I'm Upset, About A Girl Options

[Celica_Fan]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 18, 2005 - 4:23 PM

[Celica_Fan]

Thanks soulshadow that really helped older chicks are better and more mature and have experience in the love department and I got sick of monopoly I let her win I hate monopoly it's boring and she went on the swings thats real mature she wasn't too good at french kissing either im sure she bit my tongue and her teeth hit against mine a few times

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 19, 2005 - 9:48 PM

[CoSo]

Thanks soulshadow that really helped older chicks are better and more mature and have experience in the love department and I got sick of monopoly I let her win I hate monopoly it's boring and she went on the swings thats real mature she wasn't too good at french kissing either im sure she bit my tongue and her teeth hit against mine a few times
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Don't take this the wrong way, but you don't sound very mature either. Perhaps you should take a step back and read the comments and insults you have posted in this thread (Some are nonsensical and petty). You have demonstrated that perhaps you are not ready for a serious relationship. Perhaps you should consider going out and having fun with girls instead of getting caught up in a serious relationship. Don't get too asshurt by this chick, learn from it and just move on. As you experience more relationships you'll get a better grasp at handling them without being too emotionally distraught if things don't turn out well.

Btw, PMS happens, she won't be the last girl who has it that you'll need to compromise with. Deal with it. Also, it is not necessarily a sign of maturity, either.