I want you to be my girl?, what does that mean Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

So ive been seeing this guy since the 1st of December and I was at his house on x-mas day just chillin and watching tv and he was silent so I was like umm what are you thinking and he was like “I was thinking that I want you to be my girl” and I paused like they do on the MTV show NEXT when they have to decide if they wanna go on a second date or take the money then I said ok and pecked him. But now im like umm whats the definition of girl and its not like he was like WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND? He just said that he was thinking that he wanted me to be his girl. So whats this mean in boy terms? I don’t wanna ask him cuz then ill look dumb but im not about to go change my myspace to IN A RELATIONSHIP if it doesn’t mean were in an exclusive one on one relationship.

[creis]

ok I actualy read this all the way though, not something I do very often and that means alot since I gata leave for work in 4 and a half hours and I worked 13 hours today. and probably 13 more tomarrow and the next 2 days

From a guy who takes realationshipt seriously the frist think im gana say is

because im unattrative

Tina, you are attractive.

seccondly I would not just ask him, thats the best thing to do at the time but since that time is long past so is your chace. the best thing to do is go with your feelings if you want to be his gf then ask him to be your bf simple, easy. chances are it took a good deal of currage to say that line, as direct as it was. [guy language] being his girl is the like like a 3/4 way point to being his g/f, not fully a "girlfriend" but a g/f none the less.

further more the x-mas day thing is probably more of a qoincedance then anything else, although I'm sure it corssed his mind.

about us not being complicated, its true where not genealy complicated however, girls make us complicated, ya'll make us think about things harder thus we send odd signals wile were buisly decifering/guessing signals given to us and worring about what happens if we decifer/guess wrong.

[guy language] "your my boy blue" wile the deff of that is an acceptice or friendship between to male's, its pretty gay.

lastly, I would not base anything of his myspace status, chanes are he will not be changing that untill its a very surton thing, if at all, maily because, who gives a $hit