Is there such a thing as, "JUST CHILLIN'"?, Between a single guy and girl? Options

[ToYCeLi8]

I ask b/c Im BORED! lol.. No, I still believe that a GUY and GIRL CANT be"BEST FRIENDS" or JUST FRIENDS if both are single and both straight. A call after 10pm is considered a BOOTY CALL. All those types of scenarios. I think there is always that sexual tension there?

Im also bringing this up b/c last night I went 2 "just chill" with a classmate at the Santa Monica Promenade for a few hours. But nothing even close to sexual happened. NO holding hands, NO Kissing, NO hugs, Not being when we said good-bye, shoot, Not even a good-bye hand shake,haha. Only time I kinda hugged her was when a bum wouldnt leave us alone and I grabbed her closer to me to walk away.

So now, am I being a hypocrite? Im not gunna lie, she is DAMN GOOD LOOKIN! But I am TRYING 2 "just be friends" with her. Oh, and we're are goin to the movies in a bit with her 2 kids, then to see the Lion King Musical on the 28th with her daughter. So what to do? What do you guys think about this whole thing?

David

[DriveCelicaST]

My best friend use to be a girl. Now she's my girlfriend =D

Anyways.. If you sleep with the girl with 2 kids, be prepared for a relationship....or else, all of a sudden one of the kids are going to be yours! I think alot of girls with kids are going to be looking for serious relationship so their kids can have a dad.

Welp. Good luck. Nothing like Lion King to help you score =D haha

[Slick]

My best friend use to be a girl. Now she's my girlfriend =D

^^ Same here! Unfortunately, no matter how good the relationship looks, when a man and a women spend a lot of time together, nature is going to get involved. Especially if you are young! As they grow older, people tend to look past the carnal issues and "friendly" relationships have more of a chance of surviving. However, the temptation is always there at the back his/her head. Good luck!