Girls messing with my head again.. help? Options

[Digndoug]

Ok first im going to start off saying im terrible with girls.. second.. Im slow.. but arnt all guys.

Ok.. awhile ago, like early summer, I posted on here how i met this girl, and i liked her blah blah blah. The problem was she didnt want to start a relationship or anything, cause she was going off to school.. 5 or so hours away. It was fun, but then we just hung otu as friends off an on till she left. I was like what ever things happen for a reason and Il meet someone else. or not worry about it.

As it turns out, she came back this past sat. I hung out with her sunday night we all my friends.. and then Monay she said i should go eat dinner at her house with her lil sis and mom. I was like ok.. then we hung out the rest of the day. Then hung out most of fri night. alone for a bit, went crabing at my granparents house, then went to my friends gathering.

Yeah so the problem is, i dont know if i should bother pursueing her again or what.
Shes a pretty wierd girl.. has fun, is random.. I think just freaking beautiful. She always says im hot, and thats how i get away with things, Not sure what that means. She always gives these looks like the really wants me, or just really likes me, other than a friend.

The problem is I dont want to do anything and make it wierd to hang with her.. If she dosnt really like me like that anymore. Any ideas.. besides just go for it?

Like what are some signs i could look for to know that I should go for it, or just stay friends.. Also Its not about sex or anything like that. Shes the big V and dosnt mess around liek that. I just for some stupid reason shes stuck in my head.

Also thanks for any help, opinions or even just readin my long ass question.

Doug

This post has been edited by Digndoug: Sep 10, 2005 - 10:57 AM

[acenova]

Look, she goes to school 5 hrs away, you guys are friends and all, she still gives you looks, she knows you guys can't have a serious relationship, so just suck it up and make your move. Who cares about the "BIG V"!!! That means she won't have sex, or is waiting, and thats fine, but it doesn't mean she isn't down for whatever else. Just remember NO means NO!!! But you seem like the nice shy and quiet type, so I'm sure you'll treat her w/ respect. Always respect women, whether they deserve it or not.

But in conclusion, I agree w/ Lagos. Make your move. If she doesn't want to, then nothing's lost. She'll go back to school, and by the time you guys see eachother again, you'll both look back and laugh.