I'm Upset, About A Girl Options

[Celica_Fan]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 18, 2005 - 4:23 PM

[soulshadow]

If its just an e-mail don't be fooled! It could be the works of her boyfriend, brother or someone who just don't like you going out with her! Don't give up yet!

PlZ don't have hope!! <------ the story of pandoras box------>
(although all evil was released into the world there was a tiny blah blah blah hope in the box and more blah) The point is if you have hope its the most miserable thing that will happen to you in the end if things don't go right. HOPE IS MORE MISERABLE THAN MISERY ITSELF!


She might still dig you call, her up and ask if she meant what she really wanted to say what she typed. IF she says what?? Then ask her it was nothing and see if she wants to go on a date this friday night.

[Celica_Fan]

it was her email address honestly shes a complete bitch.

[Celica_Fan]

I already emailed her to tell her what I think about her for treating me the way she has I can't do anything now

[Digndoug]

Dude.. saying you love someone after a little bit of time.. its ni\ot love, its puppy love.. you'll get over it, it sucks, but you'll get over it.

One phrase you should keep in your head. "Treat a girl like dirt, she'll stick to you like mud"
Its not the whole point of treating girls like dirt, its more of the fact dont fall in love, or liek someone that quick. Women are nuts, you'll learn over and over they dont know what they want, and never will. They will **** you over time and time. Just date.. have fun, and..

Next girl that says she loves you that quick.. run..

[Celica_Fan]

she even went in the back of my mirage and grass went all over the carpet from her shoes I had to vacuum out the car again. I will run the next time a girl says that to me.

[forkee]

damn that sucks to be the rebound. that was pretty far. did u at least get any?

[Celica_Fan]

nope that part sucked most chicks in new zealand are mostly sluts wanting sex all the nice good ones are gone:(

[Celica_Fan]

she should know that an ex is the past not the present or the future why go back on something in the past when you can have someone new in your life.

[tin_foil]

Dude, I'm sorry to hear that, but be realist, that was sort of stupid on your part. Any girl who "fell for me" that fast, a would seriously wonder about her emotional(and mental) stability. There's no such thing as true love at first sight. Its sucks that someone used you that bad, but it won't be that hard to "get over" her. She was 16 for gods sake. I don't know how old you are, but a lot of girls that age are emotional bungies. Just forget about the whole thing.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

yeah saying you love someone after that little ammount of time, and at such a young age is just a red flag.


of course it sucks, but you'll be okay.

and i know how bad it sucks to not find someone and all that being alone ****, but after a while it's not that bad really esp cause you don't have to deal with all the crap that comes with relationships, more time for the car too.

[celicagurl152003]

i agree with what they all say...except for the all women are nuts part.....

[ILuvMyCelica95]

nah Christina we are, I've come to admit it, but i've also given up on men so idk. haha

[celicaST]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.  
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hey, wow, first off what were you thinking about meeting a girl online? honestly think that she was a gf? what ever happened to old fashioned meeting people face to face. if you have trouble meeting girls, practice! for some its natural, but most are going to have growing pains learning how to. dont hate her, you set yourself up for that. just remember dating is a numbers game. again, as i tell everybody, its all about having fun in the beginning. she obviously has no sense of her emotions, and frankly niether do you. no problem though, just move on and learn from it, thats all you can do, because only fools repeat their mistakes. if you dont start learning now, youll be the same way in a decade, isnt that scary? and dear god, get off of IM or any other of that online dating BS, youll thank yourself. good luck

[Celica_Fan]

I just found out she wrote that message 40 mins after I left from where she lives what a user. I think I should go out with a girl my own age she was turning 17 in March and I am 19 I think I should date a 19 yo more mature and less bulls**t I have learn't from my mistake. Also I want a girl that lives closer plus that chick that used me didn't like celicas very much and she didn't like the 5th generation one either she said it was ugly She doesn't have a car and a GT4 is better than her anyday.

[95gtschick]

it was over... before it even started

[Consynx]

she's 16. . .
that's like Junior-ish in HS
i'd only trust a senior in High School, and even then ehhh.

just see it as her being a retard, and now knowing what she wants...
sounds like she just wants eh uh eh uh

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Hun just cuz you date a 19 year old that doesnt make it any better than dating a 16/17 year old sometimes. All girls are crazy - just deal with it!

plus youre 19 - too young for a girlfriend. go play the field and do what she did to you. :-)

and you will forget her the second another one comes along. :-) Keep your chin up! and i bet you ill even be saying "wtf was i thinking. she wasnt even that cute" as soon as you meet the next ;-)

[Celica_Fan]

She wasn't even cute she was hidious I don't know what I saw in her. She even played monopoly in the park and she was real random.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well see ur already over it :-P

u live in the land down under and i hear you guys have BEAUTIFUL girls there! so go get em tiger

[Celica_Fan]

Australia is the land down under they have all the beautiful nice single girls not all woman over here in new zealand are sluts most of them are and most of them are all taken. I'm looking for a decent nice girlfriend now one that is easy to talk to and one who is interested in cars I might have to go out this week.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well lets see u got like 5 to choose from on this site! :-P haha!!

now i have that damn song stuck in my head

I COME FROM A (oops 6gc party foul) land down under.

[Celica_Fan]

that song was sung by men at work they are an australian band kiwi music is way better have any of you guys heard of the feelers they are the best kiwi rock band.

[Digndoug]

She wasn't even cute she was hidious I don't know what I saw in her. She even played monopoly in the park and she was real random.
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Do what ya want to get over her, you def need to grow up too.. Age only half way reflects maturaty.. Im only 20 21 in 2 months.. and am more mature than well most people i know.

Also sometimes you'll find random girls are the best. Def when your young. They keep things fun and you learn a lot. Id love to go sit in a park and play a game..

Just dont be in such a hurry to grow up.

[Celica_Fan]

yeah but that chick was 2 bloody random if you ask me I would like to go out with a 18, 19 yo woman not a girl.

[celicaST]

yeah but that chick was 2 bloody random if you ask me I would like to go out with a 18, 19 yo woman not a girl.
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like digndoug said, age really doesnt correlate to maturity. i know plenty of 18,19 year old girls that act like they are 16 and vice versa. and quit insulting her, that is low. you need to realize how your acting and take steps to change it, or this **** is going to keep happening to you.

[soulshadow]

I like older woman better cause there more mature and can be more loving, cause they know that at there age they are either taken, or looking!
Im saying I will only dig at those who are 2-4 years older than me (im 20).
Im a guy who is very childish at times and don't do things unless someone is constantly nagging at me.

Im guessing this girl was your very first??
The first one will always break the heart, but eventually you'lll get it over with. cause you'll see that she isn't the only one out there and if she was she would be yours. Plain and simple. The one meant for you will come someday, just wait and you'll meet her at some very strange places that you wouldn't meet someone.

"Life is hard, we don't know why we were put on earth and although I don't have a future, I'll look for something intresting to do in the mean time" By soulshadow

[Celica_Fan]

Thanks soulshadow that really helped older chicks are better and more mature and have experience in the love department and I got sick of monopoly I let her win I hate monopoly it's boring and she went on the swings thats real mature she wasn't too good at french kissing either im sure she bit my tongue and her teeth hit against mine a few times

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 19, 2005 - 9:48 PM

[1900WattCelica]

Just dont do what this chick did in my neighboring town:

Murder for Hire

(West Bend) West bend police say a 16-year-old tried hiring another student to kill her ex-boyfriend. Police say the girl became furious when she found out her ex was dating one of her friends, that's when she came up with the plan. She offered a 17-year-old boy 300 dollars to kill the other boy, but that student went to police. No charges have been filed yet.


Can you say psycho bitch

[CoSo]

Thanks soulshadow that really helped older chicks are better and more mature and have experience in the love department and I got sick of monopoly I let her win I hate monopoly it's boring and she went on the swings thats real mature she wasn't too good at french kissing either im sure she bit my tongue and her teeth hit against mine a few times
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Don't take this the wrong way, but you don't sound very mature either. Perhaps you should take a step back and read the comments and insults you have posted in this thread (Some are nonsensical and petty). You have demonstrated that perhaps you are not ready for a serious relationship. Perhaps you should consider going out and having fun with girls instead of getting caught up in a serious relationship. Don't get too asshurt by this chick, learn from it and just move on. As you experience more relationships you'll get a better grasp at handling them without being too emotionally distraught if things don't turn out well.

Btw, PMS happens, she won't be the last girl who has it that you'll need to compromise with. Deal with it. Also, it is not necessarily a sign of maturity, either.

[soven]

hey~ Not all girls in New Zealand are sluts . One year and still going strong with my gf.

Don't lose hope... Although I would say that I had a similar mentality a few years ago when I was 16/17.

[Celica_Fan]

I like another girl now she is 18 but she lives in napier which is a 4 hour drive away she is really nice she is a gymnast and is really pretty it is only an hours flight away I have known her for about 5 weeks we are friends at the moment and we may be for a little while longer. She is a nice girl and I like her alot. She seems to like me too.

[celicaST]

Thanks soulshadow that really helped older chicks are better and more mature and have experience in the love department and I got sick of monopoly I let her win I hate monopoly it's boring and she went on the swings thats real mature she wasn't too good at french kissing either im sure she bit my tongue and her teeth hit against mine a few times
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im sorry but this is almost laughable, if i didnt know id say you were 15.

[acenova]

Lets review the facts... You met this girl on the internet, she said she loves you without ever seeing your face, she's 16. Those three alone, are the first no no's in your new book of never ever!!!
First off, NEVER meet a girl online!!! Find a girl by approaching her, date a girl you know, don't ever, EVER date online, especially if you're young enough to date a 16 yr. old!!! Besides man, you try meeting girls online your whole life, at least in America, that constitutes a man with no social life, or doesn't get out enough.
Second, SHE'S 16!!!! I DONT CARE WHAT COUNTRY YOU'RE FROM 16 IS NEVER EVER OLD ENOUGH TO SAY I LOVE YOU AND REALIZE WHAT THE HE'LL SHES SAYING!!! Even if you're with your true someone at 16, and you say I love you all you want, you don't know what it truly means until you're older!
Thirdly, Never do it without seeing her face, she could be some crazed trashy ugly ass, no teeth, gum chewing grandma of a girl!!!

[acenova]

I like another girl now she is 18 but she lives in napier which is a 4 hour drive away she is really nice she is a gymnast and is really pretty it is only an hours flight away I have known her for about 5 weeks we are friends at the moment and we may be for a little while longer. She is a nice girl and I like her alot.  She seems to like me too.
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DOH!!!! YOu met her online again didn't you! STOP IT, YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO BE TRAVELING YOUR COUNTRY FOR LITTLE GIRLS, AND YES 18 IS STILL A LITTLE GIRL! Find someone near you, in person damnit!

[CelicaBuddy]

I think meeting people online is just a bad idea period... You never know what your gonna get yourself into, by messaging, you dont get to see the true side of anybody, cuz the only personaliy you get is a buncha words that dont mean jack s**t. You can never be sure about the person's apearance, even if they send you a pic of themselves... it could still be fake... And plus... You get weird ass f**ks like the girl you got stuck with for a lil bit...

Honestly... Go ito a chatroom, any chatroom and just sit back and watch the conversations go by... Everyone is either desperate to cyber, or saying real f**ked up stuff... I think the internet is a bad way of finding true love... You just dont get to see the real side of the person... And thats real important to see... It lets you know if its meant to be, or if its not...

My advice... Go somewhere where you can actually see the person... Go to places where people your age like to hang out... Meet some people! Get out there!

What do you have over the in New Zealand? You got beaches right? Go to the beach and just say hi to some of the ladies... It wont kill ya, it could possibly start up some conversation... You see some girl looking at ya, smile and wave... ya never know what'll happen! You got clubs down there? Go dancing! Its great way to meet people... You just gotta be more confident in yourself Girls love a guy who is confident in themselves... You dont need cyberspace to help find the one who's right for you... You just got to believe in yourself... Once you believe in yourself and have the confidence, I think you'll be just fine...

Also, getting out there and meeting new people will help you move on from this mistake... Trust me... My first boyfriend, we went out for like 2-3 months... we did nothing... not even kiss... Then I broke it off and I was real sad after that... me and my good friends went out clubbing... I forgot all about my ex... And it made me realize... "Hey... Im much better off without him"

[Celica_Fan]

That chick I chat to on msn is one of my friends I have known her for a while chicks at clubs are sleazy all they want is a one night stand and we don't really have any hot chicks at the beach I have known the chick that I speak to on msn for ages not the bitchy one the nice one. And 18 yo's are classed as adults you can buy alcohol etc

[CoSo]

It doesn't matter if they're classified legally as adults or not. Not all 18+ year olds are mature. You have actually met this chick, right? Just because you've spoken to her for awhile on MSN doesn't make it any better than online dating.

[soven]

The problem is you , not the lack of hot chicks around beaches etc.

[Celica_Fan]

yep I have met her before she came to auckland about 2 weeks ago she is very mature.