jezuz, what an akward time.. Options

[Valo666]

i had the most nervous/akward time of my life today. My ex and i broke up about a year ago, we have talked maybe..3 times since. Every time we talk she always explodes at me and then blocks me on msn or hangs up on me and doesnt talk 2 me for a few months. Any ways, its been buggin the hell out of me. Pretty much after we broke up, she shunned me out of her life. Like she wants me as no part of it what so ever. It really bothers me that for 8 months of my second last year in highschool and my frist serious relationship, just kinda..get forgoten about. Ive been trying to be her friend since we broke up. So for the last month or 2 ive been trying 2 figure out what happened, that makes her want to shut me out of her life. We broke up cuz apparently i was gettin to serious. Any ways, so today i was talking to a friend of mine and she told me to just go out there n talk to her and get all this crap figured out. So i freak out and get in the celi and drive to her place(she lives next city over). So im freakin out the entire way there, im like shaking cuz i havent seen her in sooo long. Any ways, so i finaly muster up the balls to go 2 her house. I pulled into her driveway, park, waited for like 5 min to calm down. Finaly went 2 the door, rang the door bell and her mom answers. I asked if she was home, nope..she moved two more cities over into residence at her school. So i leave, head to the local coffee shop and give her a call on her cell. So she picks up and we talked for about 2 min cuz she had to go to a res. meeting. So im still waitin 2 hear back from her, but it was sooooo akward to talk to her for the first time in like a year. Any ways, it was just sooo weird. Any one else had somethin like this happen to you?? Ill let u guys know what happened when she calls back.

[95gtschick]

i had the same issue... couple of years ago, my boyfriend moved away to a different province, things were great between us when he left.... but then he stopped calling, and one day i called him and he just swore at me, and told me to never call him again.. then like 8 months later he apologized, talked for a few weeks, things were good, then the same thing... now he just refuses to talk to me. i really don't care since i'm sorta engaged to a much better guy now.. but yeah things like that really do confuse me, i finally let it go... it wasn't that i still liked him or wanted to be with him, i was just confused and he was a really good friend.. but oh well, i'm over it, and i'm sure some day you will be as well.

[soulshadow]

i had the same issue... couple of years ago, my boyfriend moved away to a different province, things were great between us when he left.... but then he stopped calling, and one day i called him and he just swore at me, and told me to never call him again.. then like 8 months later he apologized, talked for a few weeks, things were good, then the same thing... now he just refuses to talk to me.  i really don't care since i'm sorta engaged to a much better guy now.. but yeah things like that really do confuse me, i finally let it go... it wasn't that i still liked him or wanted to be with him, i was just confused and he was a really good friend.. but oh well, i'm over it, and i'm sure some day you will be as well.
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Honestly, I meet a girl a while back during spring at an annual confrence and although we had a fun time touring Yosmite in CA with a bunch of other friends. I can't seem to come up with anything to say to her if I called her up. I mean WE LIVE in different states. Shes in the north and Im in the south. It's not like I can say hows the weather? It's like so impossible to carry out a conversation, when you don't even see her face! Wat the heck>? Ok, Long distance relationships just don't plain work. Were all carrying our lives back and forth and if we don't get to hold hands with the person were going out with, it ain't gonna work>! PERIOD. PERIOD. I take it that u slept with her b4? Perhaps thats whats making you hold on to her. Personally she will come back and hunt you later down in life, when your married.

"Sex without love" LOL, I remember one of my college friend writing an essay about this. Ah , brings back memories.