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[coustoe]

I've been seeing this girl for a while now (about 4 months now) shes great, and personality wise I'm happy. The only problem is the way she dresses.... Ya I know most of you are going to say it shouldnt matter but this is different, she wears clothing thats way to tight, shes not the skinniest girl, and no she isnt a huge whale, plus the clothes she wears are kinda flashy like club wear. Clothes that exposes teh midriff and show lots of cleavage, well you can guess what happens at the midriff, stuff bulges and hangs out. I don't really care that shes has a bit around the middle, but im bewildered why she wears these clothes that make her look so fat.

I've tried to drop hints to her, but she doesnt seem to be notice. How do you tell someone without being mean that maybe they should wear clothes that fit?

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Difficult situation, its embarrassing to have someone tell you you are inappropriately dressed, I was "in charge" of the music at the confirmations this year, it was me and 5 younger girls and I had to sit down and talk to them about what they could and could not wear, i had one girl show up in a mini skirt. I mean I don't understand how people can think something like a short skirt in church is appropriate.