do you ever feel.... Options

[Valo666]

Bored in a relationship?? Ive been with my girl friend on n off for 4 years, and together for 7 n a half months this time. I dunno why but at times im gettin kinda bored. We dont really do to much any more, we see eachother like every day (she lives 4 blocks away) and i dunno. I feel like i want more, like maybe i want a fresh start. Any one else ever felt like this?/how did u deal with it?

[Valo666]

break out of the routine hanging out. tell her ur going to take her out somewhere formal for the evening, if she asks where say its a surprise. u both dress up really fancy (think prom or winter formal), you get her a ring, or a necklace to wear, or both but dont give it to her until dinnertime. pick her up in ur freshly waxed celi, play brian mcknight in the car. walk up to her door, give her some flowers, but pick something different than roses. open all the doors for her. drive her to a place special to both of u when u first met but havent gone to for awhile. get dinner reservations at a place where u need to get them 4 days before at a place where they dont put the prices of the food on the menu. walk around afterwards in a place where theres alot of people that are dressed in regular jeans and shirts so everyone can see you two stick out. dont hold her hand but entwine ur arms. watch a movie afterwards then gaze at the stars.

dates like that really show how much she means to you, especially if its for no particular reason (anniversary, dances, bdays)

if that doesnt spark anything then damn, that really sucks, lol
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good idea and all..only a few problems..umm...1 im broke off my ass(havent been working for 2 months), 2 i gave her a ring 2 months ago(roughly), 3 im a damn picky eater and 4. we watch movies all the time..any ways..do dustin..dunno what im gonna du..i think im gonna hold out for a bit..wait till i see how things go..and if things dont go good, end it mid sept...