Bringin them home for the first time Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

When do you guys bring a girl home? Do you only do it when your serious with the girl?

I used to never ever allow a guy to come over but now if I think i may be with him for a month or longer ill have him come over. I never let them stay for dinner or anything (mainly cuz we never have a sit down dinner) My brother never brings home a girl unless hes very serious with her. What about you guys?

Last night I met my boyfriends parents. His mom is german and so nice and great cook. His dad is very laid back and great to talk to. He says he never brings home girls but I made a great impression. After we were done with dinner I excused myself and offered to take their finished plates to the kitchen. They made a comment that theyve never had a girl do that! :-) I hope they like me. I think its a make or break it when it comes to parents. Atleast on my end! if my parents dont like a guy im seeing ill definetly 2nd think who im seeing.

[AMCMoe]

I probably would have a girl come over even if we weren't too serious...just to hang out together I guess.

I didn't meet my girlfriends parents for about 3 months after we got together. She didn't meet my parents until even after that. Then again her dad is a pastor and she wasn't allowed to come over...though we've been together for almost a year and a half now and they're fine with me.

Sounds like you made quite a good impression on them.

This post has been edited by AMCMoe: Jun 13, 2005 - 5:02 PM

[reborn0323]

wait til it's serious - wait let me re-phrase that - wait til you think it's serious cuz if she's asking to meet the parents she thinks it is

[Seth6Gen]

edit: nevermind that was dirty...

This post has been edited by Seth6Gen: Jun 13, 2005 - 5:11 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Im a girl by the way :-)

and i didnt ask to meet his parents we were on our way home from canada and hes like lets see what my parents are up to then it turned into lets see what my grandparents are doing too! :-P Grandparents were out golfind unfortunetly! :-(

[LewFX]

so whens the big day set for?? i hope all the 6gc are gonna be invited to see the momentus day!

[ILuvMyCelica95]

hmm i try to avoid a guy meeting my family for as long as possible

the last time a guy picked me up for a date my dad was holding my 110 pound dog who was barking and practically foaming at the mouth and cleaning his shot gun " because its hunting season"

can't wait to move out

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ha my dad wont talk to the guys i bring home cuz he says "what the point? they will be gone in a month anyways"

heheh! my dad i think likes Erik though cuz erik is into drifting and all that :-) yay! My parents want to invite him out for fathers day dinner though --- not sure about that one

[Galcobar]

If the boy is scared by a dog and an unloaded shotgun, he isn't worth the time.

Mind you, I spent my teen years with a 90-pound dog who never lost a fight (never started one either), and am currently living with my sister's pair of 110-pound Great Dane crosses (one should be heavier, but lost a lot of muscle when her rear legs were bad). Big dogs don't scare me, but that's because I've never been bitten by anything I couldn't use for a football.

[Kwanza26]

I bring them home all the time... to the bachelor's pad... ;]

Only one of my former girlfriends ever met my parents.

[dustin15brown]

gotta pic of u 2 Nat?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

nope but i have a pic of just him :-)

[acenova]

all depends on how long it takes to start having sex. HAHA, funny thing is there's some truth to that. Generally, with me, if I plan on dating a girl, my family is some of the first people they meet because I am very close to my parents and my sister and they are fun as hell to kick it with, so basically, that's a test of whether or not the girl will work out, because if you can't get along w/ my family, then the relationship won't go far.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

If the boy is scared by a dog and an unloaded shotgun, he isn't worth the time.

Mind you, I spent my teen years with a 90-pound dog who never lost a fight (never started one either), and am currently living with my sister's pair of 110-pound Great Dane crosses (one should be heavier, but lost a lot of muscle when her rear legs were bad). Big dogs don't scare me, but that's because I've never been bitten by anything I couldn't use for a football.
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lol this is true- could be why im single...bunch of stupid scared guys.

I was bitten by one of my Akitas... but im still not scared of dogs.i <3 them

[Digndoug]

As for me an the girl i just met, well we went to the beach for i guess the first date or what not.. Then they next day she came over an we watched a movie an had chinese.. I didnt think my parents were home, but they were an she met them. As for me meeting her dad.. well just a few days later i went to hang out there for a bit. I dont think its a big deal to meet the parents.

[Blakout16]

i met the ashland's WHOLE fam on the 2nd date hahah, i didnt mind at all actually they were really nice to me and her bro likes to play computer games so that was easy, her dad was into cars... that was a given cuz he saw my car and he was like ooo supra? (lol i just went alot with it and said yah, broke his heart later when he went for a drive... lolol), and her mom is a secretary of the local elementary school and is reallly really nice. her dog is a golden retriever and her cat is a mynx that is a bitch... loves to love bite all the time. and her mom is teaching me sign ! thats pretty cool cuz both ashland and denise are both teaching me soo im learning pretty fast.

[CelicaQT]

How long have you been seeing him Natalie?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

dating him since May 19th. officially b/f and g/f since Friday :-P haha

[SlowCelica94]

I don't hesitate. How long she gets along with my mother is a big deal to me. If they can hit it off, it's pretty cute.

Parents are a judge of character you may not be able to see as well.

[reborn0323]

Im a girl by the way :-)

and i didnt ask to meet his parents we were on our way home from canada and hes like lets see what my parents are up to then it turned into lets see what my grandparents are doing too! :-P Grandparents were out golfind unfortunetly! :-(
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oops sorry guess i should read the post a little more carefully next time so i don't put my foot in my mouth lol

[BlackCelicaGT94]

As for me an the girl i just met, well we went to the beach for i guess the first date or what not.. Then they next day she came over an we watched a movie an had chinese.. I didnt think my parents were home, but they were an she met them. As for me meeting her dad.. well just a few days later i went to hang out there for a bit. I dont think its a big deal to meet the parents.
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well he doesnt live with his parents so its not like i just come over and they are there. They live an hour drive from him so its kinda like he has to go out of his way.

I have no problem meetin parents but i didnt know we were going to see them so i was a little embarassed of my shirt since it was so low cut but his mom didnt mind at all - thank god! :-)