How do you show the opposite sex ur interested? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I can never read a guy and whether he is into me or not!

So what do you guys do to show a girl your interested?

[LewFX]

ive never could read a girl..i guess look into someones eyes and if they smile allot, then just ask them out and go from there.

[Coomer]

I tend to smile a lot and get even shyer than normal when I'm around a girl I like.

[Blakout16]

man males are confused about girls and vise versa. just gamble that ish and go from there... like lewfx said lol

[95CelicaST]

I walk up and say "Hey, you hot lets sex"

[x_itchy_b_x]

i def read this thread topic as. How do you have sexual intercourse. yeah....

[Blakout16]

well first u get a twinkle in your eye in pursuit of the hottest thang, then u commence to say "hey, you hot lets sex." as 95celist said. then u........ *ramble* lol and dont even worry about the saying not working - when hasnt it worked?

This post has been edited by Blakout16: Dec 12, 2005 - 3:31 PM

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

Take some Psychology classes. There's tons on little clues and tricks you can use to get interest. It borderlines on manipulation, but the stuff works. Guys and galls use this stuff all the time without knowing what they are doing. Pick up an older Social Psychology book, they'll be cheap if there's a new additicn somewere, and read through it. There is a science to it.

EDIT: Best tip: Get him or her scared. Don't make them scared of you, just get them scared somehow. Feelings of fear of often confused with attraction and love.

This post has been edited by Bigmeanbulldog55: Dec 12, 2005 - 3:42 PM

[Jdog1385]

I flex my bicep, lol. na i just talk to her and show that im interested in what she has to say...usually im not,

[LewFX]

i took pyschology in college and it didnt help me for this topic. It helped me talk to them and listen and give good advise but not know if they interested or not. usually if theres good converstion, the more you feel comfortable, once fully comfortable, one tens to like the other.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

im just confused cuz i like this guy alot and i just dont know if hes truly interested!

i mean if i say i went to the mall he asks with who. not in a mean manner but in a "was it with a boy" type of way! to see if im hanging with other guys! i dont know - maybe hes just asking with who to ask who i was with. i dont know! sigh im confused! haha!

he calls once a day. but i call a lot of my friends once a day!

[Consynx]

ur also a woman, so excessive use of the phone is normal for you
i say if someone's callin you daily you either got em hooked already or they're gay.

[LewFX]

say your going somewhere and invite him, if he goes, he might be interested.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ha we hung out 4 times in a week! so weve already hung out a bit. we were hanging on all his days off.

[95CelicaST]

Then, speaking for the XY's, I would say that means he likes you.

[LewFX]

well he might just like her rack rather than her soul...keep seeing him and get to know him more and hopefully one of you will ask the famous, "do you ever consider me as more than just a friend?"

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

i took pyschology in college and it didnt help me for this topic. It helped me talk to them and listen and give good advise but not know if they interested or not.

I've taken a good bit of Psychology. You kind of have to love it to pick up on everything.

ha we hung out 4 times in a week! so weve already hung out a bit. we were hanging on all his days off.

I'd say to just continue your regular patter and if it's going to happen, it will. I know your not getting any younger and you want things to happen now, but good things come with time and sometimes pressuring things can mess them up. "Just let it flow, man."

[Digndoug]

I tend to smile a lot and get even shyer than normal when I'm around a girl I like.

Id say the same thing.. I prolly smile a lot, and blush i think?.. also just joke a lot around.. do the old sckool and tease her and make fun of her.. seems to work very well. But what do I know.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

He always pushes my arm off the arm rest and is like “don’t try to steal the arm rest” then we end up teasing and wrestling for it!

ok enough about me...more ways you show the girls

[jayi12-15psi]

I just say, "hey would you like to come over and watch a movie?"

then 10 minutes into the movie, I just pull my weiner out.

[Celica_Fan]

Eye contact, teasing them playfully, and compliments chicks love compliments I like a chick at the moment (another one) lol who is into cars so I call her everyday and we talk about cars etc I also try to make her laugh and I don't say anything immature or stupid.

[dstrbcelica]

I just say, "hey would you like to come over and watch a movie?"

then 10 minutes into the movie, I just pull my weiner out.

ya know...that did work once. but nat...just ask him if he wants to hang out with you. what's the worst he could say...no. and if does say no, no big deal. just move on.

-dstrb

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ive met a few guys like u jayi12-15psi - thats why i wont watch a movie with a boy now

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 12, 2005 - 7:21 PM

[jayi12-15psi]

ever listen to dane cook?

Wanna go back to my place and we can watch a movie?
...because everybody loves cinematic adventures.

who has ever said **** that and **** you movies?

[amysmojo]

I tend to smile a lot and get even shyer than normal when I'm around a girl I like.

is that why your so shy around natalie? haha JK!

[95gtschick]

I flex my bicep, lol. na i just talk to her and show that im interested in what she has to say...usually im not,

no that's latino......

[Sh0gunkid8721]

Psychology class??? U learn about neurons and how the brain operates in the first chapter and move on from there. There in no way can u relate a Psych class w/ the opposite sex and dating. if they did relate, dont u think that Psych would be the most popular class in college?

This post has been edited by Sh0gunkid8721: Dec 12, 2005 - 6:58 PM

[FoREpLayAX]

i dont show them im interested, my g/f would kill me.

i agree psychology would give some very good insight, and i dont recall learning about neurons and such in psychology.

[creis]

cant speek for others but I tend to be overly nice, and kind, maybe trip on my words, I tend to try and help out with things, kinda like "Oh, I can help ya with that np" but I'm kinda like that anyway. Probibly be more playful and laugh more.

what I can say for shure is that if a guy is insecure or worried about rejection he will not make the most obvious "moves" for fear of going too far or just subliminaly[sp] worried, its gana be up to you to make em.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

Psychology class??? U learn about neurons and how the brain operates in the first chapter and move on from there. There in no way can u relate a Psych class w/ the opposite sex and dating. if they did relate, dont u think that Psych would be the most popular class in college?

You can't just take Psyc101. I'm a Psychology major, and I've been in the game for awhile. I also have a job in a research lab running tests on people and incoding data. I have a good feel for it now because I've been around it so much. It takes awhile, so it takes forever. It's not going to teach you everything it's just like FoFEpLayAX said, it can give you an insight.

[dustin15brown]

ive never could read a girl..i guess look into someones eyes and if they smile allot, then just ask them out and go from there.

I tend to smile a lot and get even shyer than normal when I'm around a girl I like.

these two mixed together

[Kwanza26]

Some people are just better at reading people than others. I was a psyc major... and am pretty natural at reading people... but I guess some women prefer obvious hints. **HINT** if he's wrasslin you... chances are he likes you.

[Jdog1385]

I flex my bicep, lol. na i just talk to her and show that im interested in what she has to say...usually im not,

no that's latino......

lol, tru.

I just say, "hey would you like to come over and watch a movie?"

then 10 minutes into the movie, I just pull my weiner out.

i just fell on the floor from that comment, hahahaha

This post has been edited by Jdog1385: Dec 12, 2005 - 11:26 PM

[dlx742]

So what do you guys do to show a girl your interested?

I tell her.

shyness kills, so dont be shy

[celiracer]

Yes dlx is right don't be shy. if you like him just let him know, but say it in a slick way just hang out with him and be with him and let it flow. I mean if you two are supposed to happen then letting it flow would work perfectly. just hang out and just flirt with him to let him know that you like him. And if he flirts back with you and stuff then he likes you. So go for it. And do your thing, and let him do his. Things will work out from there

[Dr_Tweak]

I just say, "hey would you like to come over and watch a movie?"

then 10 minutes into the movie, I just pull my weiner out.

LMAO!!!

I was going to make a funny post, but after that, I just can't compete....

[RocketScott]

I drive 30 minutes out of my way to Kirkland just to pretend to look at her car? Buy parts for her car at the junkyard? Just kidding, I do those thinks for regular friends.

The main thing is not to get into a hurry about it. That's usually the mistake I make. I end up falling for someone before I really get to know them well enough. I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to dating though. I go with flowers and fancy dinners over several dates before I make a move. Past girlfriends have said that I waited too long before making the move though. It's a fine line, come on too strong or too quick and you'll drive them away. Don't act soon enough and they'll loose interest. Start doing romantic stuff (not like making out just yet) and see what happens. Go look at Christmas lights or something else that's somewhat intimate, hold hands.

[dlx742]

rocket makes a good point... i have had two girls that came on too strong and we made "whoopy" too soon i think. it made me start to think, "if she is like this with me, i wonder how many other guys she has done this with." but it turned out i was the second guy she had ever been with and the first it took him 1 year to. an the other girl was about the same. it just happened fast and turned me off.

show interest. a lot of interest. if you really like this guy you better let him know it. dont be afraid to ask him out either. times have changed, its more acceptable for the girl to take initiative when the duder isnt able to find his huevos.

but most importantly. just have fun with him. dont make any drama. and it will all work out in the end

[soulshadow]

It also depends on the situation as well. She might like you as a friend cause you hang around with her, and when you do ask her on a date and she declines it just makes you feel pissed off. I had that before and when I asked her out to the movies she decline and that made me real mad and sad. Anyways, after 2 months she was really intrested in me and I'm like Nah..... Screw you, Bitc* you didn't want to go out with me before and now u like me? Forget it I had enough mad heart breakings!

So girls, if you like a guy and the guy seems like there intrested in you please do make signs that you actually like them back and want to go out with them or better yet ask them to help you help them!.

If you just approach a guy and start playing with him and rubbing against him:
1.) He knows your a slut or
2.) He known your a Hoe
3.) You had it before
4.) Your only a 1 night stand girl
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How to tell if the guy is a 1 night stand type, or a go for the Pus** only type:
1.) They dress really nice
2.) They wear cool looking glasses
3.) They talk really sweet
4.) They will approach you if you are dressing like a slut
5.) they tend to smoke
6.) They will jump on you like wolves
7.) The list goes on, but just remeber that good guys will act like gentlemens and they won't even talk to you on your first time meeting them. Those that just wants it will pounce on you till you give it to them or smack the Shi*s out of them.

[Celica_Fan]

Don't hold hands with a girl till you go out with her. Just be friends first and don't rush into things to sudden.

[OrbitalGT95]

jus ask him..are u feeling me or not...dont play games..games are stupid and pointless...

[Sh0gunkid8721]

Just pull a Joey from "Friends"

1) Eye Contact
2) Smile
3) Wink and nod
4) "How youu dooin."

jus ask him..are u feeling me or not...dont play games..games are stupid and pointless...

and i TOTALLY agree.

[95CelicaST]

then 10 minutes into the movie, I just pull my weiner out.

YES

[dlx742]

How to tell if the guy is a 1 night stand type, or a go for the Pus** only type;
1.) They dress really nice
2.) They wear cool looking glasses
3.) They talk really sweet
4.) They will approach you if you are dressing like a slut
5.) they tend to smoke
6.) They will jump on you like wolves
7.) The list goes on, but just remeber that good guys will act like gentlemens and they won't even talk to you on your first time meeting them. Those that just wants it will pounce on you till you give it to them or smack the Shi*s out of them.

.... Not True

[Drocay]

How to tell if the guy is a 1 night stand type, or a go for the Pus** only type;
1.) They dress really nice
2.) They wear cool looking glasses
3.) They talk really sweet
4.) They will approach you if you are dressing like a slut
5.) they tend to smoke
6.) They will jump on you like wolves
7.) The list goes on, but just remeber that good guys will act like gentlemens and they won't even talk to you on your first time meeting them. Those that just wants it will pounce on you till you give it to them or smack the Shi*s out of them.

yea WTF are u talkin bout foo. only part i agree with is good guys will act like gentlemens but wtf u talkin bout with the they won't even talk to you on your first time meeting them( thats just rude)

only warning up there thats true in all cases is 4 and 6.

[latinomasfino]

haha im good at this stuff i gues cause i have a lot of friends that are girls welll ...a guy likes u when

- he looks at u a lot like hell either stare in ur eyes or he will stare then quickly look away
- he smiles a lot
-we call u (this sounds mean but y bother wasting our cell minutes with a girl we dont like )
- we wanna hang out with...guys dont just hang out wiht girls unless they like them or they have hott friends LOL
-we listen to u and like remmber lil things EX: hey how was the movie u went to go see?
ALL these stuff means they like u as in U not jsut how u look
if they like u for how they look well its simple lol they will compliment u a lot damn ur sexy wow ur lips are so delicious etc

[creis]

^ yeah we'll remember stupid things like how you did your hair, what part of the movie you laughted at, or cried, at or got scared and had to have some hand holding action.

1 night stand type, or a go for the Pus** only type;

I hate Hit it Quit it guys, always pisses me off when I her em talking about some girl, makes me feel so sorry for whoever it was that got used and probibly does not even know yet.

actualy to comment on that "may not even talk to you" I'm quite guilty of that, I tend to not like the feeling of rejection, so I do end up just not even saying hi to a girl I dont know because life has tought me that she is just gana ignore me or reject me soon after, saves us the uncomfortable moments. what sux is that even though I want to break out of my old ways it still keeps me.