Problem, what would you do? Options

[coustoe]

I've been seeing this girl for a while now (about 4 months now) shes great, and personality wise I'm happy. The only problem is the way she dresses.... Ya I know most of you are going to say it shouldnt matter but this is different, she wears clothing thats way to tight, shes not the skinniest girl, and no she isnt a huge whale, plus the clothes she wears are kinda flashy like club wear. Clothes that exposes teh midriff and show lots of cleavage, well you can guess what happens at the midriff, stuff bulges and hangs out. I don't really care that shes has a bit around the middle, but im bewildered why she wears these clothes that make her look so fat.

I've tried to drop hints to her, but she doesnt seem to be notice. How do you tell someone without being mean that maybe they should wear clothes that fit?

[creis]

I really dont know anything to say that would help you out, just tread very carefully, and get to know how she reacts to things so you can find the best way to tell her (or not tell her,) watch movies toghether that have events in them that can in some way relate to your current situation, then see what she says about them, basicly try and get her to say "being hounist is always best" or "people should keep the opinons to them selfs if they know its hurtful" that way you can let her decide how you go about this issue without her knowing it.

I guess If I was going out with someone who though I was wearing cloase that did not suit me, or if they felt I needed to lose waigh I would want them to be nice about it, but tell me, I think as long as they are being respactful and nice I would not take it badly.