Turn offs Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

What are your turn offs with the opposite sex?


Heres mine

Bad Teeth
when they cant read my mind or take hints :-P

[zachattack15]

Smoking. Kissing a girl who taste like a cigerette is the most disgusting thing ever.

[DSToyo]

x2 on the smoking!

[cHinaman727]

x3 on smoking. ex did it, was nasty.

girls who are TOO confident. I like a girl that can stand up for herself but not think she runs the world.

cheaters

[x_itchy_b_x]

hairy tongues....

[cHinaman727]

hairy tongues....

wtf?? are you serious? I have never seen a hairy tongue... what kinda chick you been datin? lol

[BlackCelicaGT94]

hairy tongues....

wtf?? are you serious? I have never seen a hairy tongue... what kinda chick you been datin? lol

Hairy tongue (lingua villosa) is a common condition caused by defective desquamation of the filiform papillae that results from a variety of precipitating factors. Some of these factors include poor oral hygiene, being edentulous (because their soft diet does not allow for normal desquamation), chronic or extensive use of antibiotics, and radiation treatments to the head and neck. Patients with hairy tongue are more often than not coffee or tea drinkers and often use tobacco. It is also commonly seen in patients who are HIV positive or use intravenous drugs, although there is no predictive value to the finding of hairy tongue. One would assume that it is the result of shared lifestyle habits such as poor oral hygiene, use of tobacco/marijuana, coffee drinking, etc

[kerosene]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

[Celicav]

hairy tongues....

wtf?? are you serious? I have never seen a hairy tongue... what kinda chick you been datin? lol

Hairy tongue (lingua villosa) is a common condition caused by defective desquamation of the filiform papillae that results from a variety of precipitating factors. Some of these factors include poor oral hygiene, being edentulous (because their soft diet does not allow for normal desquamation), chronic or extensive use of antibiotics, and radiation treatments to the head and neck. Patients with hairy tongue are more often than not coffee or tea drinkers and often use tobacco. It is also commonly seen in patients who are HIV positive or use intravenous drugs, although there is no predictive value to the finding of hairy tongue. One would assume that it is the result of shared lifestyle habits such as poor oral hygiene, use of tobacco/marijuana, coffee drinking, etc

I think I am going to throw up now.

[IntegraSEChick]

that's the most disgusting thing i've seen all day lol

[airfron]

i think that might have ruined my night with the gf

[95CelicaST]

Well I've been out of the whole dating scene for almost 4 years now, but I think my turn offs are

Arrogance
Bad Breath
Poor/Bad/No sence of humor

[dustin15brown]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

X1.6 billion

Also: Lazy or stupid people

[devilsden97]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

X1.6 billion

x1.6billion + 1

ignorance
decent physic. (yeah ill say it. im not shallow, but im not down for getting down with Skelitor)
appreciates fun nights out, as much as nights in
fair maintenence (dont take 48 hours in the bathroom, dont make me blow my whole check going out)

oh and last:

Dont be a bitch.

[Culpable04]

I've been with my GF for 3 years but here is my little list of things that will make a girl to get home early

smoker
hair cut too short ( like you can't even grab it )
too easy
heavy drinkers
no a$$

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ps i like my hairy tongue - i can taste what i had for lunch for hours and hours cuz it gets stuck in the hair!

mmmm!

lol eww i just grossed myself out.

[eggman40]

No sense of Humor! I hate when people have a hard time laughing at jokes, being all serious.

Smokers

girls who talk like "Lil' gangstas" drives me up the wall and through the roof! matter of fact i met one at the gym earlier... she was hot but man her vocabulary was a total and complete turnoff





and finally, didnt even know i was turned off by this, but now thanks to Itchy... Hairy Toungues is officially my biggest turn off. excuse me while i go make my dinner reappear

ps i like my hairy tongue - i can taste what i had for lunch for hours and hours cuz it gets stuck in the hair!

mmmm!

lol eww i just grossed myself out.

LoL thank you for that beautiful description LOL

[massbrandon]

Smokers FTW! Can't stand that. I also will never understand when a girl barely weighs around 100lbs and they think they are obese. That baffles me

This post has been edited by massbrandon: Jul 10, 2007 - 5:50 AM

[kerosene]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

X1.6 billion

Also: Lazy or stupid people

yea, i agree, but i thought it was a given....In my age group all people are lazy and stupid... all they are looking forward to is smoking weed, drinking beer and sex... and take minimum wage jobs so that they have the least amount of responsibilities and work....

[m0dd3d1]

Smokers FTW! Can't stand that. I also will never understand when a girl barely weighs around 100lbs and they think they are obese. That baffles me

Well you're SOL there buddy. It's called being female! Damn I hate that. And attitude.

[playr158]

fat chics....
ones that can't take a joke

strong, confident, fun, and out going chics <<----------FTW

[manolis]

x2 on the smoking!

X4 on the smoking

[brianforster]

girls who cant hold their alcohol (and by hold, i mean by the end of the night they are crying)

[FreddyTheOthaMea...]

Cheating, Lying and ignorance.. but that applies to pretty much everyone

[dustin15brown]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

X1.6 billion

Also: Lazy or stupid people

yea, i agree, but i thought it was a given....In my age group all people are lazy and stupid... all they are looking forward to is smoking weed, drinking beer and sex... and take minimum wage jobs so that they have the least amount of responsibilities and work....

uhhh.... I dont care how old you are.... That's not the general population... I'm pretty sure... Because I'd think that would be my general age group (I'm 19) and there aren't a plethora of those people around, that i know about atleast

[BlackCelicaGT94]

cheaters (been cheated on, and dont want anyone in that position because of me) bad breath, smoking, drama*infinity..... I hate drama, i wont talk to people who cause it...

X1.6 billion

Also: Lazy or stupid people

yea, i agree, but i thought it was a given....In my age group all people are lazy and stupid... all they are looking forward to is smoking weed, drinking beer and sex... and take minimum wage jobs so that they have the least amount of responsibilities and work....

uhhh.... I dont care how old you are.... That's not the general population... I'm pretty sure... Because I'd think that would be my general age group (I'm 19) and there aren't a plethora of those people around, that i know about atleast

Im 22 and never smoked weed, get drunk maybe 3 times a year and have held a full time job since 3 months after I graduated

i understand where ur coming from though. I feel completely different than alot of people I went to HS with cuz it seems a lot of them are doing the party thing and it was never me

[Mynzeyes]

Chlamydia.

[x_itchy_b_x]

Chlamydia.

you win.

[dustin15brown]

Chlamydia.

you win.

ftw john

[Jen]

- Those who have no goals/dreams in their life.
- Jail-birds.
- Bad hygiene!
- HAIRY-ness.
- Smokers.
- Those who drink too much.

This post has been edited by Jen: Jul 10, 2007 - 9:09 PM

[95gtschick]

bad breath

that's the biggest one that sticks out in my mind

[SlowCelica94]

Closed minded girls
Girls who don't like to get ****ed up
those scared of speed
those who think cars are stupid
high-maintance

I like my girls wild if you can't tell.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Stupid Men
Men with mustaches
Men who have skinny legs and a fat stomach i just don't understand that. Either be fat or skinny you can't be both. This goes for girls too. Unproportionateness.
Ugly Teeth
Men who try to tell me what to do
Men who can't take a joke
Egotistical Men

I think that's it.

+1 Jen on the hairiness

[jgreening]

fat chics....
ones that can't take a joke

strong, confident, fun, and out going chics <<----------FTW

Danny, we disagree at times but I have to say that you expressed my thoughts exactly. One other thing I can't stand is women who are just generally bitchy. Either get an attitude or get the F__ away from me.

Besides strong, confident, fun and outgoing, I would add "smart" (quick witted, can carry on an intelligent conversation, etc.) to the prerequisite category.

[CelicaBuddy]

Sloppy, unorganized, messy...
Bad hygiene
Smokes
No sense of humor/cant take a joke
Too sensitive
Short temper/controlling
Long hair


annnnd... there's a few more... but yeah.

This post has been edited by CelicaBuddy: Jul 11, 2007 - 8:27 PM

[IGloo]

Bad breath
Hairyness in wrong places
Stupidity
Ignorance
Lack of interests
Lack of sense of humor


...and PMS in general!


Oh, and btw, I wish I´ve never seen that "bikini-zone" tongue!
It´s the most disgusting thing I´ve seen in a looong time!

Pretty please with sugar on top, no more quotes with that picture!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

hairy tongues....

wtf?? are you serious? I have never seen a hairy tongue... what kinda chick you been datin? lol

Ok I wont quote this anymore

[neKronos]

- HAIRY-ness.

+1 Jen on the hairiness

Yea like what do you mean by that?
Pubic hair comparable to the amazonian jungle? Variations of facial hair?, 70's style hair man body? Back Hair? Ass Hair? Chest Hair in general or perhaps the Boob Patch Chest Hair Pattern?, Happy Trails?

The hairy tongue is a given.

Oh and Yea thanks nat, I thought the visual pain was over while eating my this here pizza.

As for turn offs.
Excessive smoking
Inability to control their alcohol intake which results in them crying and puking
materialism
prima donas
drama queens
too much make up
not being assertive when im being absent minded to the fact you like me
trying to control my life
girls expecting me to be a mind reader, like mel gibson in that one movie
not being them self

thats all that comes to mind right now

[Supersprynt]

Religious
Smokers (won't go near them)
Dishonesty
Hygiene (bad breath, hair)
Poor dress style (lazy/no effort)
Lack of hobby (uninteresting)

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 12, 2007 - 2:54 PM

[root]

Any girl who doesnt understand that I have other women in my life, and that she is just gonna hafta deal with it...........my sexy celica, and the soon to be mine mr2t

[6gcSTVT]

As for turn offs.
-Excessive smoking
-Inability to control their alcohol intake which results in them crying and puking
-materialism
-prima donas
-drama queens
-too much make up

^^^About time someone mentions my Top turn offs....

Add onto that:
-Girls that own little dogs such as chiuahuas and think they are so cute and such even though they are the dumbest and most worthless things ever created by god...well second to flies. I hate flies!
-Girls that don't know anything about a car..example. How to change the oil or a tire!
-Ones that don't have any friends but YOU
-Girls that don't trust, but imo the guy has to do something to be untrustworthy first. it can't be from the get go
-Girls that are afraid of bugs
-Girls that can only drive auto.
-Girls that HAVE to have brand name expensive clothes when a pair of jeans and a T-shirt are just perfect.

Theres probably more....who knows. I'm just glad my gf of 2 years now is none of those...

This post has been edited by 6gcSTVT: Jul 12, 2007 - 7:02 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

As for turn offs.
-Excessive smoking
-Inability to control their alcohol intake which results in them crying and puking
-materialism
-prima donas
-drama queens
-too much make up

^^^About time someone mentions my Top turn offs....

Add onto that:
-Girls that own little dogs such as chiuahuas and think they are so cute and such even though they are the dumbest and most worthless things ever created by god...well second to flies. I hate flies!
-Girls that don't know anything about a car..example. How to change the oil or a tire!
-Ones that don't have any friends but YOU
-Girls that don't trust, but imo the guy has to do something to be untrustworthy first. it can't be from the get go
-Girls that are afraid of bugs
-Girls that can only drive auto.
-Girls that HAVE to have brand name expensive clothes when a pair of jeans and a T-shirt are just perfect.

Theres probably more....who knows. I'm just glad my gf of 2 years now is none of those...

lol thats a pretty good list. I see ur point about little dogs.

I agree with the girls who dont have any friends but you part but its tough. My two friends I grew up with in high school always ditched me for their boyfriends but now that were older and all in relationships we understand eachothers situations and realize that we either spend time with that person or like to be alone and if our schedules all match up to hang out then great but if not were not sitting here saying "ur a poopy friend cuz u dont hang with me" i hate people like that. Its like hello were over the age of 18 im pretty sure we can all understand that life happens. Personally I have a boyfriend who lives 2 hours away so my weekends are spent with him and on weekdays I work 8 - 11 hour days so after work I dont like to do much but chill and if my friends cant accept that i dont really have weekends to hang with them or on weekdays that I have to work alot and dont wanna go out and do something really active and would rather go to a dive bar and get a beer or catch a movie then TOO DAMN BAD! lol

anyways...i just really wanted to say i hate little dogs. Kinda went off in a different direction for a second

[6gcSTVT]

^^^I agree about the friends and the way you describe it. My thought on this mostly comes from my brothers gf. My brothers girl has told me she has no life besides him and that she has no friends bc shes a bitch and doesn't like people in general. They have been going out for over 2 years now... and i talked some sense into him this past spring and he's just started hanging out with his friends again bc he spent all his time with just her. I could go on forever about this girl...

-Also, dynamite hack remix on the sig eh?

This post has been edited by 6gcSTVT: Jul 12, 2007 - 8:17 PM

[SlowCelica94]

What wrong with small dogs?

I have a 2.8 year old long-hairedd mini dauchson, and he's a chick getter. Not tot mention a loyal companion.

[IGloo]

What wrong with small dogs?

I have a 2.8 year old long-hairedd mini dauchson, and he's a chick getter. Not tot mention a loyal companion.

Try getting a Samoyed...believe me, I´ve never had to see as many cleavages as I did for the past couple of years...that "Oh, you´re so handsome..." routine knocks me out every time...literally!

[Celica_94]

CHEATERS! Dealt with that crap way to much. Also, drug addicts.

When you walk into your girlfriends room and she is trying to grow pot in her closet.....good sign to dump her!

[cjh4l22]

What wrong with small dogs?

I have a 2.8 year old long-hairedd mini dauchson, and he's a chick getter. Not tot mention a loyal companion.

haha dauchson are badass!! my neighbor has 2. and yea i have a 3y.o. shi-tzu/poodle yes yes also know as a shi-tzapoo lol and lemme tell u, my g/f has nicknamed him her 2nd bf b/c he too is a chick getter. :thumbs up:

[Supersprynt]

When you walk into your girlfriends room and she is trying to grow pot in her closet.....good sign to dump her!

[DSToyo]

-Also, dynamite hack remix on the sig eh?

I believe it was originally N.W.A lol

[devilsden97]

this thread has been good for a couple of laughs.

ill add some more:

chicks that lead u on, and really just want attention

chicks that lie, seriously be honest...im gonna find out u lied and feel like crap, so y not be up front and save me the "**** im an idiot" complex.

chicks who spent more of DADDY'S money in a 24hour period then they have of there own, in there entire life.

I know like 46 people said "someone that can take a joke" but im gonna say it again,, humor breaks the ice, and makes EVERYONE comfortable. Unless your a FUN NAZI and dont believe fun should exist.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I totally agree on the little dog thing.
My dog will eat your dog for a snack.

- HAIRY-ness.

+1 Jen on the hairiness

Yea like what do you mean by that?
Pubic hair comparable to the amazonian jungle? Variations of facial hair?, 70's style hair man body? Back Hair? Ass Hair? Chest Hair in general or perhaps the Boob Patch Chest Hair Pattern?, Happy Trails?

Hairy... like really hairy arms, chest legs back ass ugh im getting so grossed out.

basically my boyfriend is perfect.
and he doesn't get mad at me for things like taking an hour to get ready.
and that's another thing i hate when guys bitch and moan that you take an hour to get ready. It takes me an hour to get ready and look nice, if i did not take an hour you would complain that i look like a slob.
and i hate girls who look like slobs. Don't give me that "i'm natural" **** your not natural your a slob put some mascara on and shut the **** up.

so to make this short i basically hate everyone? yes.

[Supersprynt]

chicks that lie

Way to many do this.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 13, 2007 - 12:52 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

chicks that lie

Way to many do this.

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

[6gcSTVT]

When you walk into your girlfriends room and she is trying to grow pot in her closet.....good sign to dump her!

Or roll a fatty and smoke with her Or have her buy you parts for the celi

ALSO....It takes my gf 20 mins to get ready, not an hour and shes beautiful without make up in general (in my eyes). So yeah some girls DO need make up, maybe some are slow at putting it on, and some like to cover their pretty faces with unnecessary colors and highlights...maybe they just don't realize that they are pretty without a pound of crap.

EDIT: Guys and girls lie..... we've all done it. Eventually we grow up and don't lie anymore because honesty is the ONLY way to go and if you have to lie to your significant other then somethings not right

This post has been edited by 6gcSTVT: Jul 13, 2007 - 1:03 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

chicks that lie

Way to many do this.

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

a-****ing-men

guys lie and CHEAT just as much as, if not MORE than girls do.

When you walk into your girlfriends room and she is trying to grow pot in her closet.....good sign to dump her!

Or roll a fatty and smoke with her Or have her buy you parts for the celi

ALSO....It takes my gf 20 mins to get ready, not an hour and shes beautiful without make up in general (in my eyes). So yeah some girls DO need make up, maybe some are slow at putting it on, and some like to cover their pretty faces with unnecessary colors and highlights...maybe they just don't realize that they are pretty without a pound of crap.

EDIT: Guys and girls lie..... we've all done it. Eventually we grow up and don't lie anymore because honesty is the ONLY way to go and if you have to lie to your significant other then somethings not right

well I NEED make up. so there.

i hate when guys say things about how unnecessary make up is.

all those magazine models you drool over have TONS of make up on, but in that sense it's okay. But i cant take an hour to get ready because i think my boyfriend is that special and worth it that i look good for him.

and for the record is is NOT crap. It's fantastic.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 13, 2007 - 1:19 PM

[x_itchy_b_x]

less makeup = more intimate because the "mask" is off.
not saying makeup isnt attractive though.

[Culpable04]

I guess everything has its time, like when I see girl in college at 8 30 AM full of make-up and high heels just for the biology class on a monday it doens't look nice, but a girl on friday night with high heels nice outfit and make up, she gets a drink on my name ( given that the girl is also decent looking )

[Supersprynt]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

[devilsden97]

I guess everything has its time, like when I see girl in college at 8 30 AM full of make-up and high heels just for the biology class on a monday it doens't look nice, but a girl on friday night with high heels nice outfit and make up, she gets a drink on my name ( given that the girl is also decent looking )

****ing casanova over here.. lol

+1 Stevenson

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

no way

Guy "shes just a friend"
real truth - yeah i flirt with her and id do her

girls "hes just a friend"
real truth - ewww hes just a friend. he may want me but i dont want him.

[Supersprynt]

LOL what? You do realize that most all girls that guys consider "friends" are simply there because the girl doesn't want anything more.

So what you said is probably true. That he flirts with her and he'd do her. Doesn't mean he is. So theres really no lie there.

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 13, 2007 - 2:53 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

And you are basing this one what? Your own experience? I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything. Honesty is key in relationships IMO.

a lie is a lie, period. You are either telling the truth or you aren't. It really is that simple... there is no difference in a lie based on who told it. That's asinine to even think that.

edit: i'm sorry this topic got so out of hand Nat.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 13, 2007 - 4:49 PM

[96bluevert]

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

True! It's not that most guys don't trust thier gf when they are around other guys. It that guys know what others guys are thinking, so we just don't trust the guys our gfs are hanging out with.

Now, to get on topic..
-girls that complain about something and arn't willing to do anything about it.
-girls that drink alot or do drugs
-girls that can't appreciate my interest in cars
-materialistic girls
-already been mentioned, but girls that can't take a joke

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

And you are basing this one what? Your own experience? I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything. Honesty is key in relationships IMO.

a lie is a lie, period. You are either telling the truth or you aren't. It really is that simple... there is no difference in a lie based on who told it. That's asinine to even think that.

edit: i'm sorry this topic got so out of hand Nat.

lol its not out of hand yet Tina. :-P

I dont lie to my boyfriend either. He gets the full truth - i dont hold anything back. Thats what I expect. Dont dance around little things just give me the 110 percent truth of everything.

[Supersprynt]

At the sake of avoiding a topic closure I'll just say that I made that all up for this topic only.

[Jen]

After a few nights ago, I have to add a few..

- Boys that break-up with me via MySpace.
- Bad hair, omg.
- No job/no money/no car.
- Snoring.

I've become an outspoken, major bitch, and I haven't found a guy yet who can handle me.

This post has been edited by Jen: Jul 13, 2007 - 11:25 PM

[devilsden97]

Girls who cant drive. (not saying women/girls cant drive. Some are just poor drivers..just like some men/boys)

like, they follow WAY to close, or are HARDLY doing the speed limit. or are just so "whocares" that u seriously are playing russian roullet everytime u get into a car with them.

[SlowCelica94]

After a few nights ago, I have to add a few..

- Boys that break-up with me via MySpace.
- Bad hair, omg.
- No job/no money/no car.
- Snoring.

I've become an outspoken, major bitch, and I haven't found a guy yet who can handle me.

Well.....I think we can all solve this mystery

[Celica_94]

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

True! It's not that most guys don't trust thier gf when they are around other guys. It that guys know what others guys are thinking, so we just don't trust the guys our gfs are hanging out with.

Now, to get on topic..
-girls that complain about something and arn't willing to do anything about it.
-girls that drink alot or do drugs
-girls that can't appreciate my interest in cars
-materialistic girls
-already been mentioned, but girls that can't take a joke

Yep!!!! I actually had a girl break up with me because I didn't trust her with them (because of their intentions).
The day after she dumped me, the other dude tried to move in on her. She told him off, and came back to me but I told her to go to hell. Stupid girls and telling guys they don't know the intentions of guys.

[Batman722]

turn offs ?

girls that aren't crazy

giggity giggity

[forkee]

chicks with really bad accents, if i cant understand what your saying or tolerate how you're saying it i just want to punch you. i just cant understand people who have lived here all their life and cannot speak proper english. it just makes them seem dumb, even though that may not be the case.

smoking or drug abuse of any kind

no concept of time aka being late

chicks that have the silent "O"

chicks with kids....

[yarik83]

I have not worked out order of importance but here is goes:
-gals who exagerate about everything and all the time
-gals who have short hair
-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.
-gals who dont let you have your personal time. (I like you but i dont want to spend 100 percent of my time with you).. (dont call me at work unless its emergency.. dont talk to me about what your best friend jen heard karen talking about bob's relationship with tina)
-gals who reach in your wallet like its a botomless barrel.
-gals who say "he is my boyfriend" in the squeeky italian sinus/stuffy nose voice
-gals who dont understand your interests in certain things.
-gals who say I duno.. what do you wanna do
=gals who drink and smoke cause they think its cool
-gals who call their mother every day 5 times per hour talking about mine and her;s relationship.
-gals who qualify in one of the following categoris:
-say ohh my gosh and like like like like like
-say im gonna be sick and ewww and Ill never do this its gross
-say that they get queezy on anything from rides to water sports
-gals who CHECK if you are cheating like if they have obsessive compulsive disorder.

-reasons why I had to break up with gals over the years
-bush down unda
-excessive tattoos and piercings
-checking if i cheat
-spending my money like if I was bill gates
-talk crap about my likings to computers/video games/my hobbies
-start bringing you down by being in a relationship just because.
-say "im not ready yet" or "lets wait" 6 months into relationship

best thing I did in last 9 years was become a bachelor again. viva la freedom

things that I do nowadays: (and it might sound egoistic but neccessary)
-split if no sex in under 2 weeks 1 month max
-not spend 20 bucks per day to impress her
-lay out all my cards up front saying who I am and what I do and what my interest and time layout is.
-look at who she is and what she is all about from a perspective of a critic and not horny 24 year old which I am.
-push for testing before she opens her mouth about it
-have girl friends who do some backstage investigating on her previous relationship.
-take everything she says... remember and respont to questions and divide everything she says by a half and then some.

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

This post has been edited by yarik83: Jul 15, 2007 - 4:49 AM

[IGloo]

-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.

OMFG!!!

At least the garden dwarves didn´t attack you for tresspassing!

DAMN!!!

I´m laughing my ass off!!!



This post has been edited by IGloo: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:21 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I have not worked out order of importance but here is goes:
-gals who exagerate about everything and all the time
-gals who have short hair
-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.
-gals who dont let you have your personal time. (I like you but i dont want to spend 100 percent of my time with you).. (dont call me at work unless its emergency.. dont talk to me about what your best friend jen heard karen talking about bob's relationship with tina)
-gals who reach in your wallet like its a botomless barrel.
-gals who say "he is my boyfriend" in the squeeky italian sinus/stuffy nose voice
-gals who dont understand your interests in certain things.
-gals who say I duno.. what do you wanna do
=gals who drink and smoke cause they think its cool
-gals who call their mother every day 5 times per hour talking about mine and her;s relationship.
-gals who qualify in one of the following categoris:
-say ohh my gosh and like like like like like
-say im gonna be sick and ewww and Ill never do this its gross
-say that they get queezy on anything from rides to water sports
-gals who CHECK if you are cheating like if they have obsessive compulsive disorder.

-reasons why I had to break up with gals over the years
-bush down unda
-excessive tattoos and piercings
-checking if i cheat
-spending my money like if I was bill gates
-talk crap about my likings to computers/video games/my hobbies
-start bringing you down by being in a relationship just because.
-say "im not ready yet" or "lets wait" 6 months into relationship

best thing I did in last 9 years was become a bachelor again. viva la freedom

things that I do nowadays: (and it might sound egoistic but neccessary)
-split if no sex in under 2 weeks 1 month max
-not spend 20 bucks per day to impress her
-lay out all my cards up front saying who I am and what I do and what my interest and time layout is.
-look at who she is and what she is all about from a perspective of a critic and not horny 24 year old which I am.
-push for testing before she opens her mouth about it
-have girl friends who do some backstage investigating on her previous relationship.
-take everything she says... remember and respont to questions and divide everything she says by a half and then some.

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

and you sound like a total jackass.

basically you should just go find a prostitute because what you are looking for is not a girlfriend and i would also advise maturing before you even think of having a relationship.

[Supersprynt]

He's a jackass because he's picky and has opinions on things? Makes no sense to me.

I guess the requirements of being a girlfriend involve all of which he has itemized? Doubtful.

I agree with most all of what he said. You can still respect women and say get the BS out of the way.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:00 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

no i think he's a jackass because of his last statement

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

maybe i'm reading this wrong?

the rest of his itemized list are his own preferences i didn't say anything about that.

other than push for testing... wtf is that if you are dating skanky girls who have stds you should rethink what you're really looking for in a relationship.

to me it sounds like all he wants is sex with no strings attached which is why i said a prostitute is a better way to go for him.

i also don't think you should let past relationship have anything to do with a new/current one.

that's where i think a lot of people go wrong. Just because your last girlfriend or boyfriend was a lying cheating son of a bitch doesn't mean every other person you date thereafter will be of the same character.

I really don't think you can categorize everyone into one group. Girls are this and Guys are that. No two people are exactly the same.
Perhaps it's the type of guy/girl or your standards that attribute to poor relationships.


this is all my own opinion. i just think it's a little rude that's all.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:47 AM

[Supersprynt]

to me it sounds like all he wants is sex with no strings attached which is why i said a prostitute is a better way to go for him.

i also don't think you should let past relationship have anything to do with a new/current one.

that's where i think a lot of people go wrong. Just because your last girlfriend or boyfriend was a lying cheating son of a bitch doesn't mean every other person you date thereafter will be of the same character.

I really don't think you can categorize everyone into one group. Girls are this and Guys are that. No two people are exactly the same.
Perhaps it's the type of guy/girl or your standards that attribute to poor relationships.

this is all my own opinion. i just think it's a little rude that's all.

It's impossible not to let past relationships shape your current or future ones. The reason most early ones fail and later ones succeed is the lessons learned. So forgetting everything you've learned from the past and being naive all over again is ignorant. Should you assume this person is like the last? No, but the lesson learned is that everyones capable of that. Everyones human, and the Id is often stronger than the Ego.

Rude is burping at the dinner table, or cutting someone off in the middle of conversation or being cursing in public, not holding the door open for someone. Here in a forum, stating your opinions in a form that asks for them, isn't rude. If your being offended then your taking it to personally. He's not talking about you, he's talking about all the girls he has known.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:35 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Erik- i didn't ask you to define the word rude to me. I am aware of what it means and in MY OPINION what he said is rude. Rude does not have to be an ACTION.

I understand learning from past relationship I never said we should forget they happened and get hurt again.

What I was saying relates to the statement i made bold. He said he acts this way or feels this way as a result of bitter past relationships. I PERSONALLY think that people should not let past relationship affect current ones so much that they change how you perceive the opposite sex. Sorry if i didn't make that clear in my last post.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:48 PM

[Supersprynt]

Everything is an action. The act of typing something on the internet for the express purpose if inadvertently insulting strangers.

If 100 men hurt you and your dating 101 don't you think in the back of your mind your thinking, this dude's gonna hurt me? It's inevitable.

To add to turn offs: Unappealing car. If a girl is driving a Chevy Corsica, sorry I g2g.
Oh and bratty girls. I hate girls that expect you to pay for everything and think they're a gift from the gods. Get over yourself.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 2:19 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

you are impossible to even talk to because you have to twist everything i say to get the last word in.

You know exactly what I was saying previously and I don't think i can make my opinion any more clear then i already have.

If 100 men hurt me and I'm on to 101 then i obviously did not learn my lesson from my past 100 relationships so you basically negated what you said previously.

Maybe I don't understand you logic because of my own experiences. I have been cheated on. I was used and treated very unfairly in a past relationship. I learned from it. I did not bring my "baggage" and feeling toward my ex to my current relationship.
my ex was a cheating lying bastard. my boyfriend now isn't and i trust him. I did not enter my relationship now saying oh man remember the last guy this guy must cheat and lie to i better be careful.

I personally don't think that's any way to live ones life.

you are so antagonistic



This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 2:20 PM

[lagos]

turn offs:

girls who have a male best friend.
girls that just turned 21 and are really into the bar scene.
girls who take pictures of themselves through the day (everyday) and later post it on myspace.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Heres my turnoffs

1. guys friends with their exs. EX IS AN EX - move on.
2. guys who arent caring and dont make note that like i have a doc appt and then later ask how it went.
3. guys who think getting really really trashed is an ok thing to do - not attractive.
4. guys who wear emo jeans - uhh no thanks
5. guys who lie to me at all. Dont lie to me about stupid crap like "oh yeah i told my mom u said hi" and hten later I find out you didnt. Its just dumb and rediculous.
6. Guys who dont think holidays are a big deal - fine if u dont think so but hello im a girl and i do!

[Supersprynt]

If 100 men hurt me and I'm on to 101 then i obviously did not learn my lesson from my past 100 relationships so you basically negated what you said previously.

This was an example. It's easier to understand concepts when they are exaggerated, as oppose to say 2 or 3 guys. Same thing applies, its just easier to see if its a greater number. It wasn't meant to be taken literally.

Its a forum, theres no last word. I am simply replying. Antagonistic, of course. I do try my hardest. I'm a challenge. I always challenge people in what they say because they should always know how to back it up; even if I don't disagree with them. This isn't anything new, and its not something bad, just a little annoying.


Girls who don't like cars in general
Girls who don't stand up for themselves.
Girls who are stupid. (IE don't know anything interesting about anything.)

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 2:38 PM

[Borghe]

turn off:

- Stupid Girl

simple and easy!

[yarik83]

ok ok let me explain myself.

When a girl is getting into a relationship she assumes the fact that whoever she is committing to is priviledged with her presence. In many cases that is true.. in many cases it is not. In either case its built into female genes to do the following: be family oriented. You do not care about sex in ways men do, you do not care for things you find irrational from your perspective, you also do not look at a relationship from a guy perspective.

When a guy commits to a relationship he has one thing on his mind. Unless he is suffering from an illness, unless he is deformed, unless he is mentally retarded VERY first thing he expects is SEX. Yes that pesky little thing that satisfies his desire. He could be skinny, fat, greedy, generous, rich, poor and regardless of the race every self respecting male wants sex. When we get into a relationship thats a thing that we expect. We expect it now and preferably every day at 11 in the morning, 9 at night and then some in between on a lunch break. We do not want to marry a chick because one day we wake up and go ooooo oooo I want to marry her. We marry a chick because if we dont she will get all pissy and make a scene and everyone on her mothers side will hate you. And when we do propose first thing you do is stick your hand out to all your lady friends and advertise how much money your man spent on that ring. You shine ear to ear, have a honey moon then after 4.5 years into marriage it hits you that you married a guy just to be in a relationship and 4.5 years into a relationship your guy starts checking out other girls involuntarily.

So when I am saying that I have expectations I expect that If I provide my lady with a pretty good financial backup, pay her bills, help out her parents, buy a house, buy cars, pay for kids education and yada yada yada I would love to come home and pew pew the living brains out of my wife. Yes women are people too but in many cases (not all) your wife is not a doctor or a lawyer or a financial investor or a celebrity.. instead there are kids, childbirth, pregnancy, raising kids, kindergarden, after school, families over, trips to places among other things that generally imply that majority of income in a relationship comes from the guy's side.

Have I been married? No. Do I plan to have kids and get married? yes.

Have I had girlfriends? Yes on and off.. every kind from a book smart to a bisexual and it was always one of the following:
-perfect girl, smart beautiful, little sex
-so so girl, silly and pissing you off... lots of sex
-down the middle chickie chickie.... you are not in a relationship with her.. you are in a relationship with her mother and everyone else she talks to because her decisions are not of her own.

So please tell me how can I not be bitter when time after time after time and not just me but many people I know.. a relationship is like running on the tippy toes on a long razor blade. To the left is a lake with poo to the right is a lake with lava.. and blade hurts your feet along the way.. so no matter where you go from there its always grrr grrrrr grrrrr

[Supersprynt]

Cliffs?

[IntegraSEChick]

I agree with the girls who dont have any friends but you part but its tough. My two friends I grew up with in high school always ditched me for their boyfriends but now that were older and all in relationships we understand eachothers situations and realize that we either spend time with that person or like to be alone and if our schedules all match up to hang out then great but if not were not sitting here saying "ur a poopy friend cuz u dont hang with me" i hate people like that. Its like hello were over the age of 18 im pretty sure we can all understand that life happens. Personally I have a boyfriend who lives 2 hours away so my weekends are spent with him and on weekdays I work 8 - 11 hour days so after work I dont like to do much but chill and if my friends cant accept that i dont really have weekends to hang with them or on weekdays that I have to work alot and dont wanna go out and do something really active and would rather go to a dive bar and get a beer or catch a movie then TOO DAMN BAD! lol

anyways...i just really wanted to say i hate little dogs. Kinda went off in a different direction for a second

kinda harsh coming from someone who once said they didn't want to be the "person who ditches their friends when they get in a relationship"

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I started to write a whole response to this, but then i realized where I am and that the majority of the members on this forum will agree with you because IMO your maturity level isn't at a point where you can handle a REAL relationship.

I will say though that you shouldnt say things like all women are the same. We aren't beleive me i am NOTHING like whatever it is you are trying to describe.

Good luck finding some worthless woman who will lie on her back for you. You're never going to be satisfied because youre priorities are ****ed up.



Erik- I know. You are a royal PITA.

I think perhaps I'll stay off the boards for a while.

[Supersprynt]

Who are u addressing?

[uberschall]

a-a-a-and one more shot at steering us back to topic:

my compendium of gargantuan turn-offs:

-smoking
-girls that wear waaaaaayyyy too much makeup
-girls that bite their nails, chew or twirl their hair, or chomp their gum
-girls that can't see and appreciate an honest effort even if it doesn't turn out right
-girls that compare you to previous boyfriends
-the compulsive need to buy useless s**t just because it's on sale
-telling me how to wear my hair, etc
-the ever-mysterious "going out dancing" thing that can under no circumstances include me
-girls that want to pick their own engagement ring
-girls that talk about wanting kids waaaaayy before it's even remotely appropriate
-girls that have a creepy "stricly platonic" male friend who never seems to go away
-girls that only want you around to keep away their psycho exes
-the seeming lack of emotional independence that manifests itself as the inability to make decisions alone, irresponsibility with money, and excessive drama
-girls that wake you up at 2 in the morning to say they want to go out to breakfast after sex
-confrontational tendencies
-girls who call themselves b**ches
-girls that don't know how to dress or behave their age/body type
-girls that can't ride a bike, sleep in a tent, drink coffee or beer, or enjoy a good sunset
-lactose intolerance and/or other ridiculous food allergies
-lack of culture
-general rudeness

yes, i spent a LONG time on that. there are probably more, too.

whew.

[yarik83]

she was talking to me and addressing my reply. well 2 of my replies.

Where she is having a difficulty is right at the point of where she stands in life. Being young and all places Tina and me in different boats. I seen Tina in person during our NY meet she seemed like a sweet and funny outgoing person. However what I am getting at is not easy to understand from a girls perspective.

I am not a "boyfriend" because of my finanical income I am a head of household. There is a very big difference between a boyfriend and a person with money. Boyfriends often live separately, meet you several times per week.. a head of household is a person you wake up next to and live together with and have him as financial backup.

Unlike many people here I was not born in USA, although I am a citizen.. I was not born to a family who payed for all my expenses and let me live with them till I was 24. I was not born to a family in which my biological parents and my relatives on one page. As a matter of fact most of my family requires some serious psychiatric evaluation on my mothers side and my fathers side. I have not seen my father for over 15 years, I have not had a father figure for 20 years. I do have a step father who does not respect me in ways a father would. I left my parents at age of 15 not speaking a word of english. I lived in a junkyard car for a year and worked on 3 job while finishing high school. I was also involved in 3 jobs throughout my college and every single job I had.. and I had over 30 jobs over the years. I had not received help paying for school nor any financial help.. so......

When I seeked female companionship I found it in every shape and form between ages 15 and 24. And to my demise there was never a win win situation.

A girl dreams of a guy arriving on a white horse, resquing her and yada yada they lived happily ever after. In my life.. as in many other guys lives we get into a relationship and it often sucks. Quite often we get this money suckling not having any sence lady who meets our sexual needs or we get this mrs perfect kiss me on the cheek every other wednesday mrs smarty pants.

I am a bitter person because of how my past relationships worked out. They all sucked. Now I take a more direct approach and remain a bachelor. Its easier that way. Also more economical. By not having a "girlfriend" I save about 200+++++ every month. No gifts, no going out and paying for dinner, no flowers, no covering someone else's tab, no money missing from my wallet and no problems at all.

So what I do do is go out.. meet chicks.. make a trip to walgreens woot woot go home and sleep like a baby with all bases covered for the day.

This post has been edited by yarik83: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:03 PM

[yarik83]

I had to add this. I could not sleep because I had this on my mind and well I think its neccesary to elaborate on relationships.

A relationship is a type of human interaction in which 2 people take their friendship to intimate levels.

In a man-female relationship a boyfriend represents the "other half" so to speak, so does the lady. In a tipycal relationship between people of ages 12-25 it is not uncommon that a pair does not live together nor shares bills. In many cases each lives with parents and or roommates but away from each other. What that provides is a safety cushion between the two.. a little space of their own.. something of a refuge from each other in which if needed they could alienate themselves to think things through and come back to a relationship the day after a big fight and make up like nothing happened pver a cup of starbucks coffe and a donut from au bon pain.

Then there is a relationship in which the two live with each other under the same roof as if they were a married couple. There are often bills involved, insurance policies and other finanical ties that bond the two without actual certificate of marriage. In this particular type of relationship two people live together, sleep together in the same bed, do their thing together, come back home and yada yada. Somewhere in that particular relationship little things start to add up. You may live in a perfectly harmonius relationship but little things really tick you off, such as her toothbrush always in the way or lady items right next to your folgers coffee or her misplacing keys or living a towel a bit to the right. Essentially it trickles somewhere deep inside your brain that you need to air your feelings out.. but you dont and when you do get into a fight you have no escape. Both of you live together often away from family and friends and its not like you can walk outside and sleep over at your friends house. She sends him on a couch.. he says things he should not say. She comes back with a whitty remark that sends him off the edge such as his habbit of saying ummm in between phrases. So he comes back and starts airing out every little thing. 3 days later there is dead silence in the house with both of you looking at the kitchen knives and a hanging frying pan and wondering how cool would it be to end it there and now. Eventually you work it out.. but before you do you spend 3 days sleeping in same bed with backs to each other, make weird sounds and give dirty looks as you pass each other in the hallway... when you do make up its not the same as if you were living separately. Your fight has embedded itself on your relationship and is like a cup of tar in a barrel of honey and every fight there after will only escalade cause you start fighting over really stupid things such as her buying a tic tac thing at the register. And there is no escape. There you sre back in your apartment or house punting at each other and knowing that you can not break up just like that because you have join bills and that he or she is really not that bad but you really hate them 3 hours of the day 7 days per week. You go to your folks house for a dinner and pretend like you are having a blast living together and being a couple when in fact under the table you feel her stepping on your toe to make you tell lies at the table. You go home at it still lingers. You are not married but after living together for 2 years it feels like you are. Then and there you know what relationship is all about.

What Tina addressed as immaturity is a common misconseption and a very understandable one. Immaturity is a relative term and applies to any kind of situation. For example I could say that my mother is immature for not listening to people's advice.. but yet she is 45 with 3 kids.. so where does that place her on the scale? My old neighbor was really versed in mathematics but he was only 10.. does that make him immature because he is underaged or overly mature because he is a scientific phenomenon?

Only way to finalize my post is to remind that readiness of being in a relationship and actually being in one represent 2 aspects of what relationship is all about. That little thing where 2 people kinda date and see each other casually does not even come close to people who are basically confined within boundaries of their house, finances and better half.

I hope this should cover any further questions.

[IGloo]

Well, actually, I have a couple of questions...

1. I simply resent the fact that most of the facts you use to back up your claims are in some relation connected to "money"...WTF is that all about?

2. Speaking from a point of a 31 years old man (damn, this sounds awkward ), who is in a relationship for almost 5 years, I must tell you that from my point of view, you´re wrong! So, as ILuvMyCelica95 explained very well (and I agree), the maturity level at a certain age really IS an issue to be dealt with. Don´t you agree?

3. (OK, this is not a question )
I´ve also had some 10-or so relationships from my earlier years up until now, but I would be a complete moron to say that they sucked (otherwise, why was I involved in all of those relationships)...
Those relationships were simply functioning along within the borders set by my age and expeirence (yes, ofcourse that sex is the most important thing on a boy´s mind when the boy is in puberty ).
Naturally, they all broke simply because one evolves further, whilst the other remains at a current level! Believe me, that is perfectly natural, and if you think that "picking a tab" or something as trivial as that has anything to do with your break-ups so far, you´re again dead wrong!

4. When did this thread derail from a simple and funny RL thoughts about turn-offs, to a "Dr. Phil" sort of bullsXXt material that sucks?



Can´t we all just get along?

[yarik83]

To answer your questions I would like to mainly concentrate on financial ties. I am not sure how things are in Croatia, but in usa the concept of living together does not just imply living together. In usa you need medical insurance, then you need car insurance, then you have bills to pay for including tv, internet, phone, you have other things to worry about as well such as buying essentials for life and more expensive stuff such as furtniture and electronics. So somewhere down the road you stop and think. How am I to pay for it all? In america there are 2 options to get money. One involves taking out a loan from a bank and second one involves saving for years and years. So basically with loans behind you for things like college, furniture, car payments etc etc. It all piles up into the wonderful thing you call adult life. Its also fun and games if you are managing credit card bills and other bills for yourself rather than for 2 people. You are not married but yet you often find yourself having to pay for 2 people. Yes there are 2 incomes but for 2 young people thats often not enough.. so what happens is that you start catching yourself adding the "little things" for example your phone bill starts getting bigger and since no self respecting parent would pay for a cellphone bill of their child who is grown up and lives with a partner you start combining things. You get a shared plan for both of you. Then there are other things like neccesity for tv and internet among other things. Then college bills and med insurance bills to cover... then something else. So you find your paycheck cut from x to x-14% (for government taxes)-75%(bills)-rest of it is left on you. Then you realise that your love'd one's income does not cover tuition all too well and frankly it does not cover many things because her hopes of being a non profit what you may call it.. dont work out too well. So you start paying for that.. then you buy 2 cars and pay for that and insurance then you definetly need a bed, a tv, chairs, a table, silverware, kitchen appliances, towels, toilet paper etc etc etc. And somewhere down the road you catch yourself thinking,, why am I under 24 and have bills that of a married 30 year old? So financial side is always there. If you and your girlfriend/boyfriend havent gone through that yet... ohh trust me you will. It hits you like a truck and if you dont pay there are consiquences.

To answer your question about maturity. I never had the opportunity to have a unconditional girlfriend whereby I have nothing to worry about. I never did. I skipped all that and moved straight on to adult life because when you live in a different country on your own that is something that you do. And eventually female compationship that you do encounter starts showing up at your place more than once per week, then she kinda sleeps over a few times, then she kinda moves in then you kinda start sharing bills then she kinda gets comfortable living not paying rent and start using your credit card. Then you ask her for money to help pay for things.. she gets either pissy about it or accepts it.. and in either case you are either not having enough money to keep up with consumeristic tendencies of your other half or just holding on to your pants and hoping there will be no extra bills to pay. Living in america is har for a young adult, its especially hard for young adults who get no help.
Before I run off to work here is a perfect example about some of my past experiences. You walk into a store to buy tooilet paper. 3 mins later you come out with toilet paper.
You send your lady there and she comes out 45 mins later with toilet paper, socks, slippers, sun glasses, a plant, pillow cases, a loveseat rug, completely forgets toilet paper but buys laundry detergent and grabs a magazine on her way out.

-same thing applies to running phone bills up or backing up into an old ladys car, leaving her info (because old lady was not there)and calling cops so that your insurance skyrockets. Just to name a few.

This post has been edited by yarik83: Jul 17, 2007 - 6:00 AM

[IGloo]

Well...FYI, if I had the chance, I´d come to USA in a flash!
The economy is better, the lifestyle is hard work-little play, but I can handle that with no problem!
Also, the money that you earn (doing what I do over here as a chief graphic designer for the biggest newspaper agency in Croatia) is about 10 or more times more than what I earn in a month (about 600 Euro to be precise), and with that salary I cannot imagine buying myself a car that is less than 10 years old, so a place to live is about equal to science fiction! I´m currently planing to buy an appartment on a 30 year payment basis, in which the single month costs me about half of my paycheck!

For example; to do something as trivial as registering/insuring my car for one measely year, you have to part with more than 300 Euro (which is half my monthly sallary)!
Get the picture?

The economy itself is more corrupt than America in the prohibition times, so needless to say, only criminals and crooks have money here...while the rest of us live in one giant grey area, where we get along as we can...and still I survive, have plans, and enjoy every day as it was my last! WITH my girlfriend (who is btw still in college, so she makes no money whatsoever), and I still manage to be with her every day!
And she well deserves it (with all my troubles at work and in private)!
So, your money-love paralell really makes no sense to me, since over here, everything that you buy, insure and own is about million times more expensive than anything that you can possibly imagine!

I love my girlfriend, I never complain about not having money, and it never affected my feelings for her.
I also never put costs in front of a good time that I have with her (or in general)...even if we shared a same cup of coffee because we can´t afford two!
I know that your thoughts are different than mine, and I can understand that! I also don´t blame you for thinking the way you are...after all, we´re all only human, and every one of us has a different idea how some things are to be, but putting a price tag on emotions is generally wrong...whatever country you live in, or what ever religion you are! That I know for sure!
If you love somebody, and you feel that you belong with her, then you´ll never think about how much it costs...materially or emotionally!
Obviously I am lucky to know and accept that...and I´m really sorry for the fact that not everyone has what I have as far as being with somebody is concerned!

This post has been edited by IGloo: Jul 17, 2007 - 6:26 AM

[devilsden97]

-girls that have a creepy "stricly platonic" male friend who never seems to go away
-the seeming lack of emotional independence that manifests itself as the inability to make decisions alone,
-confrontational tendencies
-girls that can't ride a bike, sleep in a tent, drink coffee or beer, or enjoy a good sunset
-lack of culture
-general rudeness

I agree 100% with this list, this dudes got his priorities in order.

And seriously, if this thread doesnt get back on track ASAP, its gonna get locked REAL QUICK. So I would suggest everyone stops the personal attacks, and accepts the fact that everyone has different opinions and views. Just because You don't believe there is a santa, doesnt mean I cant. (would have used more relevent information, but at the risk of being accused of taking sides, the santa analogy will have to do.)

This post has been edited by devilsden97: Jul 17, 2007 - 11:34 AM

[IGloo]

I agree!

...and since we´re at Santa...what are your major Santa turn-offs?

-too long beard
-tendency to hang out in shopping malls during the time of festivities
-eating too damn much
-never wearing anything but red
-and what kind of stupid name is that?!?




(OMG, I´m laughing my aXX off)

[Sh0gunkid8721]

TURNOFFS

girl with a stache
girl with hairy legs
girl with hairy tongue
girl with hairy pits
girl with unibrow
girl with bad breath
BO
girl thats too tall
slutty girl
butch girl
girl with no sense of humor
girl that doesnt know how to dress
girl with no ambitions
overconfidence
retarded girls
girl that hates sports
nonactive girl
girl that hates art
girl that cant hang with the guys
girl with bad temper
insensitive girl
high maintenance girl
prissy girl
girl that talks too much
girl with an annoying laugh
girl thats too dependant
girl that doesnt trust
girl thats too clingy
girl that wears socks with flip flops (im serious)
girl that cant hold a conversation
girl with no education

[Valo666]

chicks who spent more of DADDY'S money in a 24hour period then they have of there own, in there entire life.

x2. my ex gf was like that. Her parents bought her a 2003 RSX for her 17th b-day for her first car. She bought everything on her parents credit card. We went out to the mall one day to get just a cd, she came out of there with a $800 bill on her credit card because she decided to by 4 pairs of jeans and a 2 t-shirts and a sweater. She needed them as "work clothes for her mom" selling tickets to somethin. Sure enough within 40 min of buyin them, she cut the shoulders off to make it slutty already.

1. guys friends with their exs. EX IS AN EX - move on.

Whats wrong with being friends with an ex?? 97% of my ex girl friends were good friends b4 we started going out and we kept being friends afterwards. Im still friends with all of my exs except my last one. Hell, my gf right now has been my ex 3 different times..lol


Any ways, my turns offs are

Girls who want you to change who you are, aka they want me to shave my beard, dress a different way, listen to different music...pretty much be some one im not.

Girls who dont like the same music as me - i HATE it when im driving and listening to my music and a girl will go over and turn on like kelly clarkson or some crap like that

girls who are overly religous - Im all for choise in religon, but when they try and convert me into a catholic or christian or w/e, bugs me. I have my one belifes, and i dont want some one trying to force theirs onto me.

Girls who dont like tattoos - personaly, i like tattoos, im planning on gettin alot more, and it sucks when a girl doesnt like tattoos.

Girls who cant drive - aka girls who think they can drive fast or well, but they really cant. My ex used to weave in and out of trafic and drive going like 200km/h cuz she thought it was fun, but she barely knew how to drive. sure enough she got run off the road and flipped her rsx 3 times about a year and a half ago, she was fine walked out of it with a few scratches, but her car was written off.

stupidity and ignorance - i know too many ignorant people in the world and they really piss me off. I knew a girl back in my rez at college who was the biggest bigget ever. She didnt like any sort of oriental person what so ever because she thinks they dont know how to speak english and refuse to learn. So pretty much she didnt like an entire race because they came from their home country to canada, and decided they still wanna keep their native tounge and still learn english.

Im actually not that picky when it comes to girls, theres just some little things that really bug me.