What To Do?, About this girl I met... Options

[Coomer]

Last weekend I went up to the Seattle area for my friend Sandra's boyfriend's cousin's 21st birthday party. It was kinda boring for a little bit because I'm really shy and I only knew my friend and her boyfriend. This girl at the party introduced herself to me and we ended up talking for a while at the restaurant, and we talked for a while more when we made it back to the house where everyone was staying. Most everyone was drinking except us, and eventually around 3AM she told me she was tired and told me to come upstairs and I could be her bed buddy. So we went upstairs, laid in bed(fully clothed), talked for a while, then eventually we fell asleep with her in my arms. We didn't kiss or anything, but I think we kinda clicked with each other.

The next morning she woke up and hopped in the shower because she had to go to work, and before I was able to talk to her again Sandra and I left to go back to Yakima...so I don't have her phone number or anything.

But, it turned out that she is one of Sandra's boyfriend's cousins. She's 21, into cars, she's funny, nice, really pretty, skinny, blonde, etc. And she is only living in Seattle temporarily...she used to live in Yakima, moved up there a few weeks ago, but is moving back to Yakima soon(within a couple months.)

I really like her, and I want to hang out with her some more and see if things could work out between us. I'm thinking about seeing if Sandra's boyfriend can convince her to come to Yakima to hang out, or maybe see if somehow I could go to Seattle with Sandra's boyfriend or something to hang out with her. It sucks not having her number. What do you guys think I should do?

[madmods]

Alright Coomer....Heres the Bible......Women 101 by madmods:

Ok Coomer,
I’m going to preach. Unfortunately I shouldn’t be giving out guy secrets because I know Amy, Jen, Sabrina, and Natalie (if I left any females out sorry) read these post, and we don’t want them to learn our secrets.
All right, treating a girl bad has nothing to do with physical abuse or anything like that. If your man is hitting you ladies, then you need to drop that loser. It’s all about psychology and the universal rule. Always be a challenge. It works both ways. Ever have a hot girl after you, and she’s hooked, and calls every couple of hours and does everything for you, and invades your space all the time? It gets old after a while right? Well she’s no longer a challenge to you, so you start looking for someone else. As cold as that sounds, it’s so true. It works both ways.

Have you ever been set up on a blind date, and the person wasn’t all that? You kind of get an altitude. You don’t show it, but the other person can read that you’re disappointed in your face. That’s the secret. Think about, if your blind date was a knockout, you would be bending over backwards for her. That’s being the nice guy. They will run all over you if there scandalous (money, favors, etc). Now get this same girl and treat her like you’re not interested, and she’s on you like grease on porkchops. You have to let her know you’re not too interested in her by your lack of actions. Kiss her butt, and your just another guy that wants her. Act like, oh well theres other girls out there…..that works!

You must be a challenge to them, and most important remain a challenge to them. If your home alone all
weekend, don’t call them and let them know that! The worse thing you can do is call a women all the time when you’re getting to know her. Stay busy, if your not busy, let her assume your busy. Don’t call her and say your thinking of her all the time. I’m not saying don’t show her any positive emotions, because there is a time for that, but at first hold your ground. Once you are no longer a challenge you’re a goner. That’s the most important thing to remember here Coomer. Be a challenge

Ever been at work and theirs 2 girls, ones a knockout and the other one is so and so. Ever notice how it’s easier to strike and hold a conversation with the one that’s so and so? Why? That’s how you got to treat the one you want. The guy that’s not paying her attention is the guy she wants. Don’t make yourself available to her all the time. Example: “Coomer, what are you doing this weekend?” she asks. You reply, nothing just chilling. Might work on my car…..Proper answer is going out with a friend on Friday (don’t say guy or girl, keep her guessing) and Saturday got invited to some cool party. Even if your staying home! Its not a lie, but just your strategy to get the girl you want.

Once your dating her, don’t kiss her butt all the time. If she ask you if she looks fat in that outfit, and she does, say so. Don’t always be nice. Compliment her on her hair and at the same time say, your going to wear that??? Its weird but sometimes when you’re a dick thats when they want you. It’s a universal rule, It just works out that way. So in a nutshell don’t overdo it, you got to be nice too, but too nice and you will lose out. Be a gentlemen and a dick. Sorry to all you guys for giving our secrets out, just trying to help out a brother.