Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[parriehunter]

my only advice;

can't live with the can't live without them

nah, why can't you be with her? are you to drop nuts to say something?
Just tell her but obversely don't yell or anything like that.

After being in a relationship for well over 4 years they do like to know how you feel. (honestly thats whats we fight about cos i dont tell her crap).

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

[joehernandez]

i dont understand,,,
u want me to tell her the way i felt, but not the way i want to say it?

she know i like her, and she likes me,, sorry that i didnt point it that out clearly..
o yeah and it was dirty dancing..

This post has been edited by joehernandez: Aug 18, 2008 - 4:41 AM

[808celica]

she's trying to make you jealous. all girls do that to make you want them more

[joehernandez]

she's trying to make you jealous. all girls do that to make you want them more

ok but what would you do about it?

[parriehunter]

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.

Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

[joehernandez]

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.

Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

[playr158]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

[D-Man]

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason

I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost

...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 8:28 AM

[DEATH]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

x2

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.
Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

Either "A" - yes she is like that [And never put anything past a woman - this is pretty mild compared to some things I've seen women do to make a man jealous or like them more - they are ALL pretty fcuked up you know] or "B" she has no interest in you. Not a problem either way - just try to figure out which and deal appropriately

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)
if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason
I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost
...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post will haunt me for the rest of my life.


My advice - You are already too hung up on this girl to have a successful relationship [Unless you prefer being submissive and then I can see it working - maybe] and you are not even dating yet. Get the hell away. It's never healthy to be that hung up on a chick. Go out and find one who is that hung up YOU, let her massage your wounded ego and get your needs taken care of - you'll soon forget all about this other one.

This post has been edited by DEATH: Aug 18, 2008 - 9:00 AM

[D-Man]

^ yeah that's what i did. Made me feel alot better. Then when i felt better, i was fine to go and "browse the candy isle" untill i found something worth keeping

[playr158]

haha D-man your first post made me lol

[CAMAricer]

That's messed up man, she knows you're into her and she still wants to freak with your bros in front of your face? Hmm, does your boys know about your situation? Maybe they'd respect that and leave her off limits.

Bros before hoes, right? (my apologies to any ladies out there who maybe offended by this expression).

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[D-Man]

That's messed up man, she knows you're into her and she still wants to freak with your bros in front of your face? Hmm, does your boys know about your situation? Maybe they'd respect that and leave her off limits.

Bros before hoes, right? (my apologies to any ladies out there who maybe offended by this expression).

The sad thing is, NOT REALLY. I've had my family turn on my a- durring hard times like this; Hopefuly your people are better than mine.

But what can i say, I love me some crazy / psychotic women. Apparently my bad taste is in friends. and if your boys are going to go along with it in your face at the clubs, than they'll do MUCH more when you arn't looking. I'm sorry to say. Not trying to hurt your feelings or anything, Or piss you off, But (in MY personal experience, People really are that dirty )

I wish ya the best. G/L

[joehernandez]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

yeah,, thats the big deal!
i think she sill be mad and will tell me the same thing!
"we are not dating"......................................

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason

I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost

...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

wooow you really got me thinking right here!

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

x2

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.
Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

Either "A" - yes she is like that [And never put anything past a woman - this is pretty mild compared to some things I've seen women do to make a man jealous or like them more - they are ALL pretty fcuked up you know] or "B" she has no interest in you. Not a problem either way - just try to figure out which and deal appropriately

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)
if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason
I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost
...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post will haunt me for the rest of my life.


My advice - You are already too hung up on this girl to have a successful relationship [Unless you prefer being submissive and then I can see it working - maybe] and you are not even dating yet. Get the hell away. It's never healthy to be that hung up on a chick. Go out and find one who is that hung up YOU, let her massage your wounded ego and get your needs taken care of - you'll soon forget all about this other one.

Ok heres the thing,,,,,
she is my boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she is the assistant manager and i am the third key!
i think that changed the story a little bit hehehehehe

[DEATH]

OK well then you really don't have any reason trying to date her. Relationships with coworkers are bad news man - move on. Girls are never worth this much worry. They are easy to find and easy to leave behind man.
you seem like too nice a guy to worry about any one female.

[lubu]

she is my boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she is the assistant manager and i am the third key!

Ownage right there bud.

[D-Man]

No Matt, that is his problem, he's not a total testosterone driven ass like some guys i know

J/K w/ ya

But for real, that'll be the hardest part; but ultimately the wisest decision. And i have to agree with not having relations with co-workers. Seriously, even working in a quizno's, there are security cameras, and a pervert for a boss who makes copys of the tape to show his other store at the christmas party when you're supposed to be dating a chick there, but then the.... nevermind...


EDIT: Matt, that's the quizno's by your house next to the walmart shoping center. Chris Johnson is the owner, and I was the assistant of that one and the one on 34th near that CONS and GoodWill. There was a Danielle Ramey at one store, then a Kristina Lang at another. I hope you like your mayo

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 11:50 AM

[DEATH]

I don't eat mayo - don't trust it plus it's got to be the nastiest food substance on the planet [Well maybe].

No but I'm serious here - no girl is worth him being so upset. I've been fcuked with by the best in the business and not one of those females was worth the problems. Just keep looking till you find someone who likes you outright - not one you have to get to like you. And even then keep you're eye out and your heart hardened. They can't hurt you with what you were already prepared for.

[hitcachi]

who cares about girl friends!!!

[D-Man]

find someone who likes you outright - not one you have to get to like you. And even then keep you're eye out and your heart hardened. They can't hurt you with what you were already prepared for.

i hate to admit it, but it's Definitely the best dating advice i've ever heard.

And the whole co-workers thing really never works in one way or another. (my sideline story is only made to make you laugh at my own stupidity, lol) My only way of being serious is by making jokes. Sorry. Life is too short to waste being serious all the time. It's also too short to be fishing in a one fish pond, go cast out into the sea my friend.

EDIT: Mayo is bad, and so is jail bait.

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 12:03 PM

[joehernandez]

No Matt, that is his problem, he's not a total testosterone driven ass like some guys i know

J/K w/ ya

But for real, that'll be the hardest part; but ultimately the wisest decision. And i have to agree with not having relations with co-workers. Seriously, even working in a quizno's, there are security cameras, and a pervert for a boss who makes copys of the tape to show his other store at the christmas party when you're supposed to be dating a chick there, but then the.... nevermind...


EDIT: Matt, that's the quizno's by your house next to the walmart shoping center. Chris Johnson is the owner, and I was the assistant of that one and the one on 34th near that CONS and GoodWill. There was a Danielle Ramey at one store, then a Kristina Lang at another. I hope you like your mayo

no hehehe i am not a testosterone driven ass guy,
i think i have gotten to the point were you want to try starting the big thing,
also there is no cameras on our store hehehe

I don't eat mayo - don't trust it plus it's got to be the nastiest food substance on the planet [Well maybe].

No but I'm serious here - no girl is worth him being so upset. I've been fcuked with by the best in the business and not one of those females was worth the problems. Just keep looking till you find someone who likes you outright - not one you have to get to like you. And even then keep you're eye out and your heart hardened. They can't hurt you with what you were already prepared for.

you know its weird,,
she just called me and told me, " i love you"
and i said oh ok,,,, and she is like, " why is that reaction"
you usually tell me "i love you too," she said..........

[D-Man]

uh okay... I've figured out this much so far: (i'm not being sexist here, this is just General Peoples Thoughts on the sexes, its a fairly accurate stereotype, but a stereotype none-the-less; nobody take offense here.)

Chicks are horribly emotional creatures. They have that whole "love & bond" thing for all kinds of stuff. Just loving and motherly by instinctive nature i suppose (idfk exactly why, but it's generally true) And even when a chick wants to let go, they have that whole "love & bond" going for them and makes them say things like that, because they don't wanna be a total ass like us guys (usually) tending to be, or at least we come off that way.

Sometimes chicks will just say things like that to spare our feelings (i suppose) because when they don't Totally hate us, They don't want us to feel downed. Because chicks get downed, depressed, or emotionally offset so much more often then us guys; they don't want to pass of the hurt that we're usually responsible for dishing out.

and i don't mean that all of us guys are asses, but if my gal ask me what outfit i like better, and i say i don't f-ing care; then she'll be [in some manor] upset or at least emotionally offset. the comment means more to her, than it does to me. But Death could ask me what shirt i like better and i'd call him homo, and tell him that unless it was covering his face, it dont matter because he'll still be ugly or something. And we would laugh about that. It'd be funny. no offense. No emotional offseting. The comment wouldn't be remembered after about 10 seconds. Us guys just are not as prone emotionally.

Do you understand what i'm trying to say? I know i'm not doing a good job of it, but does this make a bit of sense?

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 12:20 PM

[joehernandez]

Chicks are horribly emotional creatures. They have that whole "love & bond" thing for all kinds of stuff. Just loving and motherly by instinctive nature i suppose (idfk exactly why, but it's generally true) And even when a chick wants to let go, they have that whole "love & bond" going for them and makes them say things like that, because they don't wanna be a total ass like us guys (usually) tending to be, or at least we come off that way.

Sometimes chicks will just say things like that to spare our feelings (i suppose) because when they don't Totally hate us, They don't want us to feel downed. Because chicks get downed, depressed, or emotionally offset so much more often then us guys; they don't want to pass of the hurt that we're usually responsible for dishing out.

i got lost there,,,,
i mean cuz i never was an ass to her.....

[D-Man]

yeah, that was a general Guys VS girls statement.

Bottom line, is that she may be saying things to humor you, and to spare your feelings. However actions speak louder than words, and if her body is mashing someone else's body, when you are their capable of mashing bodys with her, and she chooses someone else to mash with instead... Then it may be time to go find a new body to mash with. or date. However you wanna word that sentence....

That was not meant to be dirty But your earlier word selection of "Freaking" would have sounded insanely nasty.

bottom line: from the details that we've gotten thus far, it sounds like she's trying to get out; without hurting you. Unless you got other evidence/facts that says otherwise, it may be time for the next step. As crapy as it sounds, and as much of an ass i am for saying it...

[joehernandez]

so i shouldn't say anything!
just start looking for someone else?

[D-Man]

Really, I'm the last person that you should listen to, Anything that i tell you will wind up saving you heart-break and pain; because i've had to learn myself the hardway. As we' all have on some level or another. Some of us just don't give up until we're living out of our cars or behind bars, (ect) and it's no way to live any part of your life, ever.

I'd say to play off that whole "Friends" crap, w/o hanging out with her. pass her calls when you can, or get loaded and talk to her about anything that's not related to ya'll. Like cars. Pullin that whole "friends" thing (so i've been advised) will make them bored and yern for more, or make them walk. Eitherway, it makes short work of the problem.

[GriffGirl]

Okay, first of all, you should be asking a chick this, not a guy about this, because well, guys can only speculate.


Second of all, you went wrong in your first post when you said "let" as in "Should I let her" blah blah blah

So here's the rundown, from a girl's perspective, and probably one who knows women better than anyone else on this board for just Oh So Many Reasons
1) You don't "let" her do anything. She's not even your girlfriend so not only do you NOT get to say what she can and can't do, you also don't get to ask her nicely not to. She's going to do what she's going to do and the notion that you have the authority to either allow or disallow something is absolutely, well, laughable. I get that it's kind of a different deal with latin dudes than with plain old white guys (somewhat) but if you want to look at it from that perspective, well, she's not your wife. You don't get to say what she can and can't do.
2) She's your boss? That's a train wreck waiting to happen for you, my friend. Steer clear. If you like her that much, get a new job THEN ask her out. It's just a super bad idea to get involved with your boss. It's just not worth it, unless you enjoy an ass-load of drama and high maintenance sh*t in your life, in which case, have fun!

[joehernandez]

Okay, first of all, you should be asking a chick this, not a guy about this, because well, guys can only speculate.


Second of all, you went wrong in your first post when you said "let" as in "Should I let her" blah blah blah

So here's the rundown, from a girl's perspective, and probably one who knows women better than anyone else on this board for just Oh So Many Reasons
1) You don't "let" her do anything. She's not even your girlfriend so not only do you NOT get to say what she can and can't do, you also don't get to ask her nicely not to. She's going to do what she's going to do and the notion that you have the authority to either allow or disallow something is absolutely, well, laughable. I get that it's kind of a different deal with latin dudes than with plain old white guys (somewhat) but if you want to look at it from that perspective, well, she's not your wife. You don't get to say what she can and can't do.
2) She's your boss? That's a train wreck waiting to happen for you, my friend. Steer clear. If you like her that much, get a new job THEN ask her out. It's just a super bad idea to get involved with your boss. It's just not worth it, unless you enjoy an ass-load of drama and high maintenance sh*t in your life, in which case, have fun!

you know, you brought a new point to the post,,,
i really dont get it why people say that a boss-worker relationship is full of drama,,
to tell you the truth we have been like this for one year, but she likes to dance a lot,
even though she doesnt goes out that much,,, once every 6 months,,,,
i would like to tell the whole story,, but it seems toooooo much,,,
i am sure you will be surprised of the story,,,,

Really, I'm the last person that you should listen to, Anything that i tell you will wind up saving you heart-break and pain; because i've had to learn myself the hardway. As we' all have on some level or another. Some of us just don't give up until we're living out of our cars or behind bars, (ect) and it's no way to live any part of your life, ever.

I'd say to play off that whole "Friends" crap, w/o hanging out with her. pass her calls when you can, or get loaded and talk to her about anything that's not related to ya'll. Like cars. Pullin that whole "friends" thing (so i've been advised) will make them bored and yern for more, or make them walk. Eitherway, it makes short work of the problem.

you know what, lots of friends have told me,,,
don't pay a lot of attention to girls,, the more you ignore them,
the more they look for you, i have tried it, and it really does work.

[playr158]

i'm going to say......this is a celica site......if you are asking for girl information on a car forum....well you are just looking in the wrong place

This post has been edited by playr158: Aug 18, 2008 - 1:00 PM

[D-Man]

Agreed with playr....

Unfortunetly most of us spend our time in the garage, witch puts us in the proverbial "dog house" with our chicks, or leaves us having to make things up, or down right regulate on the situations But one way or another, Most of our girlfriends/wife's probably spend a fair amount of time during the day cussing us

Rather we all want to admit it or not

[xs94st]

^ agreed.

now, heres my 2 cents ;p

lol. but forreals, this sounds like a potential bad ending. my supervisor is a cute one, we've hung out, but when other people in my department started accusing her of playing favorites store management came in and said 'i told you so, now quit it.'

how much of a thing do you guys have for one another? a few dates? a few parties? how can she tell you she loves you when you aren't even within a relationship where you can exchange feelings/thoughts/etc about one another? no offense, but was she under the influence when she said it? i've been in the supervisor/higher authority situation before and i got out of it quick cuz she had a crazy ex...

but anyways, its not about her. its about you. what do you want? i haven't read through every single respond on this thread, but it seems like you are saying what she has done and not what you actually want to see happen.

i just stay away from the party girls. they have continuously broken my heart. the whole dealio with her freakin other guys? since you are not with her, all is fair game. hell, if you were together i'm sure she would want to go dance still. i just don't think its cool for that to happen when you're together though. my ex loved to dance. jesus, i don't wanna go in on all my personal shiz but it just makes sense. she would be dancing and i'd be getting/mixing drinks and guys would come up and sandwich her. now, from the boyfriend point of view, its pretty bad to see your girl dancing up on some strangers at your party. its cool for girls to dance, but when homegirl is getting really into it. hmm. lets just say that it pissed me off to see that and was the basis of a few arguments.

also, where exactly do you work joe? the whole boss/employer relationship thing depends on what kind of job and the number of coworkers IMO.

[playr158]

Agreed with playr....

Unfortunetly most of us spend our time in the garage, witch puts us in the proverbial "dog house" with our chicks, or leaves us having to make things up, or down right regulate on the situations But one way or another, Most of our girlfriends/wife's probably spend a fair amount of time during the day cussing us

Rather we all want to admit it or not

unless you can find a girl who likes to work on cars or drive

My last two > in the garage mwhaahahahah

[joehernandez]

^ agreed.

now, heres my 2 cents ;p

lol. but forreals, this sounds like a potential bad ending. my supervisor is a cute one, we've hung out, but when other people in my department started accusing her of playing favorites store management came in and said 'i told you so, now quit it.'

how much of a thing do you guys have for one another? a few dates? a few parties? how can she tell you she loves you when you aren't even within a relationship where you can exchange feelings/thoughts/etc about one another? no offense, but was she under the influence when she said it? i've been in the supervisor/higher authority situation before and i got out of it quick cuz she had a crazy ex...

but anyways, its not about her. its about you. what do you want? i haven't read through every single respond on this thread, but it seems like you are saying what she has done and not what you actually want to see happen.

i just stay away from the party girls. they have continuously broken my heart. the whole dealio with her freakin other guys? since you are not with her, all is fair game. hell, if you were together i'm sure she would want to go dance still. i just don't think its cool for that to happen when you're together though. my ex loved to dance. jesus, i don't wanna go in on all my personal shiz but it just makes sense. she would be dancing and i'd be getting/mixing drinks and guys would come up and sandwich her. now, from the boyfriend point of view, its pretty bad to see your girl dancing up on some strangers at your party. its cool for girls to dance, but when homegirl is getting really into it. hmm. lets just say that it pissed me off to see that and was the basis of a few arguments.

also, where exactly do you work joe? the whole boss/employer relationship thing depends on what kind of job and the number of coworkers IMO.

well, look,
she has a little girl, and his ex, just dont lets us be together,
and she has dance with me but i have never seen her dance with my friends until friday, that is the thing,
i thought she was only going to dance with me.
i just want to be with her,
no she wasnt under the influence when she said that,
it was right now, 2 hours ago, she is at work and i am at my house,
we exchange feelings and all that cuz we have been like that for a year,
but its nothing official yet!
we work at Shoe store, our store is big,
number of coworkers is, 8, 4 man and 4 woman,
we really have not had a problem at work,

[D-Man]

1) she's already got a crazy ex?
2) it was supposed to be a "date"?
3) you're not even ever been official and ya'll are talking "love" w/ each other?



4) you work at a shoe store? Like Al Bundy? Just playin

[GriffGirl]

There's gonna be drama. Expect it.

[DEATH]

she just called me and told me, " i love you"
and i said oh ok,,,, and she is like, " why is that reaction"
you usually tell me "i love you too," she said..........

Ah - this changes everything. I don't care where you are in your relationship/not relationship - if she's saying that and she dances that way with other guys [I have to assume it's really "freaking" and not just some normal type "freaking" but I'm into the Goth scene and our "freaking" goes well beyond most others so IDK] then that's not cool unless it was the first time and she didn't know.
I still say let her drop, leave her alone and see where she goes with it. The easiest way to get a girls attn is to pretend you don't care - works everytime I'm afraid.
I also have no time for BS games girls play so I tend to say fcuk it alot.
Keep my comments with a grain of salt tho there be wisdom in these words

[D-Man]

There's gonna be drama. Expect it.

If there are girls involved, there WILL be drama

Sorry girls

The easiest way to get a girls attn is to pretend you don't care - works everytime I'm afraid.

Does Not!

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 3:04 PM

[96bluevert]

Okay, first of all, you should be asking a chick this, not a guy about this, because well, guys can only speculate.

I agree...You already know what the general guy's response is going to be (I mean it's posted all ove this thread, but even before you posted this up) being as you are one yourself. So asking someone who's been on the other side of this debate will help you out alot more than if you ask other guys about it.

and yeah, like Griffgirl and D-man just said, some drama should be expected when dating women (no offense to the women on here).

[D-Man]

and yeah, like Griffgirl and D-man just said, some drama should be expected when dating women (no offense to the women on here).

But we're not encouraging you to date men though!!

[aflacattack]

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you

are you speaking from experience here d?

and to OP, welcome to the game man! its a tough one!

[x_itchy_b_x]

she maybe hott but some one some where is sick of her ****.

[MercuryFree]

OK well then you really don't have any reason trying to date her. Relationships with coworkers are bad news man - move on. Girls are never worth this much worry. They are easy to find and easy to leave behind man.
you seem like too nice a guy to worry about any one female.

I met my girlfriend at work...no longer work together but we've been together over a year so far . Such relationships can work

[spolski07]

how old is she? and how old are you? age plays a big part.

my thought is that dancing is dancing and i think you may be over thinking this whole thing..


life is to short to be worried about a girl you are talking to to be dancing with your friends. hell she could of been dancing with strangers, but she chose to dance with the people you trust. right?

[SlickRick]

I aint gonna sit here and read this whole things. I am 27 been with more women then any man should. And i have learned 2 things. U cant turn a hoe in a housewife and the best way to get over one is to get under one. Now close this thread!!!!

[bslik]

3) you're not even ever been official and ya'll are talking "love" w/ each other?

i wouldnt put it past you to be talking love, me and most of my ex girlfriends have told each other "i love you" all the time, most befor we were even together at all. depending on the girl, it just means she trusts u to not hurt her. unless its a friendly kind of "i love you" then u wanna get away because its going nowhere. or if shes just sayin that as some terrble trick.

but for real, i think you should take into consideration all the things that have been mentioned in this thread and talk to the girl about this whole situation. it wont hurt to have a better understanding of each others feelings (sniffle ) got all mushy for a second there

I aint gonna sit here and read this whole things. I am 27 been with more women then any man should. And i have learned 2 things. U cant turn a hoe in a housewife and the best way to get over one is to get under one. Now close this thread!!!!

oh yea and i hate the saying "cant turn a hoe into a housewife"............................. it has been done

[joehernandez]

how old is she? and how old are you? age plays a big part.

my thought is that dancing is dancing and i think you may be over thinking this whole thing..


life is to short to be worried about a girl you are talking to to be dancing with your friends. hell she could of been dancing with strangers, but she chose to dance with the people you trust. right?

wooooow
i never thought this thread was going to get really long!

well she is 20, and i am 21!
well for me it was like whatever but my friends started to telling me that that was wrong,,
and lots of thing,, so i am like,, probably they are right,,,

About the love thing,,,,
i think everyone misunderstood. it was a translation i did from spanish to english,
it doesn't means the real love thing,,,
it means more like,, i like you a lot,
sorry that i didn't pointed out that clearly,,,

woow lots of responses,,, let me go through all of them again

[bslik]

wow ok... so shes spanish, explaining why shes "freaking". yes spanish girls do tend to dance very sexually. i completely understand why thats a problem. but if shes sayin she likes you alot then dont just forget about her. keep talkin to her, just dont try to hard.

but dont take love advice from me i just turned 18 wat do i kno

[808celica]

sorry late reply i didnt know this thread was gonna blow up.

to truely love someone your first........

must get your heart broken and..............

in some way you must break someone's heart.

also i have somewhat the same problem my side. its a girl that thinks she can get any guy she wants cuz she's hott and kinda smart. well i had to break her heart when she tried to get me jealous and stuff. there is always someone that will reject her and say, "hmph....i can get something better than you." Sadly i had to do that............and guess what..................i did get girls way better than she was.
they'll also to try to do that guilt trip thingy im immune to that too

just like my friends say.........i cant find a girl that i truely like more my celica and when i do she'll be the perfect one.

so dont stress it man

Live life with a little more ALOHA

This post has been edited by 808celica: Aug 19, 2008 - 4:20 AM

[playr158]

ok ok here is the honest answer...



PIITB



/thread

[D-Man]

I aint gonna sit here and read this whole things. I am 27 been with more women then any man should. And i have learned 2 things. U cant turn a hoe in a housewife and the best way to get over one is to get under one. Now close this thread!!!!

oh yea and i hate the saying "cant turn a hoe into a housewife"............................. it has been done

Dude, NO! Okay?

Agreed with slickrick. There is another saying:
Unfortunately i'll get baned really quick for saying it

how old is she? and how old are you? age plays a big part.

my thought is that dancing is dancing and i think you may be over thinking this whole thing..


life is to short to be worried about a girl you are talking to to be dancing with your friends. hell she could of been dancing with strangers, but she chose to dance with the people you trust. right?

wooooow
i never thought this thread was going to get really long!

well she is 20, and i am 21!
well for me it was like whatever but my friends started to telling me that that was wrong,,
and lots of thing,, so i am like,, probably they are right,,,

About the love thing,,,,
i think everyone misunderstood. it was a translation i did from spanish to english,
it doesn't means the real love thing,,,
it means more like,, i like you a lot,
sorry that i didn't pointed out that clearly,,,

woow lots of responses,,, let me go through all of them again

Te Querro
not
Te Amo

Gotcha

Okay then, that makes alot of sense now. I was really starting to worry about you there for a second

yes spanish girls do tend to dance very sexually

Oh god yes, isn't it great?

What the hell is PIITB?

Also JOE have you guys decited on doing anything exclusively? you obviously like this chick alot. Have ya'll ever been out JUST THE TWO OF YOU? Otherwise, she has no idea and was just "gettn' down on the flooa" or whatever the hell you call it. If you want her to be more exclusive with you, then you need to show her that's how it's gunna be by takin her out JUST THE TWO of you and not WITH A BUNCH OF FRIENDS. duh.

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 19, 2008 - 8:40 AM

[SlickRick]

so recap dude is mad cuz some chick he was chillin with was dancing like a floozy with some of his friends? But if she aint your girl u cant really trip, when you kinda got one foot in the door already i suggest u just keep plowing ohter girls on the side and if this one comes around and it works out great, if not you were still doin you thang!!!
And you know what your problem is? Your putting the p***y on a pedestal!

This post has been edited by SlickRick: Aug 19, 2008 - 12:01 PM

[RUNNIN-LOW]

I HAVE NO HEART...SO YEAH I WOULD JUST CAST MY LINE BACK OUT THERE AND JUST CATCH ANOTHER..TOO MANY FISHES IN THE SEA TO BE STUCK WITH JUST ONE...unless she has the perfect body, the perfect face and is AWESOME all around then.....by all means go for it....and i agree with slickrick...

This post has been edited by RUNNIN-LOW: Aug 19, 2008 - 1:43 PM

[GriffGirl]

^LOL you WISH you could agree with slick rick

[D-Man]

^LOL you WISH you could agree with slick rick

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 25, 2008 - 4:11 PM

[Culpable04]

Joe, I doesn't matter the culture / language / or nationality

if a woman wants something serious with a guy the last thing she'd do is try to flirt with his friends, a lot of women do that, but not with the guy they wanna keep, just with the guys they wanna play. think about it this way, if you're trying to have a good healthy relationship with a girl, is it a wise move to hit on her friends ? yes she may get jealous and show more interest, but will it last ? unless you get lucky and she's bi....polar lol in that case you got a double play lol.

and you said this has been going on for a year and nothing concrete yet ? sounds to me like you're the security guy, for those lonely days or when all other plans fail, nothing wrong with that if you take it by what it is.

[joehernandez]

sorry late reply i didnt know this thread was gonna blow up.

to truely love someone your first........

must get your heart broken and..............

in some way you must break someone's heart.

also i have somewhat the same problem my side. its a girl that thinks she can get any guy she wants cuz she's hott and kinda smart. well i had to break her heart when she tried to get me jealous and stuff. there is always someone that will reject her and say, "hmph....i can get something better than you." Sadly i had to do that............and guess what..................i did get girls way better than she was.
they'll also to try to do that guilt trip thingy im immune to that too

i think i will have to agree with you right here.
if something goes wrong now i know what to say hahaha

Te Querro
not
Te Amo

Gotcha

Okay then, that makes alot of sense now. I was really starting to worry about you there for a second

Also JOE have you guys decited on doing anything exclusively? you obviously like this chick alot. Have ya'll ever been out JUST THE TWO OF YOU? Otherwise, she has no idea and was just "gettn' down on the flooa" or whatever the hell you call it. If you want her to be more exclusive with you, then you need to show her that's how it's gunna be by takin her out JUST THE TWO of you and not WITH A BUNCH OF FRIENDS.

noooonoooooo, not love OK,,, i might be stupid but not that much to fall in love soon
sure we have been together, only the two of us,,,,, sorry but no more details hehehehe

so recap dude is mad cuz some chick he was chillin with was dancing like a floozy with some of his friends? But if she aint your girl u cant really trip, when you kinda got one foot in the door already i suggest u just keep plowing ohter girls on the side and if this one comes around and it works out great, if not you were still doin you thang!!!
And you know what your problem is? Your putting the p***y on a pedestal!

ooooooh i think i got burned right here!!!!!!
nooo but i dont think is like that,,, thats waaaaaaaaaaay too much.

^LOL you WISH you could agree with slick rick

noooo that would be somehow perverted

daaaamn i have been burned twice this day

Joe, I doesn't matter the culture / language / or nationality

if a woman wants something serious with a guy the last thing she'd do is try to flirt with his friends, a lot of women do that, but not with the guy they wanna keep, just with the guys they wanna play. think about it this way, if you're trying to have a good healthy relationship with a girl, is it a wise move to hit on her friends ? yes she may get jealous and show more interest, but will it last ? unless you get lucky and she's bi....polar lol in that case you got a double play lol.

and you said this has been going on for a year and nothing concrete yet ? sounds to me like you're the security guy, for those lonely days or when all other plans fail, nothing wrong with that if you take it by what it is.

i think you really got me thinking right here,,,,,,,,
really good answer by the way.... thanks a lot,,


i just really surprised that this post has blown up!
i really never thought it was going to be this way,,,
thanks a lot everyone.
and someone said that this was not a place to talk about girls,,,

[D-Man]

no dude, my dirty little OWNED pic was aimed at RUNNIN-LOW, as GriffGirl straight called him out on that one. And he couldn't say a thing about it!! lol.

Sorry RUNNIN-LOW, but the posts' are right there We're all friends here though.

So what's your Plan Joe?

[Jeunesse]

Joe, you're too young to have that sickness they call onegina... live your life bud, they're right you know.. too many fishes out there.

[Sinyk]

If she's your boss and the relationship goes sour, the odds of that somehow affecting you job are pretty high, especially if the relationship has a bad ending. Not like she can outright fire you, but I'm sure she could make your time there miserable.

[joehernandez]

no dude, my dirty little OWNED pic was aimed at RUNNIN-LOW, as GriffGirl straight called him out on that one. And he couldn't say a thing about it!! lol.

Sorry RUNNIN-LOW, but the posts' are right there We're all friends here though.

So what's your Plan Joe?

Oh ok, but the pic did fit me, lets be realistic hehehe

Well i have been planing this for days,,,
since we have been like this for a year and still nothing concrete,,,
i will ask her that if she wants to be with me,,, lets be together, that she needs to make up her mind,,
if she says no,,
then bye bye,, it will be time to return to my prosti life hehehehehehe

Joe, you're too young to have that sickness they call onegina... live your life bud, they're right you know.. too many fishes out there.

well probably, but remember,, when you are in a relationship, more girls check you out than if you were single,,,
or am i mistaken?

[D-Man]

Joe, you're too young to have that sickness they call onegina... live your life bud, they're right you know.. too many fishes out there.

well probably, but remember,, when you are in a relationship, more girls check you out than if you were single,,,
or am i mistaken?

You are mistaken.

YOU are the one hoping that more chicks are checkin you out, because you've been "eating the same flavor of pie" for so long, that you're "tired of blue-berry" and want some of that "strawberry" standing in the corner. Your hopes arise to the point that you "feel like" she's checking you out. But while you're holding that blueberry pie, Nobody wants anything to do with you.

But when you're single, You go GET a pice of that strawberry standing in the corner, and she slaps you.

So either way, if your face looks like mine, than just be happy that you've got any pie

[SlickRick]

So whats the update? Joe u still kinda hurt by her dancing? I am telling u bro just do your thing keep dating and do what u gotta do. But sure as hell dont try 2 get all sappy and buy her crap or cards bcuz when she dont wanna get with u in the end you feel stupid. And u seem young, so you gonna knockout plenty of P**** in your day. relax. And i am the type that thinks if i aint got a ring on my finger it aint cheating.

[xs94st]

i like different flavored pies..

anyways, joe, IMO, just ask her out. forreals.

i don't know what i was thinking with what i had written before because my attitude has sorta changed to the idea that if you want something, go out n get it.

do it, let us know, n good luck ma friend.

-x

[RUNNIN-LOW]

^LOL you WISH you could agree with slick rick

no dude, my dirty little OWNED pic was aimed at RUNNIN-LOW, as GriffGirl straight called him out on that one. And he couldn't say a thing about it!! lol.

Sorry RUNNIN-LOW, but the posts' are right there We're all friends here though.

So what's your Plan Joe?

haha guys loving it...doesnt matter to me dont check these post much.....well joe just figure it out about what you what to do..and do it...

[joehernandez]

Ok,,well
she called me yesterday night,,
and i told her that i needed to talk to her on sunday,, thats the day when i am going to see her,,
so everything is up for that day,, i will let you know guys what happens ok,

[bslik]

the suspense is killing me!

[SlickRick]

so what exactly do u plan on telling her sunday? DONT BE PUSHY. women hate that and dont make her feel trapped or your giving her an ultimatum. Just tell her hey i noticed u noticing me and i think we would have fun together. lol tell her what u feel but dont accuse her or be aggressive, and ask open ended questions. good luck player.

[joehernandez]

so what exactly do u plan on telling her sunday? DONT BE PUSHY. women hate that and dont make her feel trapped or your giving her an ultimatum. Just tell her hey i noticed u noticing me and i think we would have fun together. lol tell her what u feel but dont accuse her or be aggressive, and ask open ended questions. good luck player.

iam planning on telling her, what i really want,,
that all this year that i have been knowing her, its been awesome,
that i think we should really try something more serious...
stuff like that,
ultimatum well,,, it depends, i really wouldn't like to wait a lot again...
is this ok,, or should i say something more?

[D-Man]

Update on the 6gc.net SoapOprah?

[RUNNIN-LOW]

HAHA doesnt it seem like a Soap Oprah...kinda woundering whats going on too...

[Random_Stranger]

Just because you like someone doesn't mean that you are meant to be with each other. I had to learn that the hard way from my ex. I had to break things off with that hot sexy lil thing. Anyways, yeah. You may feel the need to get jealous, because there is nothing else as special in your life, but once you find it, you wouldn't be concerned about what she decides she wants to do in the slightest.


Take your time and don't worry. Besides, if you are the jealous type, would you want to date a girl who dances "freak" (lol) with your friends? I don't think so. So quit trippin'. Man up and go hunt down another female.

[easternpiro1]

so recap dude is mad cuz some chick he was chillin with was dancing like a floozy with some of his friends? But if she aint your girl u cant really trip, when you kinda got one foot in the door already i suggest u just keep plowing ohter girls on the side and if this one comes around and it works out great, if not you were still doin you thang!!!
And you know what your problem is? Your putting the p***y on a pedestal!

wow
ok...between d man and slick rick...this thread is going down as a classic! right up there with the look at manny post whoring thread...

now that im late and caught up....update please? and hopefully you were honest with her expressing your feeling with respect and lightheartedly.

This post has been edited by easternpiro1: Aug 25, 2008 - 4:04 PM

[D-Man]

Dude, we're all waiting for a reply.

We need to know if he's been heart broken, or re-filling his "wallet ring"

JOE, if she does you dirty, i've got a bottle of tequila, a bottle of crown, some triple sec, some bailys (IDK where that gay crap came from though, must belong to the miss) and about 4 cases of beer in the frige. (varrying flavors) So if you're heart broken, we can get loaded and go sit on the lawn chairs at the pool in my appts, (because in texas it's HOT) so there are plenty of bikini girls, and the fully-glassed weight-room shows off girls on tread mills, (bouncing) and those leg-flexing machines (streching)... And the chicks in my appts seem to be into doing yoga; WITCH IS FCUKING SWEET!!

There is nothing quite like sitting back and enjoying a cold beer watching chicks do yoga. You'll be back in the game by 6. (pack)

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 25, 2008 - 4:22 PM

[DEATH]

Yet more info going into the D-Man blackmail file - I forsee myself driving a 6gc vert for my DD soon [You can keep the wing for the memories]

This post has been edited by DEATH: Aug 25, 2008 - 4:38 PM

[GriffGirl]

LOL!!!!!!

He'll need that wing anyway for when he gets old enough to grow facial hair 'cause lord knows BAILEY'S ain't gonna put any hair on that chest!

(IDK where that gay crap came from though, must belong to the miss)

Yeah, right. Keep telling yourself that, D-Man!


So, update on the Saga? I think Culp had the best advice here, at least from this chick's POV

[joehernandez]

OK Ok Ok,,,,
i never thought this post was going to be exciting to people
this is like 6gc.net "SoapOpraha"

well here is the long waited update!

sunday afternoon she comes to me asking me what i needed to talk to her....
so i was like ok, but she just could not stop asking me what was it about...
but i just told her it was about me and her,,

she was soooo quiet for like an hour, then she comes again and says " ok lets talk"
so yeah we went to talk,, i talked straight as someone here told me to,
so we talked, and i just told her what i feel for her, and then i asked her "what do you feel for me?"
she told me lots of really really nice things, i even got surprised, i didnt even knew she felt that way for me,,,
but i asked her, its been a year,, and things have been the same way,, tell me why is that...
she answered me why,,,, and she said she was sorry, and said that things were going to change,,,
that she really wanted to start something serious with me,,,,,,,,,,,
after a lil bit of talking, i just kissed her!!!

and yeah,,, things have change a lot since that day,, and i am really happy!

[joehernandez]

so what exactly do u plan on telling her sunday? DONT BE PUSHY. women hate that and dont make her feel trapped or your giving her an ultimatum. Just tell her hey i noticed u noticing me and i think we would have fun together. lol tell her what u feel but dont accuse her or be aggressive, and ask open ended questions. good luck player.

thanks man,,,
i wasnt a pushy and i told her everything straight.
and yeah no ultimatum...
open ended questions,,,
you have saved my life man

Dude, we're all waiting for a reply.

We need to know if he's been heart broken, or re-filling his "wallet ring"

JOE, if she does you dirty, i've got a bottle of tequila, a bottle of crown, some triple sec, some bailys (IDK where that gay crap came from though, must belong to the miss) and about 4 cases of beer in the frige. (varrying flavors) So if you're heart broken, we can get loaded and go sit on the lawn chairs at the pool in my appts, (because in texas it's HOT) so there are plenty of bikini girls, and the fully-glassed weight-room shows off girls on tread mills, (bouncing) and those leg-flexing machines (streching)... And the chicks in my appts seem to be into doing yoga; WITCH IS FCUKING SWEET!!

There is nothing quite like sitting back and enjoying a cold beer watching chicks do yoga. You'll be back in the game by 6. (pack)

thanks "D-man"
but lets save those tequilas and beers for later,,
cuz u never know, either me or you will need them at some point hehehe
but i really wouldn't mind going to check the paradise view you have on you appt

LOL!!!!!!

He'll need that wing anyway for when he gets old enough to grow facial hair 'cause lord knows BAILEY'S ain't gonna put any hair on that chest!

(IDK where that gay crap came from though, must belong to the miss)

Yeah, right. Keep telling yourself that, D-Man!


So, update on the Saga? I think Culp had the best advice here, at least from this chick's POV

jejejeje its so funny
there is the update griffgirl its all yours to read it!

[SlickRick]

WOW that went awesome for you man! Now step #2 is colorfully referred to as "bone her, then disown her." lol just playing i hope all goes well!!!

[D-Man]

^not if she's worth all the trouble Then you keep her till all hell breaks loose. IME you can get a few years out of a good solid relationship. Thats the bennifit to having a steady girlfriend, Having a steady piece

JOE; Way to go man!! Now come over and lets have a victory drink I've even got some Bailies and 2 of the smerinoff girly crap that my brother left over that she can drink. (unless she takes tequila shots like everyone else in my house )

Tequila-shot-taking-girlfriend...That's the best kind of girlfriend for reasons that will not be mentioned

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 26, 2008 - 8:20 AM

[bslik]

well this is great, 6gc.net is the new best place to ask for help with girls.... anyone else? lol jk

[joehernandez]

well this is great, 6gc.net is the new best place to ask for help with girls.... anyone else? lol jk

lol well it actually is!
look at all the people that helped me!
at first i thought nobody was going to read it, and now look!

well and i think,, who is next?

[D-Man]

it's because we have such a wide variety of people. Dudes and chicks, romantics and assholes, straights and gays, And we all come together and can agree that the best way to pick up a chick is to stick her in a fast Celica

anyone else?

who is next?

Common people, The McLovin' Advisory crew is in

[b1gr3d]

wow i just discovered this thread and honestly its the ONLY one i htink i have read every post LOL i do think that you should not have kissed her though, a fairly timed hug with a little squeeze to it and a kiss on the cheek prob would have been better, ya know that "i'm a dude and now i'm playin hard to get bitch....bring it" kiss. HOWEVER i think you did good, didnt freak out didnt control..nice. just remember what would you do in that situation if she said the things to you, and then think about if you had a horrible day and then that happened...thats a female on a normal day..true. another thing. know when to put your foot down if something is crossing your boundaries, let her know by being assertive but not a dick by calling her names and what not or yelling, raising the voice is ok to a point....whoa sorry getting a little long winded in my own experiences. sum it up: G/J , you play hard to get some, dont be a dick, foot down, be heard\

-Jeremy
oh yeah i have been with the same girl for 6 1/2 yrs

[RickJamesBish]

1) tell her you like her
2) do the dirty thangs
3) leave immediately after
4) ????
5) profit.

[Havok1997GT]

1) tell her you like her
2) do the dirty thangs
3) leave immediately after
4) ????
5) profit.

AWSOME!

ok. first. Dude, no chick is worth all this crap. Doesnt matter what your story is. You are having to fight way to hard for this girl and ask to many of the wrong questions.

Second. you guys are not dating. you have no say in her life. Period. You can wish all day long that people follow the same rules that you do but its not going to happen. so expect women to be cruel, even more so to someone that they know is crazy for them, doesnt matter if you have told them this or not, they smell it on you.

Third. What kinda friends are you hanging out with? Because either they know about you two or they dont. If they know about you, there is an ass woopin in their future, and you need new friends. If they dont, then your hiding this relationship from them, in which case you dont need to be messing with a chick that you have to hide your relationship from the world. (thats way wrong, coming from experience)

Fourth. If the girl really cared for you, then shes would be on yourside. She wouldnt want to dance with other guys. that is also black and white unless you have said other wise. If you have said that this type of thing doesnt bother you then they can dance with who ever they want because you said its ok and they are not braking any rules. You it does bother you and they know it, then Fcuk of to them, Black and white. Trust me man, If a chick cares for you, they wont do stupid sh!t like that. and after a year or COURTING, they should care for you like that by now, or not at all and they will always be like that.

Thats how i feel about it. To me, caring about someone is black and white, either you do or you dont. you think about that person before you do things. if she was thinking about you she wouldnt have done that. Period. Thats what you have to think about man. How much of your life do you want to put into something that is not coming back to you 100%. Are you happy with on 50%? are you enjoying playing this stupid game with this chick?

and Finally, you shouldnt have to ask a Forums worth of people what you should do. Caring about someone is not about getting permission, or finding other people to tell you you should care. Again, Black and White. If you have to ask, then its not meant to be.

Get away from her man and find someone that will care about you because you care about them.

[D-Man]

Third. What kinda friends are you hanging out with? Because either they know about you two or they dont. If they know about you, there is an ass woopin in their future, and you need new friends.

QUOTE OF THE YEAR!!

Havok, you sir, deserve a prize!!

This post has been edited by D-Man: Sep 4, 2008 - 10:54 AM

[eggman40]

this was a very entertaining thread

best of luck to you!

[95st-celica]

who cares about girl friends!!!

im sorry but that one night might be worth the 10 years...lol

[LewFX]

no its not, find a legal hot girl and make it worth 10 years if not longer

[D-Man]

im sorry but that one night might be worth the 10 years...lol

1 night of hetero sex, 3,650 nights of forced homo sex... Where you're Big Bubba's lil' b!tch



Worth it? Sorry 95st, If it's worth it, that make you...

I wish i could post some of the pictures i found on photobucket for this scaniaro.... but i'll be on mod watch quick Too bad, because most were funnyer than offensive.

This post has been edited by D-Man: Sep 4, 2008 - 4:49 PM

[Havok1997GT]

Third. What kinda friends are you hanging out with? Because either they know about you two or they dont. If they know about you, there is an ass woopin in their future, and you need new friends.

QUOTE OF THE YEAR!!

Havok, you sir, deserve a prize!!

thanks D. I call them like i see them.

[joehernandez]

1) tell her you like her
2) do the dirty thangs
3) leave immediately after
4) ????
5) profit.

AWSOME!

ok. first. Dude, no chick is worth all this crap. Doesnt matter what your story is. You are having to fight way to hard for this girl and ask to many of the wrong questions.

Second. you guys are not dating. you have no say in her life. Period. You can wish all day long that people follow the same rules that you do but its not going to happen. so expect women to be cruel, even more so to someone that they know is crazy for them, doesnt matter if you have told them this or not, they smell it on you.

Third. What kinda friends are you hanging out with? Because either they know about you two or they dont. If they know about you, there is an ass woopin in their future, and you need new friends. If they dont, then your hiding this relationship from them, in which case you dont need to be messing with a chick that you have to hide your relationship from the world. (thats way wrong, coming from experience)

Fourth. If the girl really cared for you, then shes would be on yourside. She wouldnt want to dance with other guys. that is also black and white unless you have said other wise. If you have said that this type of thing doesnt bother you then they can dance with who ever they want because you said its ok and they are not braking any rules. You it does bother you and they know it, then Fcuk of to them, Black and white. Trust me man, If a chick cares for you, they wont do stupid sh!t like that. and after a year or COURTING, they should care for you like that by now, or not at all and they will always be like that.

Thats how i feel about it. To me, caring about someone is black and white, either you do or you dont. you think about that person before you do things. if she was thinking about you she wouldnt have done that. Period. Thats what you have to think about man. How much of your life do you want to put into something that is not coming back to you 100%. Are you happy with on 50%? are you enjoying playing this stupid game with this chick?

and Finally, you shouldnt have to ask a Forums worth of people what you should do. Caring about someone is not about getting permission, or finding other people to tell you you should care. Again, Black and White. If you have to ask, then its not meant to be.

Get away from her man and find someone that will care about you because you care about them.

damn!!!
best advice ever!!!
but you know,, sometimes you need advices before doing something,,,
but any ways,, i did what i did, she answered me back, if i dont see that 100% coming back, **** it,,,
i am leaving,
kinda tired of all the drama every now and then,
but thanks though, an excellent answer