now and again while i'm @ school or something. ::shrug::

</pity post>

[Jdog1385]

damn bro, hope everything is well. things will look up...it takes time.

[Jen]

I'm sorry that I f-cked up your life.

[madmods]

John, sorry to hear that you too are leaving. My offer still stands if you need to get away for a while. Good luck bro

[CheesyLobster]

I hope that where ever life brings you you will find happiness. Remember that there are other fish in the sea, and I know that that can be hard to comprehend at times. I know that there are people out there for everyone, you just have to find them. Move on and live life, and have no regrets. Good luck, you will aways have a place here in the forums.

Brian

[Keiri]

I didn't get to know you John but I'll miss you nonetheless. Take care of yourself, get your life together, and do what makes you happy. <S>

Brian

[95gtschick]

take care, i know in the end you'll find what you want to find, and feel how you want to feel. things will get straightened out, just take your time, be patient... most of all, have fun.. with whatever you do. take care

[1bwilson]

John, I really hope you dont mean what you said about us not really caring. This community wouldn't have become so loving if it werent the people who started it so mayn years ago. You are one of the founders of the 6th gen movement and you'll never be forgoten for that. Dont ever forget the great moments youve brought to us, and I only pray we've brought some to you..... Remember the John is a pimp fund?

We'll all miss you for the time you gone but we understand this is for the best and you'll be back here soon.

[FallenHero]

We love ya john boy. Anything I can do to help just let me know. If you ever need to talk, FallenHero@Rock.com

[Supersprynt]

You know my s/n.

[Defgeph]

John,

You Rock !

IM me fool

DEF

[Drocay]

Yea man, take care of your self cause thats the most important thing and then come back to us.

[Jaws4God]

Jesus Loves You

[Batman722]

i'll be back eventually, but i'm taking a break from everything. i've got to get my life straight.

at this point in my life, i'm at an all-time low. i have no belief in myself. i have very little in other people, and i've felt more pain in the last few days and weeks than i have in a long long time. even with what happened with my X. i'm convinced that no one would care if i packed all my things, and drove off with out telling everyone, but that's the point i'm in right now. people tell me they would, but i'm convinced that they just pity me, and want me to feel better. i don't understand a lot of things that are going on right now, and i'm going to figure them out, even if it's the last thing i do.

i need help, and i know that. so, i'm going to find a way to get it. i need to get school straight. and my home life. and my social life. if you think i'm a pansy or whatever because i'm leaving to get everything in order, that's your own opinion, and i respect it. i just need as little distractions as possible, and i need to get everything how i want it to be. i'm 23, and i work at a damn restaurant as a host...something's not right. i'm better than that. so i'm going to get it.

don't worry about me coming back, because i will be back, might be a week, might be a month, might be a year. there are just other things that have become a lot more important.

i've already talked to coomer about it, and as of tomorrow i will be a "normal member". upon my return, i may return to my position, but that will be determined at that time.

sorry to let anyone down, and g'luck to everyone w/ their projects.

i'll be on AIM still, maybe not as much, but whatever...

-John-

and btw, there's no convincing me to stay, but i might pop in every now and again while i'm @ school or something. ::shrug::

</pity post>

My kind words - We have all gone through stuff like this. You need to get yourself together -BIG TIME. If you are so bad off then see a shrink or talk to close friends.

My professional opinion - Your life is what you make of it. If you are unhappy with your home, job, girl, life, then change it. Make it happen. Don't sit on your rear and let bad things happen to you, that is what losers do. Make the choice of what you are and what you want to be. Do it now.
Honestly, try a motivational tape/CD - you will be suprised to see how well they can work.

My personal opinion - this is what I think you are


Everybody has problems, stop blabbering - at least in a car forum.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

^^not cool Batman722. He knows what he needs to do. He's going to do it. There's no point in being a jerk about it. If someone has a problem, and they are upset, it doesn't do anyone any good to say things like "stop wining." In case you were wondering what gives me the right to say that, I am a Junior college student studieing to be a psychologist/theropist. I know my stuff.


EDIT: John, if you ever feel the need to talk to someone new who's willing to try and help you (and you don't feel like paying for proffesional help), give me a yell.

This post has been edited by Bigmeanbulldog55: Mar 24, 2005 - 1:30 AM

[Batman722]

in short, he needs a kick in the a$$. Sorry to be a jerk about it but it is true. I will not hold back my opinion if someone posts stuff like that. He is looking for pity

</pity post>

Pity will not help him...a big gulp of the truth and support will.

[Exile04]

wow dude thats messed up but ill be sure to kick you well you down..ok just let me know...

john sry to here im not kinda lo right now i could be alot worse but its not fun times thats for sure good luck

[Mynzeyes]

in short, he needs a kick in the a$$. Sorry to be a jerk about it but it is true. I will not hold back my opinion if someone posts stuff like that. He is looking for pity

</pity post>

Pity will not help him...a big gulp of the truth and support will.
[right][snapback]261590[/snapback][/right]

i love how people know what other people need. and like you know what i need to do. when you have NO idea what i've been though, or what i've already done. i don't need your pity. the tag was sarcasm. i don't care if you think i'm a 'crybaby', because i think you're a nobody. i don't even know you. from what i remember, you're a middle 30something year old divorced single male. who are you to tell someone what they need, and how they should live? i don't care if you're older than me, and you think you know so much more about life than me, because i know you are more ignorant than i.

sure this is a car forum, but have you ever heard of the word "community"? what are you, member 2500 or something? look at my member number. i've been here, everyone knows me. there's more to this place than cars. it's about life. it's about love. it's about the pursuit of a common goal. your active roll in OT proves that it's more than a car forum.

i know the truth. i don't need anyone's pity. support, i have plenty of. i guess i really don't care what you have to say, but i just think that you should know it's a complete waste of both your time and mine for someone like you to stick your ignorant opinion in on it. you know nothing of what is going on, but somehow you know exactly what i need...you're amazing. </yourself>

-John-

[orvillescelica]

when you return, youll be welcomed back to the 6gc family!! good luck with... whatever you need luck in.

[Andason]

in short, he needs a kick in the a$$. Sorry to be a jerk about it but it is true. I will not hold back my opinion if someone posts stuff like that. He is looking for pity

</pity post>

Pity will not help him...a big gulp of the truth and support will.
[right][snapback]261590[/snapback][/right]

man up mr ill show my penis on the internet.

i own you

[Batman722]

You are correct, I am a 31 year old divorced male. I am a nobody. Member # whatever...and I posted a reply.

What I wrote is my opinion. I stated that clearly. I don't actually "know" what you need, I stated my opinion of what I believe you need. In this "community" opinions I believe are welcome. I have just as much right posting my opinion as you yours - especialy in this post.

I only know about you what you have written, and in short :
23 year old who doesn't like his job, has broken up with a girl, believes no one cares about him.

Everyone everyone everyone has problems. Do you think yours are different than everyone elses ? How you handle them is the only diference. I offered kind words and opinions.

Deal with it big guy. Change your life.

[Andason]

i still pwn j00

[popstar]

Take care out there fella

trust be you'll sort it, i have the tee shirt......
i ran away to russia .....................................

[macavely]

Do u john.... we'll be here waiting for u .....

[turboinduction]

-John-

and btw, there's no convincing me to stay, but i might pop in every now and again while i'm @ school or something. ::shrug::

</pity post>
[right][snapback]261497[/snapback][/right]

Nude photos of myself on the new Specv? I can have them there by 5. Let me know.

-Ti

[SlowCelica94]

And sometimes, it be like D@mn

[ghostdog]

never been a fan of these 'goodbye I'm leaving' posts. but John knows what he's gotta do and gosh darnit he is gonna git 'er done ..

[Fietsbel]

Goodluck and keep youre head up! that's all i can say

[Digndoug]

in short, he needs a kick in the a$$. Sorry to be a jerk about it but it is true. I will not hold back my opinion if someone posts stuff like that. He is looking for pity

</pity post>

Pity will not help him...a big gulp of the truth and support will.
[right][snapback]261590[/snapback][/right]

man up mr ill show my penis on the internet.

i own you
[right][snapback]261600[/snapback][/right]

OH SHIITT SON! He got you..

An john Your not leaving us... Nor is any one else. Everyone here is getting there life togeather and yes more are worse off then others. But your not going anywhere. You will still be here an there. so I WIN! I mean who else am i going to buy random stuff i dont need from? Tell me that. Ok.. but good luck with "you" Ilk be on aim so im me still.. Good Luck chicken fuccker

This post has been edited by Digndoug: Mar 24, 2005 - 10:26 AM

[vangSTa_celica]

Nude photos of myself on the new Specv? I can have them there by 5. Let me know.

-Ti

You got PM

But John, lotta respect here for you bud. Take it easy and you know we're all here if you need us.

[shin]

hope you'll be able to accomplish watever you'll need to accomplish. good luck

[exxtractor]

Dude you sound like you need professional help. Maybe seeing a therapist or shrink might help you find what you are looking for. Some of the phrases in your comments sound a little scary... seek help from a professional.

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

damn gl. ull be ok man

[CJOHNST3]

A person told me once:

Your young - that only happens once - enjoy it!

they also told me:

Stop riding the bus and get in the driver's seat.

Life is what you make of it!


good luck to you

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

we all go thru that stuff, but there are alot worse things out there, people less fortunate. like people who own civics. or people without homes. or disabled . or sick. try hard to get ur life str8 , and dont involve urself in women for now, they affect men the most.

gl ull b ok

[pr_caralho]

and dont involve urself in women for now, they affect men the most.

well said my friend........ take care buddy dont let things carry you away keep your head up and remeber that you have ppl especially here who always welcome you......

[creis]

Best luck man, later.

[Benevolence]

hope you sort things out on your vacation.