my depressing woman story, making it brief so i dont bore people Options

[celicarocker]

i was dating this girl for awhile in a serious relationship. i loved her she loved me (said she did at least). so alls well. we get into a fight a week ago, cuz she wanted to be friends with this guy joe, who she had been seeing before we dated. i said it would upset me, a fight pursued. it ended with her saying she didnt want to be friends with him if it upset me. she wanted to be alone the next day, so i was like 'aight.

next evening i call her, she sends me a text message saying we should break up. finally get her on the phone, she says she doesnt want a serious relationship, and blah blah blah. so the day after that, she admits she was at joes house and spent the night in his bed. they didnt do anything, but still upset me. so she says she doesnt know what to do.

in a day she realizes she does want to be with me. comes over telling me how much she loves me and wants to be with me and is happy with me and how im her other half and how i complete her, all this blah blah blah. so were fine for 4 days, all the time her telling me stuff like that. last night we get into an argument while drunk, she goes outside to her car. i go get her keys so she cant leave, she stays outside. go back outside to check on her later shes gone.

talk to her today she was at joes house. shes already kissing him and holding his hand and stuff (she admits to it) and ready to date him. saying how he is her "dream guy". this is less than 24 hours after she says how much she loves me. less than a day after breaking up with me, she already has another boyfriend.

i loved her, and couldnt even begin to look at another girl. and she does this to me. the weird thing is, when we got together she told me "dont tell me you love me then break up with me saying you were wrong and you dont" which is the same thing she did to me. girls are wack.

kthxbye

[nitemare]

been cheated on twice..first time, her co-worker was driving her home from work "just to be nice.". I didnt mind cause it saved me the extra trip.. But...looked out the window to our apartment and saw her head attached to his..She walked in, and i said what the hell was that. She said : I just dropped my purse...Next day, all her crap was on the front lawn..I kicked her out immediately.
Next serious relationship was with a girl who had a 3 year old baby with someone else. Baby never met his dad ever. We dated for 4 years..Then all of the sudden the dad came into the picture for the first time..Then all of the sudden her next door neighbors saw my girlfriend and the babys dad hugging together in the public pool.
Relationship ended shortly after. She got back with babys dad..Then she called me back asking for forgiveness-i said NO..

This relationship on in now--im engaged..Never believed I would get marrried. This woman (no kids)--never will I date a girl with a kid-is perfect...The difference between her and all the others I dated is between night and day.

So, I guess you have to play the field awhile and weed out the bad ones. I believe the majority of women out there have issues, are liers, and cheaters..But there are a few that are good. So..have patience and keep on looking if one of those girls do u bad...Unfortanetly, is seems liek the bad ones are the norms these days..