I need advice., -sigh- Options

[Jen]

I really need advice, and would appreciate that whomever has something against me to refrain from commenting unless you have real advice that pertains to my situation.

I will put this very vaguely. I found out my boyfriend lied to me. No, he didn't cheat, but he lied.. and it was indeed a very big lie.

Should I just confront him? Or should I ask him more questions to bury him deeper into his hole of lies?

[madmods]

Its time to move on. The phrase don't tell my girlfriend, leads to other events in the future. My 2 cents Jen

[Mynzeyes]

Its time to move on. The phrase don't tell my girlfriend, leads to other events in the future. My 2 cents Jen
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i'm w/ madmods. "don't tell my girlfriend" is the shadiest of shade. you know you shouldn't forgive him, because he's hurt you so much before, but i have a feeling you're going to anyway. i don't know if you value my opinion at all anymore, but this is it. you need to get over your fear of being alone jennifer, and not settle for that shiney nickel.

i told you that you can do better, and deep down you know you can. that's all i'm going to say. you know i'm not trying to swing things my way anymore, because i'm passed that. i'm just trying to help you be happy. you KNOW what you need to do, it's just a matter of doing it jennifer.

if he's lying and hurting you so much now, it's not going to stop. especially if he has already used the phrase "don't tell my girlfriend". you know that's not right, and you know you shouldn't put up with it.

i say all that, knowing you're probably going to forgive him. oh well. goodluck either way.

-John-