Girl Aint nothin' but problems, Chronicals of a Casanova Options

[acenova]

Alright, so as I posted during the summer, I'm in love w/ my best friend who is in Spain for the first term of school. Confessed my love to her in Barcelona the night before I left, and had you asked me about a month ago, I'd have told you I am ready for a relationship that could last forever w/ this girl RIGHT NOW. Now, my feelings for her haven't changed, but as far as how ready for the relationship I am, that has changed. Just recently I started hanging out w/ this girl that I met and you know, it's cutesy kissy cuddly and sheist, but my Friend comes back on Sunday... I have no idea what she's thinking and she never said that she wanted to be with me when she came back. We've just had a series of talks in the past about getting together, but we never actually hooked up. So now I have no idea what's gonna happen when she comes back, and I have to make a decision because I don't wanna upset the girl I've been kickin' it with lately because she's cool as all hell, not to mention she's a good friend of my roomy's girlfriend. At the same time, can I really turn down the one girl I've been in love with for quite sometime if she wants to take it to that level? Not to mention she's my best friend and means everything to me... I know I want to end up w/ her in the end, but I just don't know about now! I'm only 20, too many things race through my mind, but I don't know if I'm ready for the level of relationship that would be brought on by my friend coming back. All my friends here, even the one in our tight circle of friends that includes my friend in Spain, says just date this girl for a while and put my friend on hold. I don't know if I can do that! Any of you have this situation before?!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I'm just agreeing w/ the title.  But in your case your head is the problem(nothing against you, i know those mind games suck) and girls really aint messing you up.
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Haha, yea, I Know my mind is killing me. I've had nothing but relationships, so this whole dating but keeping your single status is hard for me right now because everytime I think about how to bring up "the talk" w/ either one, it sounds too much like I'm considering either of them my girlfriend, and neither of them are, so it's just like...wtf???
But the title was simply to imply that girls just be causin' problems in life, whether they know it or not, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

AMy, haha, you and me can just go out and I'll leave the tough life behind! You can be my Boo
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I wish i had ur problem ace- ive had nothing but hte flings and its getting hard to sit here and just keep dating while still being considered single!!

but if u ever wanna know how to be a playa ;-) let me know!

hehe - ive hung on guys before cuz a guy was asking for my number and then i call the 1st guy back and say oh sorry my phone cut out - I got some skills ;-)


Natalie

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 2, 2004 - 3:47 PM