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 Dec 6, 2004 - 4:10 AM
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ok here is what happened.. i have this one female friend i'm mad cool with .. we talk about any and everything... .. then one day we were talking and she asked me what was it about her that did make ther the girl of my dreams.... Now me and her have this thing where we tell each other the truth no matter how much it hurts the other one..... So when she asked me this question I really didn't want to answer it cause .. the answer was a shallow one... and i told her this.. but she wanted to know anyway.... so i told her.. I said .. she would be the perfect girl for me if she had the body type i liked.. she got really quite and did say anything for a while.. i knew that i hurt her really bad.. she said that she is glade that i told her .. this was a few weeks ago.. but i still feel bad that i did... cause she is they kinda girl that is cool about everything.. but i didn't want to hurt like that....
so my question is would you guys have done the same thing.. or lied and said something else?? -------------------- |
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Dec 6, 2004 - 11:52 PM
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She wanted the truth & he gave it to her....he didnt do anything wrong!
If I was in macavely's same situation...& I didnt like the guys body type then I dont think I could bring myself to say that. I would still tell him the truth which is...."Im just not into you like that." Which is still the truth! But at least now he can walk away w/ his head up & try to find a GF w/ out feeling like he is too ugly to get one. Anyway you guys....we still dunno what her body type is! Maybe she is too SKINNY for his taste. Why do we assume she is fat  hehe
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macavely was i wrong for saying it??? Dec 6, 2004 - 4:10 AM
jojobombiest Thats tough... I probably woulda used my method an... Dec 6, 2004 - 4:33 AM saleeka if you really care about somebody you dont bullsh*... Dec 6, 2004 - 4:48 AM ghostdog honesty is good, but most people can't take it... Dec 6, 2004 - 5:16 AM Jen You did the right thing.. and sometimes the truth ... Dec 6, 2004 - 7:00 AM
Uppitycracker QUOTE(Jen @ Dec 6, 2004 - 5:00 AM)You did the... Dec 7, 2004 - 3:05 AM Bigmeanbulldog55 It doesn't make much sence to me. Is she over... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:09 AM Supersprynt Why did it hurt her in the first place? Dec 6, 2004 - 8:11 AM macavely well i'm not going to get into details about h... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:32 AM dustin15brown Wow that'sa touchy subject, but if you have th... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:32 AM macavely QUOTE(dustin15brown @ Dec 6, 2004 - 8:32 AM)W... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:42 AM Supersprynt Has she been acting any different? Maybe she likes... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:43 AM macavely QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Dec 6, 2004 - 8:43 AM)Has... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:47 AM Supersprynt Ohhhhhh damn she asked you THAT and you said THAT?... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:52 AM macavely QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Dec 6, 2004 - 8:52 AM)Ohh... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:57 AM Ale_lock Macavely's GANGSTA! Somethings you just w... Dec 6, 2004 - 9:09 AM macavely QUOTE(Ale_lock @ Dec 6, 2004 - 9:09 AM)Macave... Dec 6, 2004 - 9:19 AM Supersprynt Yeah it sucks that thats the case but if you cant ... Dec 6, 2004 - 9:18 AM lagos bad move Mac. never tell a girl she is fat or not ... Dec 6, 2004 - 10:09 AM macavely QUOTE(lagos @ Dec 6, 2004 - 10:09 AM)bad move... Dec 6, 2004 - 10:59 AM Consynx or "I'm not ready for a relationship with... Dec 6, 2004 - 10:23 AM forkee "what do you want?"
"i want the tr... Dec 6, 2004 - 10:29 AM Mynzeyes mac has feelings for a female? mac cares what he s... Dec 6, 2004 - 11:29 AM macavely QUOTE(Mynzeyes @ Dec 6, 2004 - 11:29 AM)mac h... Dec 6, 2004 - 11:44 AM chucho yeah crappy situation. But I'm gonna be hones... Dec 6, 2004 - 11:47 AM jgreening There are ways to answer that question which are b... Dec 6, 2004 - 2:40 PM BlackCelicaGT94 If shes seen the girls uve dated and she doesnt lo... Dec 6, 2004 - 6:02 PM funnyboy117 I'd say you did the right thing, but of course... Dec 6, 2004 - 6:27 PM Ale_lock Aim: Why we don't ask for the truth.
Lesson: ... Dec 6, 2004 - 7:24 PM Ricky Dude you are such an idiot.
How could you say s... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:21 PM jgreening I dont agree with the peeps that advise to say som... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:39 PM BlackCelicaGT94 Also---- what if u cause a eating disorder now?? W... Dec 6, 2004 - 8:39 PM macavely i know it hurt her... but she tells me she is over... Dec 6, 2004 - 9:00 PM Yota Women are sensitive creatures... Look at how long... Dec 7, 2004 - 2:44 AM macavely O M G>. people .... some of you totally missed ... Dec 7, 2004 - 2:56 AM creis Its a dificult situation, she asked you what maid ... Dec 7, 2004 - 4:33 AM |
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