I feel like ripping my hair out. Options

[Phat_99CeliGT]

Tonight i told a girl how i felt about her. i told her everything i thought, felt, dreamed, and could offer.
Lets just say that after writing 2 pages so i didn't miss anything and getting the nerve to tell her, i didn't get the response i was hoping for.
im not sure how to take her response. i mean, she didn't say she didn't like me. she was suprised that i liked her.
See, she is comming out of a ****ty relationship. i been by her side the whole time. she tells me everything. her BF is an ass ans just keeps her around to do laundry and a weekend booty call. i hate him with a passion. she has been trying to call him for 3 days and won't answer. she left him VMs telling him its over. shes going crazy waiting on his call.

She is a great girl and deserves ALOT better, and i KNOW i can give her what she was and needs.

I just hope she doesn't go back to him.

I don't know what to do.

should i just keep on doing what i been doing? be her friend and just deal if she takes him back?
if she takes him back, he won't let her talk to me or hang out with me anymore.

[johnsonius_87]

I am not a homewrecker & I do want him to be happy. I'm not doin anything, and we're not screwin around. "When a person is in a bad relationship, it's okay to go after them." He is in sorta a bad relationship- they argue & go days w/o talking & have diff religions & dont have much in common etc etc. I'm not attempting to "go after him" though, but we're friends so yeah I'm gonna see & talk to him. I see him at work & he comes over on occasion b/c he's friends w/ my brother. I understand how you could get the wrong idea about it, but I'm honestly not trying to break them up. I've been on her side of a situation like this & I would never do that to anyone. Unless you know whats been said between us or how we act around each other you have no right to say i'm a homewrecker or anything else.