Crazy Ex boyfriends, boy do i have a story for u Options

[SeverX13]

Ok so i went to the mall with this girl that ive been seein off and on for the past 3 months or so. After the mall we went to eat at dennys. i guess her ex boyfriend was at her house talkin to her mom. and this guys 19 shes 16 and im 17. this girl didnt wanna go home until he was gone from her house. so i went to her hosue after he left and dropped her off. i guess this guy was watchin me from a distance. next thing i know this jackass pulls up on my ass flashin his highbeams and really ridin my ass. this went on for a good 20 minutes. then he passed me and almost hit me. he stops adn i couldnt go around him. he starts backin up ( btw he drives this huge truck) so he come barellin towards me in reverse. i floored it in reverese as well. then he turns around in a driveway and drives towards me. i had no driveway to turn around in so i turned into somones yard. he pulls up and attempted to block me in. i see him get out of a car and walk toward mine. i was gonna get out and talk to him and see what was up thinkin i would be fighting him which i really wanna stay away from. and i se him pull out a knife. when i saw that i popped it into 1st and floored it outta the yard almost hitting him. i went straight to the poilice and i have to file a report out. it was a crazy experience. i dont want him comin aftwer me anymore haha.

[CelicaST_CALI]

celica powa!!!is this guy big??

[zero07]

Obviously crazy, watch your a**.

[SeverX13]

i guess he was in the army for a bit than got sent home from an injury i think. yea idk what he want to do to me. If there was no knife i probably wouldnt be as worried

[zero07]

You did the right thing. Are you serious about this girl, if not its not worth the hassle.

[SeverX13]

yea i really like her alot, but idk about havin an ex bf out to hurt/kill me.

[zero07]

O.K so you like her alot, do you like her enough to possibly die to be with her? Ask yourself that.

Been there done that, trust me not worth it.

This post has been edited by zero07: Oct 4, 2008 - 8:17 PM

[SeverX13]

basically im going to get a restraining order on him for me and my car

[stetsonaw]

wow, you have the worst luck with crazy dudes, dude... glad you're okl

[SeverX13]

wow, you have the worst luck with crazy dudes, dude... glad you're okl

hahaha i know man, 1st taco bell now this guy. I know my knife defense and stuff, i am a 2nd degree black belt. and i do MMA so i know how to fight. but im not gonna fight against a knife if i dont have to.

[monkey]

hahah i think its the dennys!
Dennys equals bad luck! just ask the people from houston who get theyre **** ****ed up there....... crazy people with cars lol

[Legit94GT]

Correct me if i am wrong here...

BUT since you are black belt doesnt that make you hands technically "regestered weapons" if it got brought up it an assualt/ self defense case?

Its good you went and filed the report cause if this guy comes after you again and you whoop his ass it will look more like self defensive since you ran the first time, thus protecting yourself from going to jail because of this A hole.

Girls are enough trouble as they are. Once you add it the family, friends and ex's, sometimes its not worth it. You just got see how you really feel about her, and decide if she is worth putting up with all that **** for.

just my .02

[808celica]

HAHahahaha this is why i have those huge open wrenchs on the side of my seat. the 6gc gets me into soo much trouble i guess our cars catches girls eyes better than a EG6

[lubu]

Same thing happened to me, not as bad though. I say if the girl is special then dont back down, it will worth it in the end.

[SeverX13]

Correct me if i am wrong here...

BUT since you are black belt doesnt that make you hands technically "regestered weapons" if it got brought up it an assualt/ self defense case?

Its good you went and filed the report cause if this guy comes after you again and you whoop his ass it will look more like self defensive since you ran the first time, thus protecting yourself from going to jail because of this A hole.

Girls are enough trouble as they are. Once you add it the family, friends and ex's, sometimes its not worth it. You just got see how you really feel about her, and decide if she is worth putting up with all that **** for.

just my .02

from what i know, only people who move to the US from other countries that are black belts are supposed to resgister their hands as lethal weapons. idk ill look into it. But im not gona go outta my way to fight this guy. if i scrap with him adn hes losing he mihgt pull the knife out again. so im gonna avoid him as much as possible. gettin my ass kicked, i dont care about, gettin stabbed i care about alot

[95CelicaST]

I wouldn't have moved my car anywhere. If homeboy wants to run my car over then that would be he his last mistake.

[TRD_Ian]

crazy ex's suck lol i was in a similar spot a few years ago.....cept i was the ex....i was out rollin around and my ex her friend and two goons were 45 minutes away from home in my home town...i imagine trying to run in to me...any who i get flaged down by me ex as i am tearing outa a local hang out almost running her over lol...she jumps in my car and gives me a sob story about this creepy guy she is with and she dont wanna go home with him...me being a nice guy i offer her a drive home...i take off and head towards her home.2 minutes after taking off i stop to look at my car as it was making a bad noise in the front end...i get up form under the car to watch a p.o.s ford half ton block me in so i cant leave...these two fellas hop out outa the truck along with her friend and the driver{ creepy guy after ex} grabs a 2x4 outa the back and they come towards me..these guys are small either....i am of hefty size tho myself and dont have a problem defending my self.....i had an idea this was gonna hurt but i told em to bring it on any ways...being stupid and acting off feelings i still had for her...any who buddy cant get over the fact i wanna fight em both and he starts towards me.....the ex's friend runs up and boots him in the knee and he drops the 2x4....i pick it up and threw it in the trees and told em once again to make a move but the 2 guys decide to take off for home after the girls b**ched em out..i flap my gums a bit to the ex saying im never stickin my neck out like that again...but it was worth it in the end for the 45 minute drive home ....chicks dig crazy red necks lol

[cjh4l22]

i keep a collapsible tire iron on the passenger floor for this exact reason. took a guys mirror off with it once. lol

[xs94st]

hmm. thankfully you were able to jet outta that situation man. sorta reminds me of this girl that is sorta diggin me at work. she doesn't want a relationship or anything like that but we work together all the time and she talks alot about her exes and how they did crazy **** back in the day and how she moved/changed number to get rid of one from arizona.

eep. glad you're alright brother

[gt_driFFter]

You sound like a person with their head on straight. You made the right call, nice job!

[easternpiro1]

works wonders. send that @$$hole into the next dimension if he messes with you again.

you made the right choice! i would have been under the jail by now probably...

[Random_Stranger]

Brent, it was right of you to get away. Most cases where a gun is pulled, it is to scare the other person. A knife is a different story. Someone pulls a knife, 9 times out of 10, it will be used. Good thing you filed the report and I am glad you are ok.

[D-Man]

Ok so i went to the mall with this girl that ive been seein off and on for the past 3 months or so. After the mall we went to eat at dennys. i guess her ex boyfriend was at her house talkin to her mom. and this guys 19 shes 16 and im 17. this girl didnt wanna go home until he was gone from her house. so i went to her hosue after he left and dropped her off. i guess this guy was watchin me from a distance. next thing i know this jackass pulls up on my ass flashin his highbeams and really ridin my ass. this went on for a good 20 minutes. then he passed me and almost hit me. he stops adn i couldnt go around him. he starts backin up ( btw he drives this huge truck) so he come barellin towards me in reverse. i floored it in reverese as well. then he turns around in a driveway and drives towards me. i had no driveway to turn around in so i turned into somones yard. he pulls up and attempted to block me in. i see him get out of a car and walk toward mine. i was gonna get out and talk to him and see what was up thinkin i would be fighting him which i really wanna stay away from. and i se him pull out a knife. when i saw that i popped it into 1st and floored it outta the yard almost hitting him. i went straight to the poilice and i have to file a report out. it was a crazy experience. i dont want him comin aftwer me anymore haha.

I've yet to read everything else yet, But FORGET THE GIRL!! i've been in the shoes of the crazy-ex. He obviously likes this chick ALOT MORE THAN YOU DO Go find another broad, She'll get fed up with his sh!t and beat the hell out of him eventually ( ), and he'll just kinda dissapear. Thats when you go back and hit it.

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hahah i think its the dennys!
Dennys equals bad luck! just ask the people from houston who get theyre **** ****ed up there....... crazy people with cars lol

Yeah, WTF is up with dennys and bad things happening?

works wonders. send that @$hole into the next dimension if he messes with you again.

you made the right choice! i would have been under the jail by now probably...

I'm from Texas. That's all i'll say. Well... Texas and of course I've got to reference the "2 Round Guarantee"

Brent, it was right of you to get away. Most cases where a gun is pulled, it is to scare the other person. A knife is a different story. Someone pulls a knife, 9 times out of 10, it will be used. Good thing you filed the report and I am glad you are ok.

And if he's carrying one; once, he'll probably have it on him the next time.

I've (as in PAST tense ) been infamous for carrying weapons in the car. But our law says that as long as we declare it as soon as we're pulled over than it's basically okay. (i've had some compliments on a pair of knuckles once )



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Brent, Bro, Bottom line is don't fcuk around with it if you don't gotta. You're right in NOT fighting if you dont have to. I feel ya, I really do. And some chick you barely know isn't a good enough cause to go arround getting stabbed. This dude is probably at a really down part of his life (we've all hit those) and he's a bit psycho, and not thinking clearly. Just stay clear of him; this chick; and anything else that you can for now. Dont go gettin stabed on us bro!!

This post has been edited by D-Man: Oct 6, 2008 - 8:19 AM

[Smaay]

just another reason i support the right to carry a gun, you could have shot him in self defense and ended the situation

[D-Man]

just another reason i support the right to carry a gun, you could have shot him in self defense and ended the situation

You still have to be responsible with guns. A round to the kneecap would have done.

[JonMarkos]

Ditch the bitch, but if you must stay with her then next time wait until he gets out of his car and run him over. You can always claim you were cornered in by his big truck and were fearing for your life with no other way out.

[zero07]

just another reason i support the right to carry a gun, you could have shot him in self defense and ended the situation

Dude Smaay, with a Supra like you drive id be rolling around with a gun too instead of a louisville for myself and my passenger in my Celica.

This post has been edited by zero07: Oct 6, 2008 - 12:44 PM

[SeverX13]

well i do have a knife in my car as well for certain reasons. I do love fighting but im not gonna fight with knives unless i must haha. I recently added a White oak bokken to the back seat of my celica haha. I named it lucile






this think is about 5x stronger than any basball bat

This post has been edited by SeverX13: Oct 6, 2008 - 1:56 PM

[D-Man]

I love those things. That's how i learned... well... that, mad amounts of some kind of substances and alcohol... and hours of beating the hell out of each other... had my leg bone cracked with one... lucky shot is what it was...

I collect katana's though... Ask anyone who's been to my place. lol.

[Galcobar]

just another reason i support the right to carry a gun, you could have shot him in self defense and ended the situation

And if ex-boyfriend is the first to pull the gun he's carrying?

[dustin15brown]

chuck up the deuces and walk away.... you're 17... plenty of others out there

[CaliJeff]

I wanna know what the police do about it!

[supershannon77]

hmm

Brent Impressive how you handled the situation..I hope this is the end of this guy and things work out.

I dont no maybe Jim and I were a lil young when we first started dating..I was 14 and he was 15...but its been working so I never believe that ur to young line people spit at me...but if you like her then you like her and if you are willing to maybe have to deal with guy again then all the power to you

[GriffGirl]

Personally I think you should avoid the drama and baggage, really, who needs that sh*t

[Random_Stranger]

I wanna know what the police do about it!

Honestly, police won't do $#!T unless it is at that moment. Bottom line is carry something that can protect you, but you cannot kill him (not me saying it, it's the law). That way there is a report filed, so when you are questioned, it is on paper you had a problem and they (the police) didn't do $#!T (because really, what can they do? Talk to the guy? C'mon). Maybe a restraining order. So keep a phone handy, carry a weapon (seen a nice 6" needle in a self defense magazine or something), and you would probably want to ditch the chick too. Because no ass is worth some wounds. She wouldn't take it for you, I don't care who you are.

[SeverX13]

Ok so tonight was the homecoming football game for my school. I went to show some support. we on 67-0 lol. but anyway, I was on my way back to my car and i see the "crazy ex" by my car. LEANING on it. i was about 20 yards away and asked wth he wanted. he pushed him self off my car and then spat on it. SPAT! on my car. and lately ive been on a short fuse. so it made me snap. cause this guy wasnt gonna stop doin **** wether i ahd police involved or not. but i started walkin towards him and he pulls out his knife again. i stoped adn called him a pu**y and a coward for pulling a knife out. told him to face me like a man. i had no where to go. adn no where to run. me and him where the only to peolpe in the lot at the time cause i left 10 minutes early to avoid traffic. he starts walking towards me at a fast pace and i was just preparing myself to defend a knife attack. I could tell he didnt know how to use a knife from the way he was holding it. but anyway hes lunged at me with the knife. he swung the knife with his right hadn over his left shoulder and across his body to try and slash me. i did like a foot ball juke backwards and when his arms opend up i ran toward him and grabed his wrist with the knife and put my arm on his one shoulder. i took my foot and swept it under his and took him to the ground. the knife dropped and i kicked it away. he got up fairly qucik adn tagged me with a shot to the ribs. he tryed throwin this massive haymakers at me adn i covered up with my arms to block. and he kept swingin left right left right. i timed it and tagged him in the nose with a jab. and then a straight. when i threw the right straight he stumbled back a bit like it definatly rocked him. but he ran towards me like he was gonna tackle me (he used to play football) and all i did was back up grab his head and drive my kneww into his face. hes dropped to the ground adn i saw blood comin from his nose. i straight up KO'd his ass. but anyway i wasnt gonna stick around so i got in my car and peaced out with him layin there. i looked in my mirror and i saw him gettin up so i know he wasnt dead. So yea. ive had soem crazy ass week. i hope it goes back to normal for next week.

[parriehunter]

Damn thats crazy

It sounds like you can handle yourself.

If that was me i would so be in hospital or 6 feet under.

Glad to hear you are alright.

I have to say it no girl should be worth that.

[Galcobar]

I'd also suggest putting in a police report, so that if he decides to try to use this incident against you he'll be trying to overcome an existing report and be on the defensive.

Just drop into your local police station, tell them you need to report an assault. It'll be your word against his, so the likelyhood of it going anywhere is small, but having the report on the record is greatly helpful if things get even stupider.

You might also want to call the girl and let her know you're reporting this. If she freaks over you reporting it, drop her. If she freaks over him being an idiot, consider keeping her.

[supershannon77]

Wow I am glad you didn't get hurt that's some scary stuff...yea I don't no if I would want you sticking around that girl...you don't no whats next...and it kinda doesn't say much for her to have date a guy like that in the past...unless he snapped after they broke up or he change for the worse and that's why she left him...just be careful.

[SeverX13]

yea im really just about to drop this girl. she was special to me i really liked her. but i dont wanna have to watch my back everywhere i go. and if i encounter him again i may not come out the victor. I saw her standing with him at the game. and i texted her and asked wtf she was around him. she said he flipped on her and she was afraid to leave. she needs to learn to stand up for herself. but i think im done with her. i just gotta think.

This post has been edited by SeverX13: Oct 11, 2008 - 11:15 AM

[D-Man]

yea im really just about to drop this girl... im done with her...

2 smartest things i think i've seen you post in a while. Too bad i had to take them out of context

[Daftboy]

yea ...its def not worth getting stabbed over...run for your life....~~

[Random_Stranger]

May I suggest a Mail Order Bride? Just kidding. You'll be fine to let it go and explore what the rest of your city, county, region, state, country, continent, and so on have to offer.

This post has been edited by Random_Stranger: Oct 12, 2008 - 7:35 AM

[808celica]

HAHah just come down to hawaii. chicks everywhere its like "da kine all you can eat bouffet"

[D-Man]

HAHah just come down to hawaii. chicks everywhere its like "da kine all you can eat bouffet"

I'M ON MY WAY!!

[DEATH]

She's playing you bro - seen that many many times. Regardless, she's not worth the effort no matter who she is. Drop her and keep you're eye out for him - he's already proven how much of a wuss he is by bringing a knife to confront an unarmed guy who already took the moral high road. You fcuked him up and now he's gonna be ready to kill for sure - but he'll do it sneaky like.
BTW - He brought a weapon onto school property - the police will take that very very seriously - they're all scared of another Columbine. You NEED to make a police report right now - regardless of what else you may have going on. If you don't your gonna end up taking some heat for this if it escalates. I'm very serious about this Sever. Stop fcuking around before you end up hurt, dead or in jail for rightfully defending yourself.

Right on bro

This post has been edited by DEATH: Oct 13, 2008 - 11:31 AM

[GriffGirl]

Death's got some extremely good points here.

[D-Man]

She's playing you bro - seen that many many times. Regardless, she's not worth the effort no matter who she is. Drop her and keep you're eye out for him - he's already proven how much of a wuss he is by bringing a knife to confront an unarmed guy who already took the moral high road. You fcuked him up and now he's gonna be ready to kill for sure - but he'll do it sneaky like.
BTW - He brought a weapon onto school property - the police will take that very very seriously - they're all scared of another Columbine. You NEED to make a police report right now - regardless of what else you may have going on. If you don't your gonna end up taking some heat for this if it escalates. I'm very serious about this Sever. Stop fcuking around before you end up hurt, dead or in jail for rightfully defending yourself.

No he didn't. This knife was drawn outside of school property. (sometime after having a Denny's Date w/ chick in question) The "Crazy Ex" followed sever waiting for an opportune moment. (atleast that's what i'm gathering from the OP)

However, You're absolutely right about filling a report on this, i never even though about it. (if i had a nickle for every time someone wanted me dead... ) but this can easily be a case of stalking, and is obviously something pre-meditated... and that's what'll stand up in court. Besides, if Sever and Crazy-Man are caught fighting in public (w/ a knife and a kendu stick ) they'd BOTH be punished, whereas with a previous complaint on Mr. Crazy-man, Sever'd pretty much get off scott free... Provided that he don't do anything stupid

Sever; it looks like you've got a corse of action to attend to. (do ya'll all goto the same school or anything BTW?)

[SeverX13]

Nah shes not playin. she done with him, she flipped the hell out on him the other night. its allg ood. i jsut gotta whatch my back for him. but the cops are gonna arrest him. than its time for a restraining order on him for me and my car.

[CelicaST_CALI]

HAHah just come down to hawaii. chicks everywhere its like "da kine all you can eat bouffet"

[DEATH]

She's playing you bro - seen that many many times. Regardless, she's not worth the effort no matter who she is. Drop her and keep you're eye out for him - he's already proven how much of a wuss he is by bringing a knife to confront an unarmed guy who already took the moral high road. You fcuked him up and now he's gonna be ready to kill for sure - but he'll do it sneaky like.
BTW - He brought a weapon onto school property - the police will take that very very seriously - they're all scared of another Columbine. You NEED to make a police report right now - regardless of what else you may have going on. If you don't your gonna end up taking some heat for this if it escalates. I'm very serious about this Sever. Stop fcuking around before you end up hurt, dead or in jail for rightfully defending yourself.

No he didn't. This knife was drawn outside of school property. (sometime after having a Denny's Date w/ chick in question) The "Crazy Ex" followed sever waiting for an opportune moment. (atleast that's what i'm gathering from the OP)

However, You're absolutely right about filling a report on this, i never even though about it. (if i had a nickle for every time someone wanted me dead... ) but this can easily be a case of stalking, and is obviously something pre-meditated... and that's what'll stand up in court. Besides, if Sever and Crazy-Man are caught fighting in public (w/ a knife and a kendu stick ) they'd BOTH be punished, whereas with a previous complaint on Mr. Crazy-man, Sever'd pretty much get off scott free... Provided that he don't do anything stupid

Sever; it looks like you've got a corse of action to attend to. (do ya'll all goto the same school or anything BTW?)

Read his latest lengthy post again - guy busted out with the knife again at a HS football game parking lot and Sever handed him his ass for it. He will do serious jailtime if Sever can only describe the knife and they catch him with it on his person or vehicle - trust me.
Sever - I assume by your last post tat you filed a police report? You don't have to press charges - that's your call but I'm warning you that if you didn't file a report you will catch some grief if this goes any farther.

[SeverX13]

They guy is 19. dropped outta the army due to a ankle injury. and hes acting very childish . i did file a police report. i have yet to hear from the 5-0

[D-Man]

Read his latest lengthy post again - guy busted out with the knife again at a HS football game parking lot and Sever handed him his ass for it. He will do serious jailtime if Sever can only describe the knife and they catch him with it on his person or vehicle

he pulls out his knife again.

Oh snap!! i totaly missed this post somehow

Yup; Weapon in a School Zone is BIG TROUBBLE!! And Death is absolutely right. Describe the crazy-dude, the knife, and the vehicle being driven... Get ol' girl involved for details (name, addr, ect.) they wont go chase him down, but let him get caught loittering and he'll be in serious sh!t... Plus if he bothers you again after that, hell be looking at a small "Time Out" That's the one advantage to being over 18... I'd know

[808celica]

HAHah just come down to hawaii. chicks everywhere its like "da kine all you can eat bouffet"

I'M ON MY WAY!!

HHAHAHAHAH but seriously bro......or anyone visiting hawaii. chicks are everywhere and they love our 6gcs

still childish though knife.......geeez was the guy filipino?? jks **side note im flip and yes i always have some form of a knife with me **
the 5-0 takes a ong time with these things.....

[jason]

lmao call me next time this happens so i can take pictures of what looks like him trying to kill you

they we both can beat on his loser ass lol

and btw... 19 dating a 10th grader??? can you say LOSER lol

next time he goes backing up to you, get out the cell phone video camera and let him hit you

then tell the guy after all the legal crap screws him over, that you're going to use the judgement money to take his ex out to a nice place on his dime lol - that will piss him off while he's gettin butt f*cked in prison

[zero07]

HAHah just come down to hawaii. chicks everywhere its like "da kine all you can eat bouffet"

Wait, arent like half the chicks in Hawaii actually dudes?

Nah shes not playin. she done with him, she flipped the hell out on him the other night. its allg ood. i jsut gotta whatch my back for him. but the cops are gonna arrest him. than its time for a restraining order on him for me and my car.

Now with the sh*it that went down id get a gun.... cuz its not over.

[lubu]

Nah shes not playin. she done with him, she flipped the hell out on him the other night. its allg ood. i jsut gotta whatch my back for him. but the cops are gonna arrest him. than its time for a restraining order on him for me and my car.

Sev man you gotta watch out for this guy, he WILL ambush you, again. His acting is childish and this is why you gotta watch out for guys like these, they don't think of the consequences, they just do whatever eases their anger. Do what Death says and watch your back.

I'm impressed that you guys are still together, it takes a real man to face/deal with his problems instead of running away.

[D-Man]

Or a lonely man... Sever, get you ass to a bigger city and chase some pie man... Believe me, bigg city's FTMFW due to the fact that there are more than 2 hot chicks in them

Man... Sever, come down to houston (or lets goto hawaii) and i'll help/teach you how to have meaningless (yet enjoyable) relations while NOT getting stabbed over it

[CelicaST_CALI]

o i hope i can get tickets to watch that...

[D-Man]

Seriously... By the time we get done at the club, it's gonna look like someone accidentally a coke bottle. Like the whole thing LOL.

[SeverX13]

lol ive had my fair share of women, i mean come on i live in a college town but this one is special haha

[Consynx]

wow...not reading all of this.
guy sounds like Cpt. Douche...have fun w/ the 19yr old in his Big Ol BA Truck hittin on BA high schoolers.

[eggman40]

i had a knife put to my throat. i had a small kickback and some chicks phsyco boyfriend dropped by PISSED off cuse the girl told him she was sleeping... when i went up to see what all the yelling was about he put the knife to my neck and said to leave them alone... i had just played about 7 games of beer pong and had 4 shots of some other **** so i could barely keep my balance, let alone fight... i let it go, for now.....


crazy people out there man, gotta be careful

but its cool with me, they ALWAYS get what they got commin, i make sure of that

This post has been edited by eggman40: Oct 23, 2008 - 12:26 AM