Even worse than meeting the parents, ...the gay uncle Options

[orvillescelica]

So tonight im going to meet my gf's gay uncle and his partner for the first time. Ive been told hes very rich (hes a doctor, cancer specilist), very pretentious, and very judgemental. Despite these things, my gf loves her uncle very much and i want to make a good impression. Im fine with parents, even the most judgemental ones. But this is the first time ive had to deal with a gay uncle. Any advice? anyone ever have a similar experience?

[saleeka]

I guess im missing the point of whats so scary about this situation why is it that most straight men assume that if someone is gay, he automatically wants to f*uck you... All I have to say to that one boys is I wouldent touch 90% of you with a 10 foot pole. Funny how you mention that the uncle is pretentious Orville, seems like your more worried about what her uncle will think of you, so just be who you are- if he's truely judgemental, you kissing butt isnt going to change that. And avoid calling her uncle and his husband by their last names- I'd see it as a total insult seeing as they dont share the last name. Assume nothing, and dont ask dumb questions about their relationship- all you need to know is that they are each other's husband in their eyes. Good luck- it should be a breeze