okay guys and gals......, i need some serious advice Options

[celicagurl152003]

Okay well here it is. I have been with this guy in a long distance relationship for a year and three months now. It's been all good between us but now I'm begining to wonder. You see I have only been able to see him once . And I traveled down there to see him. Now his car right now is going under a major engine rebuild and anyone that knows the 300zx knows it's a $$ pitt, and I have even helped pay for this. Now I don't mind this knowing how much cars are and being a car enthusist myself. But I really really miss him. I have talked to him about him coming up and told him for his birthday I will paint his car, basically he pays for the paint I don't charge any labor so on and so forth. Well at first he was like I'm gonna come up for a month in march, now it has moved to june. He seems to be putting off him coming up here and when i asked why he says because his car isn't done and he doesn't have he $$ to get the car done yet. So I told him why can't he come to see me and later i can paint his car when he has the funds. Well he keeps making excuses for why not to come up. Now I'm going down there again to fl which is like 6hrs away from him, and asked if he would come see me and he made more excuses why he can't do that. I love him to death but I feel like I keep making efforts for nothing. He seems like he can't be bothered to come see me and everytime i ask he makes and excure not to. I feel like an idiot because I feel as if I'm too blind to see what is really going on here, is it just me or does this not sound right.

This post has been edited by celicagurl152003: Mar 10, 2006 - 9:05 PM

[bloodrain]

dont wanna burst your bubble but long distance relationships RARELY work out

[Jen]

dont wanna burst your bubble but long distance relationships RARELY work out

I was in one for 3 years. It ended on mutual terms, but definitely not because of distance. They do work, but BOTH have to put effort into it. Obviously he is not. I know you love him, but I'd get out now before you get your heart broken even more.