Do u let their looks....... ? Options

[macavely]

Do you let a persons looks affect the way you react to the things that they do ?


I'm asking cause i just realized today that i do this when it comes to females.. I went to Dunken Dounts to get a Mango Coolata ... so i'm waitting inline and the super fine gilr is working there today ... so shes the one that takes my order... and ask her for a Mango Coolata.. and stair hard at her as shes asking me if i want anything else .. So a look at the o so fine body as she makes my drink ...and this girl has the wiggle she does when shes pouring the drinks.. i didn't notice she was making what i didn't ask for.... then when she hands it to me i'm looking deep into her eyes and put the straw in the dink take a sip as i hand her the 20 ... then is hits me.. and i tell her this isn't what i orderd .. the guy next to her gives her the dirties look in the world... and i look at her then the drink ... and as shes saying thats the coolata u asked for...and she bites her bottom lip ...i give her the LL .... and say ok.. and walk out.... after the guy next to her hands me my change...

[darksecret]

If I don't plan on dating them I let them know prior to anything, if they stay they stay, i'm blunt so i'll let a girl know what I feel. I got busted one time lying, I played a girl for two weeks and it wasn't worth it when I got caught. They knew I screwed up and felt bad so they forgave me, i'm to old to get in the player game anyway, i'll leave it to the guys that have been practicing since they were 12, lol. Another thing is don't be arogant, if you go in with an ego, you'll most likely get shot down, go in a few more times until she can tell you'll be a regular and after 3-4 times order something you have to wait on and start a conversation up, ask a few questions (not what's your name if she has a name tag or HOW U DOIN) or make a comment/complement if she responds with more than one word you broke the ice. If you fail to break the ice then leave and try again later, if you do break the ice don't directly jump into asking her out just talk, eventually she'll trust you a little better and then you can indirectly find out if she's single. These are the first few steps into a girls pan...I mean heart, j/k.