Girl trouble i need help!! Options

[94STcoupeKyle]

Hi, well me and my GF have been together for a year and almost 4 months now, me and her just broke up like last week but were trying to work it out, what kind of date could i take her on to get back together?

our 1 year and four months will be on valentines day so what could i do for her that she might like?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i look at it this way..u broke up for a reason so why get back together??

its called a break up cuz its broken!

but if u must continue with trying to fix it then do what u did on ur first date with her back in the day

[celicaST]

i look at it this way..u broke up for a reason so why get back together??

its called a break up cuz its broken!

but if u must continue with trying to fix it then do what u did on ur first date with her back in the day

im going to have to agree with nat on this one man. MOST of the time, i tell people after a break up of any kind to just let it go. sometimes you can work it out depending on the breakup and the chemistry between the two. let me get this straight, you broke up with her, and a week later you want to get back together with her? are you afraid of being single? do you love her? if you cant imagine saying those 3 words with you heart, just let her go. i think a lot of younger people (im only 19 myself) stay in relationships for the wrong reasons. some guys, and girls, are just pansies when it comes to breaking it off. if it aint working, it aint working.

also you say you miss her now, and thats understandable, but how about in a couple months? last thing you want to do is appear desperate to get back together with her. my advice, play it cool for a month or so. if she likes you, trust me, shell try to keep in touch with you by phone at least. keep phone calls short, but keep your cool. dont underestimate how absence creates desire, to an extent.