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[bloodrain]

Read this thread before asking a question, it will answer most of your basic questions.

I almost forgot. THE ABSOLUTE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT APPROACHING WOMEN IS BODY LANGUAGE. The best advice I can give you is just stay calm, slow your words down more than normal and give her time to answer your questions. Also dont fidgit with things, thats a big no-no.


lol well guys, I have actually recieved a few PM's from people (names will be hidden unless they want to be revieled) And I decided to start my own thread. If you have any questions on dating, love or attracting the opposite sex, feel free to PM or write a question in this thread and I will give you advice on what I have learned. And keep in mind, its ADVICE. Anywho you can find some older advice in this thread

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 19, 2006 - 10:06 AM

[JoKeRkId613]

wow. this thread is real depressing. anyway, i would like some advice while it's still free.

im currently 19 years old. i used to be a friggin pimp in high school. now that im in college and work fulltime i find myself not having as much time as id like to dedicate to a gf. ive been working at this place for 2 years and hold a professional position and deal with fortune 500 clients all day long. i think this has grown my mentallity a lot and i find myself not enjoying the same conversations/friends that i used to back when i was in high school. i also think i lost a lot of self-esteem and confidence in myself. i try to be myself when i go out. i try to talk to girls but it's not how it used to be when i'd go out in high school because i find all girls i meet to be immature and focused on dumb ****. not to say that im focused on all the right things, but in my opinion, dumb ****. anyway, i wish i could go somewhere where they have hot chicks with dreams and goals that go to school and work or just go to school. is there such a place? ive met girls like that but they're all 30+ rich chicks but i dont believe in the whole "age aint nothin but a number" thing. i mean, i still hit the old rich chicks, but im looking for a real relationship. its been almost 2 years since my last real relationship and i kinda miss the whole relationship thing. i really dont know what to do. perhaps im approaching this the wrong way? i dunno, life is too short and i dont wanna end up alone or anything.

*sigh* im going to some strip club now to pay for some ass. jk, but its saturday night. for now, i guess i'll try to have more of an open mind and see if i find anyone interesting.

thanks.

[bloodrain]

wow. this thread is real depressing. anyway, i would like some advice while it's still free.

im currently 19 years old. i used to be a friggin pimp in high school. now that im in college and work fulltime i find myself not having as much time as id like to dedicate to a gf. ive been working at this place for 2 years and hold a professional position and deal with fortune 500 clients all day long. i think this has grown my mentallity a lot and i find myself not enjoying the same conversations/friends that i used to back when i was in high school. i also think i lost a lot of self-esteem and confidence in myself. i try to be myself when i go out. i try to talk to girls but it's not how it used to be when i'd go out in high school because i find all girls i meet to be immature and focused on dumb ****. not to say that im focused on all the right things, but in my opinion, dumb ****. anyway, i wish i could go somewhere where they have hot chicks with dreams and goals that go to school and work or just go to school. is there such a place? ive met girls like that but they're all 30+ rich chicks but i dont believe in the whole "age aint nothin but a number" thing. i mean, i still hit the old rich chicks, but im looking for a real relationship. its been almost 2 years since my last real relationship and i kinda miss the whole relationship thing. i really dont know what to do. perhaps im approaching this the wrong way? i dunno, life is too short and i dont wanna end up alone or anything.

*sigh* im going to some strip club now to pay for some ass. jk, but its saturday night. for now, i guess i'll try to have more of an open mind and see if i find anyone interesting.

thanks.

Ah jason jason jason, if my memory serves me right the first time I saw you was when we all met up at BCC and you were like look how dirty the inside of my car is, lol. Good times, good times. Ok, now on to the important stuff. The first thing you have to realize is this, your young, just like me. Your NOT going to find the perfect girl at this age. So stop thinking your going to find her. Second after you've done the first thing I've told you, now your in the right mind set to start your search. From what you've said about your job, you take things very seriously, which is a doubled edged sword. You probably work so hard that the second you leave work, your still thinking about work, much like me. What you have to do is force yourself NOT to worry about anything, when you leave work there is nothing you can do to change anything thats going to happen, so just let things fall into place. What i've noticed is 70% of my 'despression' comes from work, while im at work I give 110% to make sure things run smoothly, the second I open the door on my celi, I put my music on and just clear my head... relax... If you try and go dating while your still worried about work, lets just say you already lost the battle, and the war isnt looking much better. So give that a shot first, Im sure you've heard the saying "work hard, play harder." So what I want you to do now is go back through both of my threads and look at the advice I gave other people, most of it will revolve around 'its all about you' and 'be happy single,' once you can accomplish that NOW your in the right position to pick up pimp status again, lol. So from what it sounds like you dont have any problems talking to girls, so what I want you to do is work on your single life and find out what makes you happy. What hobbies are fun, what sports do u enjoy watching (or playing) ect. And as always, if you give me more details I can give you more advice. And keep in mind its all just advice, whatever you want to do is up to you. And whenever your in hollywood give me a call, we'll go chill and see what trouble we cant get into, haha! Anywho, sorry about posting later than I thought, I was takin care of the misses, if you know what i mean ;-)

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 19, 2006 - 9:59 PM