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[bloodrain]

Read this thread before asking a question, it will answer most of your basic questions.

I almost forgot. THE ABSOLUTE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT APPROACHING WOMEN IS BODY LANGUAGE. The best advice I can give you is just stay calm, slow your words down more than normal and give her time to answer your questions. Also dont fidgit with things, thats a big no-no.


lol well guys, I have actually recieved a few PM's from people (names will be hidden unless they want to be revieled) And I decided to start my own thread. If you have any questions on dating, love or attracting the opposite sex, feel free to PM or write a question in this thread and I will give you advice on what I have learned. And keep in mind, its ADVICE. Anywho you can find some older advice in this thread

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 19, 2006 - 10:06 AM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I get what your sayin Bloodrain.... I dont ever really find myself cheating. I would end it before I'd ever stoop that low.

I've thought of both choices to be honest...

K my reason's for hanging in there and continuing...

His job he's got in the Army will give him A LOT of leave time... He's going to be a Linguist (sp?). Basically he'll get every federal holiday off and then some more... Which means he's gonna be around a lot, but then again he wont.

Then also... It wont really matter that he's gone, cuz even if he was still around I wouldnt really have the time to hnag around with him. Cuz I'm gonna go to school in the winter. I'm gonna be far too busy with that, like homework, projects, studying all that bs and then plus working. i wont really have time for a boyfriend With him leaving it's kinda a bonus... Cuz now where doing what we want to get our lives all figured out, and we cant really slow each other down... In my eyes I see it as a positive thing...

There's a few other reasons... but thats basically it...

Then I thought of just ending it... cuz well I'm still very young. I dont wanna like make a mistake by waiting around for someone, when later having it end... Cuz then whats the outcome of that? I waited around for someone who was never around, then when they were around it ended and i wasted my time for nothing, when I coulda been out and about with other people ya know... finding out what type of person i really want... Thats the main reaosn why I thought about ending it.

And then yes the military does change people... but not that much. I would know My best friend left for the army after I graduated. She calls me every now and then and its as if nothing really changed. She's got the same old sense of humor, and everything. I think the only thing that's changed about her is that now she's more responsible, WAY more mature, and well serious. But she's still herself... But that's just one person from the military. I dont know what could happen to my boyfriend... But from what Ive seen with my best friend, that would be an added bonus to my boyfriend lol

Im not too worried about the military changing him... Ive hung around a lot of military people, and I love them all, they are all just so awesome... I'm actually kinda excited to see what the military will do to my boyfriend...

For now I'm gonna hang in there and see what happens... When he leaves in the middle of September, he'll be back for Christmas... 3 months basically... We'll see what 3 months can do...

It definetly sucks tho...

Good luck Sabrina :-) If its meant to be it will all work out.

Sabrina not to scare u cuz from what ive seen ur bf does not seem low and not to say all military personel are but...have you been on base before? Barracks are full of horny dudes and its not weird to see a few guys in line to do a military hoe (the girls that flock to a man in uniform) Ive been on base more than a handful of times and it can get nuts (i dont know from like first hand experience just from walking around and observing) <--dont want yall getting the wrong idea

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Aug 19, 2006 - 3:16 AM