Why are guys only out to get some? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Every guy i meet (usually between the ages of 19-23) basically wants to in the near future hook up or nothing at all. And the nice guys i do meet that are looking to possibly start something serious are usually someone that im not attracted to (either phsyically or some other reason)

I dont understand - Obviously you can sit here and say im meeting the wrong kind of guys - yeah i probably should stop meeting them around cars :-P
but even if i meet them otherwise ---its like they wont even stay as a friend they just wanna hook up and be done.

I dont know but im tired of it - 80 percent of guys between 19-23 seem to be all the same!!

WHERES THE 20 PERCENT I HAVENT MET??? haha


Natalie

[Yota]

Being shy sucks.. I'm every bit the most shy person even I've ever met!

But I think you may be right about sounding a little bit shallow, where the guys must have a certain color hair and eyes, can't be too buff, only would ever go to a computer store to buy blank cd's, must be mechanically inclined and so on.

I think that true happiness and the right person for you will come when you can let go of the physical standards one must meet in order to date you. Difference makes the world go round, so why not try broadening your view a little bit and finding someone whose life may be diffferent from yours, but still able to have a connection somewhere? I think thats what the guy who will make you happy will do for you. He might not know a thing about Celicas, or even cars for that matter, but if he's interested in you, chances are he'd be interested in learning a bit about your hobbies.