was i wrong for saying it??? Options

[macavely]

ok here is what happened.. i have this one female friend i'm mad cool with .. we talk about any and everything... .. then one day we were talking and she asked me what was it about her that did make ther the girl of my dreams.... Now me and her have this thing where we tell each other the truth no matter how much it hurts the other one..... So when she asked me this question I really didn't want to answer it cause .. the answer was a shallow one... and i told her this.. but she wanted to know anyway.... so i told her.. I said .. she would be the perfect girl for me if she had the body type i liked.. she got really quite and did say anything for a while.. i knew that i hurt her really bad.. she said that she is glade that i told her .. this was a few weeks ago.. but i still feel bad that i did... cause she is they kinda girl that is cool about everything.. but i didn't want to hurt like that....

so my question is would you guys have done the same thing.. or lied and said something else??

[Mynzeyes]

mac has feelings for a female? mac cares what he says? omg...mac...i thought you were the P.I.M.P.??? you're breaking the first rule of pimp-itude. you should not love them hoes. heh.

anyway, seriously, you say you 2 tell the truth to each other, so, why shouldn't you have? it's better than you lying and her thinking that she is your goddess, when she's clearly not. just let her cool off about it, because like you said, you are both very understanding people. if you feel the need, just appologize to her, and tell her you tried not to say it, because you knew it would hurt, but she pushed you on, so in a way, she brought it on herself to be hurt. you tried to save it, but she didn't let you. .

-John-