Aug 13, 2005 - 8:08 PM
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Bored in a relationship?? Ive been with my girl friend on n off for 4 years, and together for 7 n a half months this time. I dunno why but at times im gettin kinda bored. We dont really do to much any more, we see eachother like every day (she lives 4 blocks away) and i dunno. I feel like i want more, like maybe i want a fresh start. Any one else ever felt like this?/how did u deal with it?
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Aug 13, 2005 - 8:35 PM
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Well, your profile says your 18, so if you've seriously been together with your GF on and off since you were 14, I'd say it might be time to move on. In general, college and especially high-school relationships are just for experimenting and finding out what you're looking for in your future wife/husband. So just ask yourself one question. Do you think you will be happy together in two years? In ten? If so, then you're luckier than most of the population, and what you're feeling now is just a temporary feeling of needing some space for a while. It's a guy thing. It'll pass in a few months. If you really can't see yourself being happy together in the future, then at this point you're just wasting your time, and the longer you hold on, the more you'll hurt her when you break it off. Just make sure to look at the big picture, and not just your feelings at the moment.
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Valo666 do you ever feel.... Aug 13, 2005 - 8:08 PM
Valo666 I guess ur right. My last relationship lasted 8 mo... Aug 13, 2005 - 8:53 PM
StreetRacing10PSI i felt the same way. my g/f lived 2 blocks from me... Aug 13, 2005 - 9:16 PM
tin_foil QUOTE(StreetRacing10PSI @ Aug 13, 2005 - 9:16... Aug 13, 2005 - 9:24 PM
CelicaBuddy QUOTE(StreetRacing10PSI @ Aug 13, 2005 - 6:16... Aug 14, 2005 - 12:34 PM
Valo666 double post Aug 13, 2005 - 9:19 PM
Valo666 lol..odd..my gf says the same..i tell her her spen... Aug 13, 2005 - 9:19 PM
Valo666 tripple post..crap..im tired.. Aug 13, 2005 - 9:21 PM
Valo666 its amazing..my gf gets pissed off at me if i told... Aug 13, 2005 - 9:32 PM
CoSo Boredom is a killer in a relationship. Try somethi... Aug 13, 2005 - 10:25 PM
Valo666 tryed..didnt work..when i would plan somethin she ... Aug 13, 2005 - 10:34 PM
forkee break out of the routine hanging out. tell her ur ... Aug 13, 2005 - 11:54 PM
CoSo QUOTE(forkee @ Aug 14, 2005 - 12:54 PM)break ... Aug 14, 2005 - 12:05 AM
dustin15brown How bout more pics of ur ex? lol jp... so then ... Aug 14, 2005 - 2:55 PM
Valo666 QUOTE(forkee @ Aug 13, 2005 - 11:54 PM)break ... Aug 14, 2005 - 7:17 PM
Valo666 so i find out my ex is now single again..her bf du... Aug 15, 2005 - 11:03 PM
celicagurl152003 QUOTE(Valo666 @ Aug 16, 2005 - 4:03 AM)so i f... Aug 16, 2005 - 1:49 AM
saleeka ehh, being that young, boredom is going to be a GI... Aug 15, 2005 - 11:09 PM![]() ![]() |
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