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[bloodrain]

Read this thread before asking a question, it will answer most of your basic questions.

I almost forgot. THE ABSOLUTE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT APPROACHING WOMEN IS BODY LANGUAGE. The best advice I can give you is just stay calm, slow your words down more than normal and give her time to answer your questions. Also dont fidgit with things, thats a big no-no.


lol well guys, I have actually recieved a few PM's from people (names will be hidden unless they want to be revieled) And I decided to start my own thread. If you have any questions on dating, love or attracting the opposite sex, feel free to PM or write a question in this thread and I will give you advice on what I have learned. And keep in mind, its ADVICE. Anywho you can find some older advice in this thread

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 19, 2006 - 10:06 AM

[celicaGT96]

ok this is something that has been really bothering me lateley and I dont know what to do.
Theres this girl that moved down over here not too long ago and when she moved down here I met her beacuse a friend introduced us. Right away we connected and I was one of the very few people she talked to over here and still am. We have since then been talking online and I see her every so often with my other friend. I really like her alot and I cant stop thinking about her. Theres only one BIG problem and thats that she has a bf already...

I totally respect that and all but its hard to just talk to her all normal like nothings there. What Im asking is, would it be wrong of me to just let her know how I feel??

I do know that she fights alot with her bf but I dont get into her buisness so I just ignore the topic.

[bloodrain]

ok this is something that has been really bothering me lateley and I dont know what to do.
Theres this girl that moved down over here not too long ago and when she moved down here I met her beacuse a friend introduced us. Right away we connected and I was one of the very few people she talked to over here and still am. We have since then been talking online and I see her every so often with my other friend. I really like her alot and I cant stop thinking about her. Theres only one BIG problem and thats that she has a bf already...

I totally respect that and all but its hard to just talk to her all normal like nothings there. What Im asking is, would it be wrong of me to just let her know how I feel??

I do know that she fights alot with her bf but I dont get into her buisness so I just ignore the topic.

Ah the age old dilema. Its a simple answer, you dont tell her anything. Simple as that. What most guys dont realize is they give all the power to women. The very second you tell a girl you have feelings for her you lost all the power. The real problem is this, your deciding if your good enough for her, when in reality it should be is she good enough for you. Now think to yourself, if she has a boyfriend, and breaks up with him to be with you, what makes you think she wont do it again? If a girl EVER does that, dont ask questions, dont make excuses, just leave. History ALWAYS repeats itself. Now if you still want to be with her (and im assuming you do) all you have to do is be patient. (Refer to link at the top of the page) The first thing you have to do is NOT always be there when she wants, like I said, girls want what they cant have. And by waiting around hand and foot for her your doing exactly opposite of what you should be doing. If she is having problems with her boyfriend, dont try to interfere because more than likely it will not work out for her. Be patient, its also ok to start talking to other girls. If she has any feelings for you it will only fuel the fire. (Again, refer to my other page for DATING guidelines). If you can give me some more info on her I will be more than happy to give you more advice on what to do. But right now this statement is kinda vague because all I know is "you like her, she has a boyfriend" lol.