how u keep the spark in ur relationship??, just currious wut you guys do... Options

[LBCxGUY]

yeah as topic says. for those in long term relationships well in relationsips in general. how do you keep that smile on your significant other?? wut do you do when things get kinda.....bleh...i just want and need your input. thanks!!!!

sang

[creis]

do something compleatly random, take advantage of that fack things are getting a little dull, like forget her birthday, may be hard if she reminds you all the time, but try and get her to think you forgot all about it then (if its a day she has to work) show up like right before her lunch at her work and take her away for the rest of the day, with or without the kid, (would have to plan with her boss, etc.) take her for a great drive, to a senic spot for a quite nice lunch, a walk, have a big plan for the rest of the day or even days if you can.

try and find out things about yourself that she knows (like little habbits or things you would never do) then do it, change it, let her know your not just setting into a gruve, and want to keep things interesting. chances are you know her better then anyone, so you really gata think about what she likes and go from there.

going on a romantic date is probalby the least exspensive date you can go on, because romance is not something you can buy, like a sunset walk, or a long drive though the senic backroads. however involving some flowers or a small teddy bear is always a plus.

Your married right, if you have videos of the wedding how about putting the baby to sleep one night, cuddling up on the couch, a few candels lit in the background, and watching em, with something light to eat.

chances are that regardless of the place, the time, or how much fun you have if you go the extra mile to show her a good time and that after all thoes years you still love her as much as the day you said "I Do" there is no way she would not be thrilled with you.

~ my 2 cents.....

This post has been edited by creis: Jan 22, 2006 - 2:51 AM