I'm Upset, About A Girl Options

[Celica_Fan]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 18, 2005 - 4:23 PM

[celicaST]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.  
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hey, wow, first off what were you thinking about meeting a girl online? honestly think that she was a gf? what ever happened to old fashioned meeting people face to face. if you have trouble meeting girls, practice! for some its natural, but most are going to have growing pains learning how to. dont hate her, you set yourself up for that. just remember dating is a numbers game. again, as i tell everybody, its all about having fun in the beginning. she obviously has no sense of her emotions, and frankly niether do you. no problem though, just move on and learn from it, thats all you can do, because only fools repeat their mistakes. if you dont start learning now, youll be the same way in a decade, isnt that scary? and dear god, get off of IM or any other of that online dating BS, youll thank yourself. good luck