I feel like ripping my hair out. Options

[Phat_99CeliGT]

Tonight i told a girl how i felt about her. i told her everything i thought, felt, dreamed, and could offer.
Lets just say that after writing 2 pages so i didn't miss anything and getting the nerve to tell her, i didn't get the response i was hoping for.
im not sure how to take her response. i mean, she didn't say she didn't like me. she was suprised that i liked her.
See, she is comming out of a ****ty relationship. i been by her side the whole time. she tells me everything. her BF is an ass ans just keeps her around to do laundry and a weekend booty call. i hate him with a passion. she has been trying to call him for 3 days and won't answer. she left him VMs telling him its over. shes going crazy waiting on his call.

She is a great girl and deserves ALOT better, and i KNOW i can give her what she was and needs.

I just hope she doesn't go back to him.

I don't know what to do.

should i just keep on doing what i been doing? be her friend and just deal if she takes him back?
if she takes him back, he won't let her talk to me or hang out with me anymore.

[creamed_corn]

Ah youth.

Move on. Right now. Forget about her. Ignore her. Get your ass out of there. Move on.

Trust me you'll respect yourself a hell of a lot more for it in the future.

This is the voice of experience talking. You're way too emotionally tied up in this and it'll only strangle you to death. There are lots of great women out there, don't get hung up on one.

[gt_driFFter]

Ah youth.

Move on. Right now. Forget about her. Ignore her. Get your ass out of there. Move on.

Trust me you'll respect yourself a hell of a lot more for it in the future.

This is the voice of experience talking. You're way too emotionally tied up in this and it'll only strangle you to death. There are lots of great women out there, don't get hung up on one.

Jarod, you will never hear better advice on the matter, than what this guy just said. Trust me, I'm dealt with the SAME situation you did. I held on to what wasn't there, always hoping it would turn out to be more than friends. You will save yourself a lot of heartache if you just let it go. I know right now she might seem like the only girl you want, but i swear to you that will change.

-Josh

[creamed_corn]

Ah youth.

Move on. Right now. Forget about her. Ignore her. Get your ass out of there. Move on.

Trust me you'll respect yourself a hell of a lot more for it in the future.

This is the voice of experience talking. You're way too emotionally tied up in this and it'll only strangle you to death. There are lots of great women out there, don't get hung up on one.

Jarod, you will never hear better advice on the matter, than what this guy just said. Trust me, I'm dealt with the SAME situation you did. I held on to what wasn't there, always hoping it would turn out to be more than friends. You will save yourself a lot of heartache if you just let it go. I know right now she might seem like the only girl you want, but i swear to you that will change.

-Josh

You know I think it's a stage every man goes through... the whole naive about women/friendship stage. You make the mistake a couple times of falling for a woman you can't have, you make an ass of yourself, and you learn not to make it again. It's part of growing up... kind of a rite of passage. Think about it; lots of guys in their 20's have female friends, but look at 40 year old plus guys... how many of them have good female friends? None. That's because they're smart.

Oh, and also note, watch out, because a lot of women are just attention whores that want you to like them and have no intention of returning the favor. They think they're hot but it all roots back to insecurity about themselves. Remember: the better they try to look, the more insecure they probably are. I have a feeling a few of these girls might even be sharking around this forum...

This post has been edited by creamed_corn: Feb 15, 2006 - 1:27 AM