Distributor O-ring lubricant? Options

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1994 Celica ST, 1.8L, Manual

Rebuilding the engine after 300,000 miles and an overheat incident. Need information that isn't in the BGB.

Trying to reassemble the IIA (distributor) into/on a 'remanufactured' head. The part of the assembly that goes into the head goes through a largish circular hole, and there is a large O-ring (distributor O-ring?) riding in a square cross-section groove cut into the IIA that supposedly seals the hole so oil does not escape from the head.

Some places I have read that the O-ring should be 'lubricated', but there is nothing about that in the Repair Manual (the big Green books). I had an unpleasant experience when I rebuilt the disk brakes a couple of years ago. Because of the 'lubricant' I used on the slider pins, the rubber ring absorbed something from the grease and made it swell such that the pins stopped sliding. Am I about to do something stupid again if I 'lubricate' this O-ring? And, what 'lubricant' or grease should be used to make that O-ring create a proper seal?

TIA

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Does seem a little thinner than it should but it could be fine, I'd soak it in oil so it'll go ahead and do any swelling then you can wipe it off and apply silicone grease before installing.