what to do?? abot girls Options

[Digndoug]

Ok so i have been single for well way to long, maybe a year an half. i havnt been to into dating , jst trying to get my life back together. So my good friend has a party last night, and one of his friends from hs, now just grad college and is back for the summer came out and brought her sister. all i can say is wow! shes beautiful and smart and seems to be into the same things as me. the great thing was she kept wanting to talk to me .. so we talked the whole night, wel until she left at 12:30 or so, cause she had to work, but she wanted to know when the next day i had off, an said we should do somthing. she dosnt have a cell phone, an ence i know her sister some what id just call her housephone, she gave me her s/n too. Im going nutts just thinking about her, and I dont even reallyknow her that well. I think its just hard for me to find a girl that i can talk to that im atracted to ANDis atracted to me. Its nutts an i dont know what to do.

Oh also the ****y thing is, shegoes to school in PA so she is only here for the summer..

how should i ask her out? say lets hang out, take her out on my skiff (my power boat isnt working yet.. lol ) or take her out on a date or to the movies?? Im so out of this stuff.. oh Also im 20 21 in dec.. an shes 19- 20 in nov..

Any input would help.. thanks

[ArizonaRed]

what are you looking for? a fling or a steady relationship? tell her what you want your relationship to be with her. if chemistry is there she will make it clear that she wants you to kiss her or touch her. my last date was not even really a date, i just knew this girl and went out as friends. i picked her up and we went out to dinner and talked about things, stayed there for a long time. then we went and saw a late movie. it was cold in the theater and i saw her glancing at me and watching me from the corner of her eye. we cuddled during the movie- that was it. drove her home, walked her in, checked out her place, walked to the door, hugged her -and both of us had hesitation and we were face to face -and kissed. very long, long time. I hate the girls that play around. i like agressive ones. dont overthink stuff. whenever id do that the girl would either retreat or make a move herself. you are putting too much pressure on yourself, jus chill and be yourself. get physical and it can easily lead to a kiss. put your arm around her or offer your hand when she gets out of the car, anything to make contact. if it comes down to it just be blunt and say i want to kiss you.