I feel like ripping my hair out. Options

[Phat_99CeliGT]

Tonight i told a girl how i felt about her. i told her everything i thought, felt, dreamed, and could offer.
Lets just say that after writing 2 pages so i didn't miss anything and getting the nerve to tell her, i didn't get the response i was hoping for.
im not sure how to take her response. i mean, she didn't say she didn't like me. she was suprised that i liked her.
See, she is comming out of a ****ty relationship. i been by her side the whole time. she tells me everything. her BF is an ass ans just keeps her around to do laundry and a weekend booty call. i hate him with a passion. she has been trying to call him for 3 days and won't answer. she left him VMs telling him its over. shes going crazy waiting on his call.

She is a great girl and deserves ALOT better, and i KNOW i can give her what she was and needs.

I just hope she doesn't go back to him.

I don't know what to do.

should i just keep on doing what i been doing? be her friend and just deal if she takes him back?
if she takes him back, he won't let her talk to me or hang out with me anymore.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

I'm in a similar situation. I've been friends with this guy I work with for almost 2 years, and for over a year he's been datin this other girl. I liked him before they started dating, but then I ended up datin someone else too. Well we broke up & I still really like the guy from work. We've been hanging out alot for the past couple of months and he knows how I feel about him. He likes me too, but also cares for his girlfriend and doesnt want to just dump her for someone else. She doesnt want him hangin out with me, but he told her he's not gonna blow me off when we're still good friends. Although I really like him & obviously wouldn't mind if they broke up, I'm still there as a friend for him & try to talk stuff out w him. I'm just patiently waiting on him, being the good friend- talking/listening when he needs it & just hangin out. It sorta sucks sometimes, but hopefully itll be worth the wait.
As far just finding another girl to take your mind off her, unless you really care about someone else & seriously want to be with them, dont date them for the sake of forgetting someone else. Also, if she really considers you as a good friend, she shouldnt let her boyfriend come between you.

Homewrecker. If he's happy, and you really like him, you should want him to be happy. Just tell him strate up how it is. No since in screwing up a good relationship. When a person is in a bad relationship, it's okay to go after them. It'll just cause trouble to stick around. Since I got my girlfriend about 4 years ago, I stopped talking to as many girls. I don't hang out with them at all. I do this out of respect for my girlfriend. That, and I don't want to ever risk anything happening to cause problems between us. I'm a guy, and I know what will happen if I'm around another girl too much. I hate myself for that. Stupid testoserone. But I swear I'll never let anything happen, I care to much for my girl. I just don't even like thinking about other women. Makes me feel like a bad person.