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[Phat_99CeliGT]

Tonight i told a girl how i felt about her. i told her everything i thought, felt, dreamed, and could offer.
Lets just say that after writing 2 pages so i didn't miss anything and getting the nerve to tell her, i didn't get the response i was hoping for.
im not sure how to take her response. i mean, she didn't say she didn't like me. she was suprised that i liked her.
See, she is comming out of a ****ty relationship. i been by her side the whole time. she tells me everything. her BF is an ass ans just keeps her around to do laundry and a weekend booty call. i hate him with a passion. she has been trying to call him for 3 days and won't answer. she left him VMs telling him its over. shes going crazy waiting on his call.

She is a great girl and deserves ALOT better, and i KNOW i can give her what she was and needs.

I just hope she doesn't go back to him.

I don't know what to do.

should i just keep on doing what i been doing? be her friend and just deal if she takes him back?
if she takes him back, he won't let her talk to me or hang out with me anymore.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

Most guys just treat their women like crap. Women like it that way. They say they don't, but they do. I won't treat my girl bad, even though I know it would benifit me sometimes. They'll be a girl who responds to this and says, "I don't like mean guys," and she'll really think that. But she'll actually like them. Women are stupid. But it's an evolutionary advantage, I guess. Look at Apes. The biggest and meanest Silver Back gets the women. The problem is, girls confuse this meaness with the ability to protect, and it become attractive. I'm a big guy, and if it calls for it, I will be mean to those who threaten my friends or family, but I won't be mean to my girl, and women see that as weakness. lol, stupid women.

You're too nice, man. It sucks so much. It takes forever for girls to realise that they are better with guys like us. Guys who want to treat them right. I hate women. My girlfriend irritates me sometimes. I have to remind her every now and then how I have a black belt, wrestled for 2 years, and have been boxing for 8 years now. I've seen pictures of you, and we're about the same size. Girls don't get that we big guys and put the hurtin on those who may harm. When your bigger, you don't have as much reason to be mean either. Most guys know to stay clear, but women stay clear cause we're too nice. And like the statement I wrote above, I'll end with, women are stupid.

EDIT: Just to add, it is possible to get the girl. I took mine for a jerk and we've been together for 4+ years now. You have to show her an agressive side, or at least a strong side. My girlfriend said that she thought of me just as a friend untill one day I got her to come to my house and jump on the trampoleen. It was wet out, and she didn't want to get her socks wet, and she left her shoes on the porch. So I asker her if she wanted me to cary her over there. She was impressed by my strength to cary her, and she's been mine since.

This post has been edited by Bigmeanbulldog55: Feb 14, 2006 - 1:16 AM