how u keep the spark in ur relationship??, just currious wut you guys do... Options

[LBCxGUY]

yeah as topic says. for those in long term relationships well in relationsips in general. how do you keep that smile on your significant other?? wut do you do when things get kinda.....bleh...i just want and need your input. thanks!!!!

sang

[soulshadow]

Life without the kid = GOOD!!

Life with the kid= BADDD!!

Basically, your screwed once you have a kid. Freedom goes bye bye to parties and what not, or that fun time alone and what not.

your pretty much stuck with the kid, work, kid, sleep, and repeat, repeat, repeat, untill your kids are 18 and over then you finally get some freedom at last, but at that age of 50 or up you either dead or so old you don't feel like drag racing with some kids in there high tech equipped cars compared to your crappy EFI car.
Who knows what the future holds? It was from Carb to EFI, and now its gonna be Electric. They might even have EHB....*prononuce* ebb, or Electronic Hyper Stream Boost.

[jgreening]

Life without the kid = GOOD!!

Life with the kid= BADDD!!

Basically, your screwed once you have a kid. Freedom goes bye bye to parties and what not, or that fun time alone and what not.

your pretty much stuck with the kid, work, kid, sleep, and repeat, repeat, repeat, untill your kids are 18 and over then you finally get some freedom at last,

I am sure glad you aren't my dad.

I will tell you that spending time with my children is the most rewarding part of my life. Moms and Dads need breaks too but for the vast majority of my vacations I would much rather go on a week vacation with my kids than without them.

In terms of keeping the spark, I think make sure you: (1) listen to her closely; (2) empathize which she is emotional; (3) maintain eye contact when she is talking to you; (4) touch her in tender, non-sexual ways often; and (5) don't be a speedy gonzales in bed.