Serious Friend Problems, What should I do Options

[Boss-Celica]

I was hanging out with my friends saturday night and one of them had a little spring powered BB gun. So we thought it would be fun to shoot random things in a parking lot. Then later that night I had to leave and go see some other friends. By the time I was done with them it was 3am and I was tired and decided to go home. I roll into my drive and my friends that I was hanging out with first called me and asked where I was, and I told them I just got home. So I was just about to get out of my car when I see a car pull behind me next to my drive way. So didn't move and I looked through me mirror and it was my friends but then I hear a sound as if they shot my car with the BB gun and then they spead away. I got of the car and looked and saw a dent where they shot. They hit my side a fer inches from my passenger JDM taillight. I was very heated and angry. This was my best friend that did it, whom I have known for 14 years and grew up with. He had no reason to do it. I couldn't believe that he actaully did that. So I decided to call him and yell at him, which made things ever worse. First he denied it and then when I told him I was sitting in the car he said he, he should have taken more shots to anger me even more. I flipped the f@#k out on him. And told him our friendshio was over. A few says later he apologized and said he was being stupid and said he would pay for repairs, but now I still can't trust him. Am I over reacting? Should we keep our friendship?

[Supersprynt]

To Boss-Celica: It's not so easy... Try hard as you can, but belive me, you will never forget this...


To all Folks: maybe I'm "different" or "to much emotionalist" but tell me:

1. Why somebody do anything bad to a real friend?
2. What if nobody seen him to do that? Would he pay for repairs too?
3. Do you think that word "sorry" clean everything? How do you know he will not do that again? (not another material item thing... IMHO betrayal is much worst between friends than anything elese)

sorry for english, I hope you understand what I mean...

1. Nobody is perfect. Say you and ur buddies are drinking and he passes out and its hilarious to write all over him. To you its funny, he's going to wake up pissed off, its not the same but everythings in perspective.

2. He called & apologized and said he would pay for it why even go into What ifs..."

3. Sorry doesnt clean anything but thats the word u say when you feel bad, its the first step. This isnt betrayal, you guys are taking this too far. Betrayal is when your best friend dates your ex-girlfriend behind your back.

[Sh0gunkid8721]

To Boss-Celica: It's not so easy... Try hard as you can, but belive me, you will never forget this...


To all Folks: maybe I'm "different" or "to much emotionalist" but tell me:

1. Why somebody do anything bad to a real friend?
2. What if nobody seen him to do that? Would he pay for repairs too?
3. Do you think that word "sorry" clean everything? How do you know he will not do that again? (not another material item thing... IMHO betrayal is much worst between friends than anything elese)

sorry for english, I hope you understand what I mean...

1. Nobody is perfect. Say you and ur buddies are drinking and he passes out and its hilarious to write all over him. To you its funny, he's going to wake up pissed off, its not the same but everythings in perspective.

2. He called & apologized and said he would pay for it why even go into What ifs..."

3. Sorry doesnt clean anything but thats the word u say when you feel bad, its the first step. This isnt betrayal, you guys are taking this too far. Betrayal is when your best friend dates your ex-girlfriend behind your back.

Number one. THeres a huge difference between damaging a friend's property like that and writing on ur friend as a joke.

Number 2. A true friend wouldnt lie to u like that in front of ur face and then say a d*ck thing like that.

Number 3. Apologies dont necessarily fix everything.