Supid father #&!*^#@, so stupidd....... Options

[soulshadow]

As I came back from a halloween party on Sunday. I found my fater lighting some things on fire right next to the garage/shop where I was doing my fixing with my car every now and then (every day). Well it happens so today, when I went to look at my stuff. There was nothing there anymore. All my underbody plastic cover, wires, nuts, bolts, shift linkage, and engine parts were all gone. My stupid father burnt all the stuff, and now I am tottaly pissed off. I hate that stupid *** old man, hes such a ****** and a ******. He pisses me off so much. All he does is complain and complain why I never want to help out with the farm and ****.

IT's not my fault he wanted to throw away life and live on a sorry *** farm. Its his choice to do that, and when he wants me to help out. Im like ok, but thats if I have time and if I want too. I got a life too ya know! I can't rot at home like how I had to growing up. God damn stupid *** parents. Im 20 Now, I can do whatever I want, stay up as late as I want and live where I want! Coming next spring, Im gonna just move out of the stupid *** farm and live by myself near campus. Gosh I hate how I have to deal with ****** parents and explain things to them when they don't ****** know anything. Any of you guys have to deal with parents, cause your just starting out in life, in college and or all sort of stuff?

[yarik83]

ok having a step father issue myself let me give you a word of advice.

First of all what was his reason for burning all your stuff? Despite his anger he would not burn anything unless you really ticked him off.

Think back and remember what were the causes and other factors involved.

Also saying.. ahh bahh yahh etc and still expecting to live there wont get you nowhere. If you want to move out.. do it now or else you are just contradicting your own feelings.

Furthermore what is expected of you at home is a common thing as the owner reserves the right for whatever. If you do not pay rent and if you do not pay for insurance, food and what not then barking at your father is a waste of time as (if you provoked him you had it coming). Now here is my one and only advice to you...

(Based on me running away form home at 15)

Get a job if you already dont have one (and I am saying this because I know) that would pay for all your expences.. I pay 15000 per year living semi-quiet... not going out etc. that includes rent, food, entertainment (tv+internet), insurance etc

Untill then not doing what you are told to do only would add fuel to fire.

My stepfather had me:
digging trenches, holes, chopping trees, building, climbing roofs in any weather conditions.. etc etc... while not giving me respect and attention a kid of 15 years deserved... I lived with no form of anything in a 8 by 8 ft room with my bed there and nothing else. 3 channels of local tv at home etc etc...

As soon as I moved the heck out I fell into poverty untill I got my income to a level I wanted. Now I am making 25K per year... paying my way through school and having everything I want except a 3sgte'd celi

Hope my experience would help you make your own decisions.