Relationship stuff, What's wrong...What's right? Options

[spunky393]

Basically, i have a girlfriend that i've had for over 2 years. We pratically live with eachother, friends with benefits, love this, love that. And it's good, and it's possible marriage. I have another girl that is like raw love, raw feelings, that girl that you could spend 5 hours with, on a couch, no t.v., no radio, nothing, and only hear the words "i love you" and "i love you too" once or twice, and just pure silence. Smiles cutting the air like hot razor blades to butter. Anybody else in this type of pickle? and what do you think of it. Please be honest, people have relationships like these, and it's not obvious, just share

[acenova]

no one here can tell you which way to go. You have to decide that one for yourself. I can tell you one thing though, you'll definitely have to make a decision, because if you really loved them, you wouldn't hurt them, and to hurt them, would be the worst feeling in the world to you. To dissapoint, to live w/ knowing it, would be something you regret everytime you think about it. Don't know how old you are, but if you're young, then be young and have fun and if its meant to be, it will be. But sometimes w/ raw love, if you haven't known this girl for long, nor have you experienced what shes like as much or what her life is like, then you may find out some things that would make you regret choosing her. W/ your current girl, there's a sense of security, you know her in and out, and she knows you. You're probably to the point where you can predict eachother and finish eachother's sentences. This is your comfort zone. THe other girl would be stepping outside of the comfort zone. I guess what it comes down to is how well you can handle being out of your comfort zone, because being w/ someone for 2 yrs when you're young can be exhausting and get old or boring and you wanna look for something/someone new. Just gotta ask yourself if its worth it. God can help show you the way, but in the mean time, here's my advice.