What do I do?, im 21 years old Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so I still live at home and have a snoop of a mother. She has numerous times gone thru my room and has made an account on Myspace. When she tells me something on my page is inappropriate we erupt at eachother and she tells me how I look like a Hoe in some of my pics. so I end up taking them down and she promises that she will not go on and check anymore cuz I tell her that its the reason I dont tell her about anything in my life cuz she snoops for the answers. Well guess what she did last night? She snooped on my page again. Keep in mind that my profile is set to private so I dont know how she saw two pics and I went thru my friend list and couldnt find any that i didnt know and thought maybe she made a fake profile. So now I dont know what to do. Im over being 21 years old and having my mother snoop around. Ive grown up a good kid..never did a drug, never smoked a cigarette, didnt start being interested in boys till 17, tell them where im going when i walk out the door, etc (not saying ur a bad kid if u do anything i just stated) So i dont know why at 21 im still being treated like im under the age of 18. My parents arent strict. Im allowed to go out till whenever and what not but its like cuz I dont open up to her about every detail of my life (pretty much no detail) she feels the need to snoop.

[mzztoyota]

If you can't move out, at least keep invovled in life outside of your house. The less your there and the more you associate with the outside world, the more your mom will have to accept that you are an adult and that you are going to leave the nest some day.

You can have a good relationship with her, but she doesn't, and shouldn't have to be your "friend."

Keep up the good vibes as much as you can, try and have a nice, sit-down, no-yelling conversation and ask for some provacy. Ask her if she would treat her sister or her coworkers this way, because you are an adult like them and have the responsibility of choosing what you want to do with yourself.

God, my mom wouldn't even want to know about all of the "adult" or "mature" forums I'm in, and if she found out I was, she'd probably cancel her internet. If you're mom is flippin' over myspace and this forum, she needs a reality check...

like I said, sit down, don't yell, restrain yourself, and politely ask for some space. You don't go through her stuff...why should she go through yours?